I Feel That Way Too

Michelle MiJung Kim & Asian American Futures
I Feel That Way Too

I Feel That Way Too is a narrative podcast that explores life’s challenging questions so together we can feel less alone in our struggles and find the courage to take values-aligned actions. Through candid storytelling and insightful conversations with experts and everyday people, each episode unpacks the doubts, fears, and quiet longings that shape our lives. Whether it’s questioning monogamy, navigating political divides, or redefining who we are beyond our jobs, host Michelle MiJung Kim invites you to feel seen, understood, and a little less alone. If you’ve ever thought, “Does anyone else feel this way?”—this is the place for you.

Episodes

  1. 5D AGO

    Who Am I Without My Job?

    What happens when your career—your identity, your income, your belonging—suddenly disappears? In this intimate episode, Michelle MiJung Kim opens up about the collapse of her career after she chose to speak out about Palestine. One day she was a sought-after speaker and celebrated DEI leader. The next, her calendar was empty. The applause stopped. The invitations vanished. And she was left asking: Was any of it ever real? Together with somatic coach and author Kelsey Blackwell, Michelle explores the painful unraveling of ambition, the burnout of performance, and the quiet grief of no longer wanting the life she once worked so hard to build. This episode is a love letter to anyone who’s been let go, shut out, or burned out. Anyone who has lost a version of themselves. And anyone trying to find out who they are when the titles fall away. If you are also longing to live a purposeful life in alignment with your values, this episode is for you. ABOUT THE EPISODE GUEST, KELSEY BLACKWELL Kelsey Blackwell is a cultural somatics practitioner dedicated to supporting women of color to trust and follow the guidance of the body so we may powerfully radiate our worth, dignity and wisdom in a world that sorely needs this brilliance. As a facilitator, coach, and speaker, she has brought abolitionist embodied practices to such diverse groups as riders on Bay Area Rapid Transit trains to students at Stanford University to the offices of LinkedIn. She works 1:1 with clients as well as leads the eight-week group program, Decolonizing the Body. Kelsey is the author of the viral article, Why People of Color Need Spaces Without White People, published by The Arrow Journal. She is a Certified InterPlay Leader, Strozzi Certified Somatic Coach, and holds a master’s degree in Publishing from the Medill School of Journalism at Northwestern University. In addition to being impactful, Kelsey believes working towards personal and collective liberation must also bring joy. Learn more about Kelsey at www.kelseyblackwell.com Follow Kelsey Blackwell on Instagram: @decolonizingthebody Kelsey’s Book: Decolonizing the Body ABOUT THE HOST, MICHELLE MIJUNG KIM Michelle MiJung Kim is one of today’s most compelling voices on courage, complexity, and connection. With a voice that is both precise and expansive, Michelle helps people make sense of their inner worlds and the outer chaos. Through storytelling rooted in emotional honesty, she invites us to confront what’s hard, name what matters, and move through the world with deeper integrity and courage. She is the award-winning author of The Wake Up, a globally recognized speaker, and the producer and host of I Feel That Way Too, a narrative podcast that dares to ask life’s trickiest questions so we can feel less alone—and more alive—together. Whether on stage, on the page, or behind the mic, Michelle’s presence is a mirror and a call to courage—to live our lives more fully, to build resilient relationships, and to believe in the possibility of our personal transformation and collective liberation. Learn more about Michelle at www.michellemijungkim.com and follow her journey on Instagram @michellekimkim. EPISODE CREDITS This episode was produced by Geraldine Ah-Sue, Eunice Kwon, and Michelle MiJung Kim. Written by Michelle MiJung Kim and Geraldine Ah-Sue. The sound designer is Katie McMurran. Music by Katie McMurran, and Jiyeon Park. This podcast is brought to you by Asian American Futures. RESOURCES AND LINKS Full Transcript is Available...

    34 min
  2. JUN 10

    Was I His Love Or Fetish?

