I Am Bad Ass is a space where you will learn how to overcome your trauma.
Our biggest struggle as women is inability to connect to our Feminine. We cannot heal or transmute pain while we are in mind, masculine energy.
I’ve worked with women all over the world as well as healing from trauma myself, and regardless of how you grew up, as a whole we carry shame in our Yoni and sexual energy field.
I’m am here to share that you absolutely can heal, you can breakthrough and you can get into your power!
You are Bad Ass! I see you.
If vulnerability is your kryptonite listen now
I am sharing the 2 shifts you must make in order to wake up feeling fulfilled and happy.
If you are the strong one who thinks…
“My life is so hard. I have to do this all alone. I’m not going to let you get away with this. The world is against me.”
This is for you!!!
At your essence you are not this negative woman!
You were NOT put here to complain and feel sorry for yourself.
Let me put this into perspective…
If you had 5 minutes left to live would you be feeling sorry for yourself?
Would this annoy you?
Would you talk about the one thing that’s negative?
You’d be telling your family and friends how much you love them. You’d focus on the beauty and the love and what you’re grateful for.
There are 2 shifts that you must make in order to close the gap between where you are and where you want to be.
You have the super power of FREE WILL!
You are the author, the director, and the producer of your life.
I can teach you exactly HOW to trust and be vulnerable so you finally live the happy, incredible life you were meant to live.
Book in for a call with my team asap to get this party started.
If you’ve had the same problems for 3 months listen
If you’ve had the same problems for 3 months listen
Are you in a victim consciousness?
Yes or No?
I thought the victim mentality was people who refused to get a job, refused to work hard, and people who just took energy from others.
I almost killed myself to make others happy and I always said yes to everything.
When you believe life is happening to you and you feel out of control…
When you have the same problems you had yesterday, last week, 3 months ago, last year…
When you chronically think about what went wrong from the past…
You are in a victim consciousness.
You can be smart, hard working, make 6 figures…
AND be in victim consciousness.
We’re always manifesting as a default.
We’re either expanding or shrinking our immune system.
Chronic thinking is manifesting as either a tonic or toxic chemical in the body.
The most incredible, mind blowing freedom I’ve ever experienced is…
The problems you have at your current vibe do NOT exist at a higher level of awareness.
An insecure woman thinks it’s her husband's fault, and her team's fault for taking advantage of her.
She’s obsessed with the symptoms.
A confident woman doesn't have these problems.
The answer: A woman who feels insecure must expand her awareness, raise her consciousness, become more confident and those problems are no longer there.
Because a confident woman does not look to others for self worth.
If you’re ready to have fun and enjoy your life while getting more successful in your career book in a call with my team.
How to stop seeking validation
As a high performance coach I work with successful, high achieving women.
I’m talking about financially free, hard working, motivated, Bad Ass women who wake up super stressed and overwhelmed.
We have not been taught how to use our masculine as a tool.
Women have No clue how to be strong and vulnerable at the same time… Which creates so much stress and pressure.
I’m financially free and I’m burnt out is NOT goals.
Women are getting more and more masculine.
Which means they’re attracting feminine as f**k men. My high achievers come to me because they are manly at work and manly at home.
Since we are women we can NOT sustain masculine pushing. Our energy is drained super fast so we start giving things up in order to fulfill our work duties.
The first things we let go of are pleasure and fun.
No sex drive because you don’t have enough energy.
No motivation to play and have fun because you “Don’t have time for that.
What the actual f**k!!!
When you’re ready to have fun and enjoy your life while getting more successful in your career book in a call with my team.
More success equals more problems
The good old… “I’ll be happier when” syndrome.
It’s the death of your happiness sis.
Looking for salvation in the future when you don't get rejected is total bull shit because the truth is THE MORE SUCCESSFUL YOU ARE THE MORE PROBLEMS YOU HAVE.
As a high performer we will always be driving forward toward more success.
One of the greatest evils of the ego, is its power of persuading you that even though you’re not happy now, you will be happier when you’re more successful.
Let’s get real.
More success equals more pressure, more demands, more things to do, more people to oversee, and more f*****g problems to solve homie.
How insane is the ego’s argument?
Even more insane is Whole Heartedly using your ego’s excuse to not get your shit together now… because you’ll be happier when you have more problems?
It’s so dumb!
And we all do it.
Why do you think Chris and I have coaches bro. Because it’s the ego’s default setting to look to the future for emotional salvation.
Everytime we uplevel the story of I’ll do the same thing I’m doing right now and get way more success, energy, and happiness comes up.
The truth is you gotta change some shit to get something new.
It’s so simple and you are very smart.
No more excuses. Let’s freaking GOOOO.
Join my Bad Ass community now to soak up my mind blowing energy and feel happier than you’ve ever felt right now https://www.facebook.com/groups/laninalufreegroup/
How to achieve your goals
Sister I hope you are flying on this Monday because it is a beautiful time to be alive!!!
I wanted to share some real shit with you today so we can move forward toward your goals.
This is not about being right or wrong.
This is about shining a light on the area you want to grow.
It’s very common for women to say shit like …
“It’s not that bad”
When in reality you really want more joy, peace, & fulfillment.
The way you react to help is the foundation of why you are exactly where you are.
Why you don’t feel confident and proud.
Nothing is more annoying than a women who says she has a problem, and then shuts down and makes excuses when she’s offered THE SOLUTION.
If you are a “but” chick…
“But I can’t because of time or money…”
Then you have a 0% of changing.
And we both know change is the ONLY way to get a differ outcome than you have now.
Click the link to join my Bad Ass free community to learn how to stop the “buts” and start making the changes that make you better!!!
This is 40
I'm getting real about the number 40.
By the time you listen to this I will be 40 and I want you to know that I subconsciously feel the stigmas around women aging… same as you.
We have these measurements for success that are dumb. They're not ours, they didn't come from us, yet we feel super s****y when we don't have certain things by a certain age.
I felt soooo s****y at my 36th Birthday because I was at an all time low in every area of my life. I beat myself up because I should have kids, I should have a white picket fence, I should be prettier, blah blah blah.
We have so many weird stories in our subconscious that we don't even know about until we get into a new situation and actually experience it.
It's called growing!
It's so inspiring.
It's what every Bad Ass woman living her best life does.
What's not awesome is staying in the same damn place, making the same damn mistakes, never shining a light on your subconscious bull shit.
Time is running out to get your ticket to my live event so if you're ready to let go of the illusions that are stopping you and lean the f**k into your best life LET'S FREAKING GOOOO.