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Ice Cream in the Morning A Well Run Life

    • Mental Health

I have been traveling to big cities these past three weeks. Austin, Chicago and San Diego. 
 
I have walked to nearly all my meetings on these trips. The number of homeless people seems overwhelmingly high in these places.
 
Is the number higher than usual?
 
I can't say.
 
How to give someone their dignity while keeping a reasonable expectation that I deserve personal space- is a question that nags at me during these encounters.
 
Walking about 6:3 0 AM in San Diego a woman is ensconced in a restaurant’s doorway. She screams at the top of her lungs:
 
I WANT ICE CREAM.
 
She is a woman after my own heart.
 
I fully recognize that each person I meet carries their own unique story and set of circumstances that brings them to their current state.
 
I am grateful for my life - so in front of you and the divine - let me be unambiguous that I am aware of how fortunate I am.
 
There is an arrogance to thinking I can help all these people.
 
Yet there is a moral cowardice in thinking I am disconnected to them all and I can do nothing about any of their plights.
 
I have picked my spots over the years.
 
Buying food here and giving cash there.
 
I am not sure on what the best course of action we should all take.
 
I admit I did not do it.
 
But I hope someone got that girl some ice cream.

I have been traveling to big cities these past three weeks. Austin, Chicago and San Diego. 
 
I have walked to nearly all my meetings on these trips. The number of homeless people seems overwhelmingly high in these places.
 
Is the number higher than usual?
 
I can't say.
 
How to give someone their dignity while keeping a reasonable expectation that I deserve personal space- is a question that nags at me during these encounters.
 
Walking about 6:3 0 AM in San Diego a woman is ensconced in a restaurant’s doorway. She screams at the top of her lungs:
 
I WANT ICE CREAM.
 
She is a woman after my own heart.
 
I fully recognize that each person I meet carries their own unique story and set of circumstances that brings them to their current state.
 
I am grateful for my life - so in front of you and the divine - let me be unambiguous that I am aware of how fortunate I am.
 
There is an arrogance to thinking I can help all these people.
 
Yet there is a moral cowardice in thinking I am disconnected to them all and I can do nothing about any of their plights.
 
I have picked my spots over the years.
 
Buying food here and giving cash there.
 
I am not sure on what the best course of action we should all take.
 
I admit I did not do it.
 
But I hope someone got that girl some ice cream.

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