    Let’s talk about the question that makes everyone squirm: “Why are so many Asian women with white men?” In this raw and nuanced episode, Michelle MiJung Kim sits down with her longtime friend Christine (a Chinese American woman married to a white man) to unpack the tangled web of desire, race, loneliness, and belonging in interracial relationships—specifically those between Asian women and white men. From TikTok comment wars and the infamous "Oxford Study" to lived experiences of love, shame, fetishization, and survival, no stone is left unturned. With radical honesty, Michelle shares her own dating history with white men and the uncomfortable questions it forced her to face: “Am I internalizing racism through who I date?” “Is love ever just love in a world shaped by white supremacy?” “And what does it mean to feel seen, held, and understood in an interracial relationship?” This episode holds space for all the complexities—without flattening anyone’s experience. Whether you’ve been in these relationships, judged them, or questioned your own desires, this conversation invites you to look inward with curiosity and compassion. ABOUT THE HOST, MICHELLE MIJUNG KIM Michelle MiJung Kim is one of today’s most compelling voices on courage, complexity, and connection. With a voice that is both precise and expansive, Michelle helps people make sense of their inner worlds and the outer chaos. Through storytelling rooted in emotional honesty, she invites us to confront what’s hard, name what matters, and move through the world with deeper integrity and courage. She is the award-winning author of The Wake Up, a globally recognized speaker, and the producer and host of I Feel That Way Too, a narrative podcast that dares to ask life’s trickiest questions so we can feel less alone—and more alive—together. Whether on stage, on the page, or behind the mic, Michelle’s presence is a mirror and a call to courage—to live our lives more fully, to build resilient relationships, and to believe in the possibility of our personal transformation and collective liberation. Learn more about Michelle at www.michellemijungkim.com and follow her journey on Instagram @michellekimkim. EPISODE CREDITS This episode was produced by Geraldine Ah-Sue, Eunice Kwon, and Michelle MiJung Kim. Written by Michelle MiJung Kim and Geraldine Ah-Sue. The sound designer is Katie McMurran. Music by Joyce Kwon, Katie McMurran, and Jiyeon Park. This podcast is brought to you by Asian American Futures. RESOURCES AND LINKS Full Transcript is Available Here Watch the full interview on I Feel That Way Too YouTube Channel Subscribe to the I Feel That Way Too newsletter at www.ifeelthatwaytoo.com Learn more about Asian American Futures

    35 min
  3. JUN 10

    Am I A Bad Daughter?

    “How do I love my family without sacrificing me?” In this deeply personal episode, Michelle MiJung Kim unpacks the complicated layers of love, sacrifice, guilt, and resentment within immigrant families. From financial support to emotional labor, Michelle reflects on the invisible expectations placed on her, often at the expense of her own desires and needs. Featuring renowned therapist and Brown Girl Therapy founder Sahaj Kaur Kohli, this episode explores how concepts like filial piety, enmeshment, and parentification shape our understanding of love—and the emotional toll of setting boundaries when silence has always been the language of care. If you’ve ever wondered: “Am I selfish for wanting to live my own life?” “How do I love my parents without losing myself?” “Can I heal without their acknowledgment?” …you’re not alone. This episode is for you. Whether you're navigating intergenerational trauma, redefining your relationship with your parents, or learning to center your own needs for the first time—this conversation will meet you where you are. JOIN THE DISCUSSION https://www.eventbrite.com/e/i-feel-that-way-too-courage-collective-episode-1-am-i-a-bad-daughter-registration-1412846785769?aff=oddtdtcreator ABOUT THE EPISODE GUEST, SAHAJ KAUR KOHLI Sahaj Kaur Kohli, MA.Ed&HD, LGPC, NCC is an award-winning therapist, writer, and speaker on a mission to make mental health care more diverse, equitable, accessible, and inclusive. As the first in her family to do a lot of things — be born in the West, go to therapy, and marry outside of her religion/race/culture — Sahaj understands the unique struggles of children of immigrants, and she uses her personal experience to create original resources and content for this underserved population. Learn more about Sahaj at www.sahajkaurkohli.com.  Follow Sahaj Kaur Kohli on Instagram: @browngirltherapy Sahaj’s Book: But What Will People Say? Sahaj’s Podcast: So We’ve Been Told ABOUT THE HOST, MICHELLE MIJUNG KIM Michelle MiJung Kim is one of today’s most compelling voices on courage, complexity, and connection. With a voice that is both precise and expansive, Michelle helps people make sense of their inner worlds and the outer chaos. Through storytelling rooted in emotional honesty, she invites us to confront what’s hard, name what matters, and move through the world with deeper integrity and courage. She is the award-winning author of The Wake Up, a globally recognized speaker, and the producer and host of I Feel That Way Too, a narrative podcast that dares to ask life’s trickiest questions so we can feel less alone—and more alive—together. Whether on stage, on the page, or behind the mic, Michelle’s presence is a mirror and a call to courage—to live our lives more fully, to build resilient relationships, and to believe in the possibility of our personal transformation and collective liberation. Learn more about Michelle at www.michellemijungkim.com and follow her journey on Instagram @michellekimkim. EPISODE CREDITS This episode was produced by Geraldine Ah-Sue, Eunice Kwon, and Michelle MiJung Kim. Written by Michelle MiJung Kim and Geraldine Ah-Sue. The sound designer is Katie McMurran. Music by Joyce Kwon, Katie McMurran, and Jiyeon Park. This podcast is brought to you by Asian American Futures. RESOURCES AND...

    33 min
5
out of 5
35 Ratings

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I Feel That Way Too is a narrative podcast that explores life’s challenging questions so together we can feel less alone in our struggles and find the courage to take values-aligned actions. Through candid storytelling and insightful conversations with experts and everyday people, each episode unpacks the doubts, fears, and quiet longings that shape our lives. Whether it’s questioning monogamy, navigating political divides, or redefining who we are beyond our jobs, host Michelle MiJung Kim invites you to feel seen, understood, and a little less alone. If you’ve ever thought, “Does anyone else feel this way?”—this is the place for you.

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