IF DIVORCE IS IN YOUR NORMAL VOCABULARY - THEN THIS PODCAST IS FOR YOU. SPECIALIZING IN ONE OF THE MOST TABOO SUBJECTS IN NATURAL CONVERSATIONS, THIS IS A PODCAST ABOUT REAL PEOPLE TALKING ABOUT REAL DIVORCE!! If you need to make an informed decision about divorce.... then you need some type of direction. We do not advocate being professionals but our various life experiences do count for something. Divorce Devil Podcast is a podcast of an exchange of ideas, experiences, and/or opinions from people who have already walked the journey of divorce. David, being divorced for over 10 years and Rachel being divorced for a few years, bring their real-life ying/yang experiences to the show while they debate the in’s and out’s of pre, during, and post-divorce.We also will have guests occasionally who have been divorced for quite a while and for others the pain is still fresh. In taking a divorce recovery seminar and eventually becoming a facilitator during his journey, David saw all sorts of people in different stages of healing. Rachel brings her unique Generation X and New Jersey style, swagger and real-world expertise to the podcast.Listen to some of the discussions and see what may pertain to you, a loved one, or a friend in their struggles. Maybe we can provide a positive spin on a negative experience for you or someone you know. Between Rachel, David, and their guests, they have seen and experienced almost every, some very interesting and eye-opening situations and events. Listen up!
Divorce Devil Podcast 080: Top 10 fails of both of us when first starting our divorce recovery.
Infused with technical difficulties and laughter (as usual), we actually got through all of our top 10 lists. Tales of heartbreak and anger, dating too soon, Jesus got Covid from the little Drummer Boy, ‘naw - you’re a dude’, guilting yourself, zero f^cks given, take peeks into the past, letting it go, a less chaotic life and levels of guilt play a part in this interesting podcast. Maybe something we discuss hits home for you. Let us know in the comments or drop us a line - we love to hear from you!
#1 Telling your story too quick
#2 Dating too quick or too soon
#3 Becoming too cynical and closed off
#4 Using the kids as pawns
#5 Guilting yourself crazy
#6 Not letting it go
#7 Not realizing you are in a better place
#8 Embracing your life being one step out of fear
#9 Thinking you are damaged goods
#10 Pushing your life aside and not experiencing life after divorce
Divorce Devil Podcast 079: Top 10 ways to live in the same house, not divorced yet and you’re both in relationships. Interesting???
Welcome, Melissa to the podcast. Her unique situation of eventually getting divorced, living in the same house with the future ex and kids, and both her and her soon-to-be-ex in relationships - was hard to swallow at first. But, the life lessons and knowledge she drops on us really makes it all seem plausible. We started with the top ten ways to make it work but ended up with fifteen. What is more interesting is that all of her points can be applied to all three phases of divorce - the pre, during, and post phases. Topics of spewing pain and trauma, mason jars on the shelf, baseball should be fun, the Rage Room, swallowing vomit, random dance parties, chewing food loudly, Fruity Pebbles, Kyle Gray and Cutting Cords, Oh Mickey You’re So Fine, finding a unicorn and the house is sacred are only a few pearls discussed during the show. Melissa must come back! Thanks, Rachel. Enjoy!
Kyle Gray Cutting Cords #1
Kyle Gray Cutting Cords #2
Divorce Devil Podcast 078: 6 Strategies used not to become cynical, paranoid or just plain mean after divorce.
Rachel and I dive into 6 strategies (3 each) we use not to become cynical, paranoid, or mean. We totally agree on needing a village to help lead the battle for divorce recovery. Topics of getting your ducks in a row, group therapy, putting up walls, closet wine, vasectomy, and karma is a bitch are all in this show. Finding peace within yourself is key to your recovery journey. But, most of all, spread kindness in all you do. Enjoy!
Divorce Devil Podcast 077: Divorce coffee talk with Jo from The Dirty Dishes Podcast
Thanks to Jo for being on the show. It was just like coffee talk. It’s so informative to hear someone else’s story along with their struggles and successes in their divorce. It lets others know that there is hope out there post-divorce. Check out her Dirty Dishes Podcast. Her scope of topics will sure to make you think at least once or twice. Enjoy.
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Divorce Devil Podcast 076: Our personal top 6 divorce recovery struggles!
Rachel and I discuss our personal top 6 struggles in our divorce recovery process. It was fun from the get go. And, as usual, the craziness is infused in the podcast. Because we believe laughter is a necessary part of life. With our top 6 being the silent treatment, anger control, building walls, feeling pretty, sex as a weapon, and arguing for no fricken reason - the show goes pretty deep into the divorce recovery realm.
Topics of journaling again, the anteater vibrator, the Divorce Devil Cookie, Pussy Galore, pity party of the year, Janet Jackson - Control, almost like the Frye Festival, necrophilia vs narcolepsy, a divorce martyr, needing help accepting help, getting that pretty back and sugar is sweet all are thoroughly discussed in this episode.
We do end the show with a plea for anyone with even a hint of ending life prematurely, reach out to someone and or the National Suicide Prevention Hotline attached below. As Rachel said, we love you guys, and stay safe!
LAUGHING THROUGH SOME OF THE SHIT AND STRUGGLES
WE ARE IN THIS TOGETHER.
NATIONAL SUICIDE PREVENTION HOTLINE
Divorce Devil Podcast 075: Divorce, lost wages, and the state of the world today.
On our diamond anniversary Divorce Devil Podcast episode, it’s only fitting that we, once again, jump around with our favorite divorce topics and our current world. Rachel’s favorite, forgiveness starts us out and branches into the latest tragic events happening in America lately. Discussions of The Lincoln Lawyer, ball gags, life isn’t fair, protect yourself at all times, you need crazy and chaos in order to move on, a positive spin on a negative situation, hard time seeing the forest for the trees, feeling safe, Murder She Wrote, and franks and beans. We definitely feel we can all do better being kind and taking care of each other. It’s never too late to change.
But not least of all, a shout out to Warren K. Thanks for the email. We'll see what we can do to accommodate you! One of our favorite listeners!
The infamous 'FORGIVENESS" episode - DD047
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