56 episodes

One of the greatest battles we as Christians fight today is that against pornography. Our youth are becoming exposed at younger and younger ages. Marriages are ending in divorce and heartache. Men and women alike are becoming more and more estranged from God and the only way to freedom is to let Christ into our lives. But what is it that keeps us from letting Christ in? I believe more often than not it is shame. You have a dirty house and you want to straighten it up before you have such an important guest over. Little do you know the reason he came to your house in the first place is to clean. This podcast explores the ways we can let Christ into our lives and allow His grace to change us.

I Stand At The Door Hayden Paul

    • Religion & Spirituality
    • 4.9 • 89 Ratings

One of the greatest battles we as Christians fight today is that against pornography. Our youth are becoming exposed at younger and younger ages. Marriages are ending in divorce and heartache. Men and women alike are becoming more and more estranged from God and the only way to freedom is to let Christ into our lives. But what is it that keeps us from letting Christ in? I believe more often than not it is shame. You have a dirty house and you want to straighten it up before you have such an important guest over. Little do you know the reason he came to your house in the first place is to clean. This podcast explores the ways we can let Christ into our lives and allow His grace to change us.

    Episode 56: Wesley's Story - The Courage to Be Honest

    Episode 56: Wesley's Story - The Courage to Be Honest

    Thank you Wesley for sharing your amazing story. 
    You can contact Wesley at:

    Instagram: g_wesley_quinton
    Facebook: Wesley Quinton
    Email: g.wesley.quinton@gmail.com

    • 1 hr
    Episode 55: Charlie's Story - Recovery Through Faith In Christ

    Episode 55: Charlie's Story - Recovery Through Faith In Christ

    In this episode we get special insight for what the battle against pornography looked like pre-internet and how it has morphed into what it is today. 

    Charlie was exposed to pornography as a young man before the internet was invented. As he matured, the growing accessibility to porn  made it increasing easier to find and harder to overcome. 

    Charlie has learned that true recovery is found in faith in Jesus Christ. His experience has been a blessing to his boys as well who have had a struggles with porn as well.

    You can contact him at charliegladwell@gmail.com

    Keep up the good fight.

    • 1 hr 10 min
    Episode 54: Jade and Chandler Rogers - Working Through Porn as a Young Married Couple

    Episode 54: Jade and Chandler Rogers - Working Through Porn as a Young Married Couple

    We are back! Tune in to hear Jade and Chandler share their story and the important insights they have learned together while working through how pornography has affected their relationship. Chandler also talks about an app he helped develop called Relay. It provides a place for accountability and community with others who also struggle with addictive behavior. You can download the app for IOS and Android.

    You can contact us by emailing hayden@istandatthedoor.com

    Keep up the good fight!

    • 58 min
    Episode 53: Couples Therapist Geoff Steurer - Disclosing to a Partner and Facilitating Trust

    Episode 53: Couples Therapist Geoff Steurer - Disclosing to a Partner and Facilitating Trust

    Geoff Steurer is a licensed marriage and family therapist and relationship coach with over 20 years of experience. He is the co-author of, "Love You, Hate the Porn: Healing a Relationship Damaged by Virtual Infidelity", the host of the podcast, "From Crisis to Connection", and the creator of the "Trust Building Bootcamp" online program. He specializes in helping couples heal and rebuild trust from the impact of betrayal, including addiction, abuse, affairs, and abandonment. He maintains a private practice in beautiful Southern Utah, has been married for over 25 years, and he and his wife are the parents of four children. 

    Ways to connect with Geoff

    https://www.geoffsteurer.com/podcasts/from-crisis-to-connection-with-geoff-steurer 
    www.instagram.com/geoffsteurer/ 
    www.facebook.com/GeoffSteurerMFT 
    http://www.fromcrisistoconnection.com 
    My free guide to help couples quickly end arguments: https://www.geoffsteurer.com/3-steps-to-end-your-marriage-argument


    Love You, Hate the Porn: Healing a Relationship Damaged by Virtual Infidelity
    https://www.geoffsteurer.com/trust-building-bootcamp 

    • 51 min
    Episode 52: Unleashing The Man Within - Sathiya Sam's Story

    Episode 52: Unleashing The Man Within - Sathiya Sam's Story

    Sathiya Sam is a coach and speaker that helps men live with confidence and integrity. A
    recovered addict himself, Sathiya is the creator of DeepCleanTM – a research-based and
    Bible-backed system for overcoming porn addiction. DeepCleanTM has helped everyone from college students to medical doctors regain control of their lives and walk in greater levels of freedom. He is married to his lovely wife Shaloma and is based out of Toronto, Canada.

    Website - www.sathiyasam.com
    Free Recovery Guide - www.ultimaterecoveryguide.com
    The New Man Podcast - www.sathiyasam.com/podcast
    Facebook - www.facebook.com/sathiyamesam
    Instagram - www.instagram.com/sathiyamesam

    If you would like to share your story on the podcast reach out by emailing hayden@istandatthedoor.com

    • 59 min
    Episode 51: We’re Writing A Book!

    Episode 51: We’re Writing A Book!

    We are writing a book! So we are slowing down with our podcast. Not ending it for good, just not doing it weekly. If you  want to share your story or you have a subject you’d like us to address, then please email us! hayden@istandatthedoor.com

    • 6 min

Customer Reviews

4.9 out of 5
89 Ratings

89 Ratings

JWMormon ,

We can fight Pornography and they help!!!

Thank you for this Podcast! That is for your vulnerability and the tools shared to work with Christ in the faith against pornography. This podcast helps!!!

DevDuffy ,

Such an inspired podcast

I recently found Hayden & Savannah’s podcast, and now find time to listen whenever I can. They have such a real & genuine perspective that’s so refreshing, and they have the ability to talk & teach simply & clearly on the tough subject of pornography addiction. They do an incredible job giving inspired encouragement and guidance to people who find themselves in many different places on the path of overcoming porn addiction. Whether you are struggling with the addiction yourself or supporting someone who is, there is such a variety of struggle when it comes to this addiction; they teach well to all those different faucets. So grateful for them & this podcast. It’s been a blessing in my life!

AcctgGuy ,

Shame based, non-professional approach

The podcast is so absurd. They induce shame with their gospel ideas and then with the same gospel claim it is the cure. The shame itself leads to porn use.

It prescribes talking to church leaders about sensitive, private, sexual issues to determine “worthiness.” Totally inappropriate and dangerous. It suggests parents should take their kids to a Bishop for help with their porn use: adult men who aren’t trained at all in these issues. Not a therapist or a counselor. Inducing more shame (like taking away temple recommends or the like) are seen as tools to help people overcome their addiction. Shame is the SOURCE - not the cure - of unhealthy habits. Avoid this absurd unscientific podcast.

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