The Divorce Devil Podcast David M Webb

Here we are with another show with Rachel gone.  She is taking that FMLA too seriously.  Just kidding, she is having a family wedding this weekend.  We definitely miss her.  I was cruising through Facebook last week and landed on a post titled ‘ Everything I needed to know about life, I learned from Noah’s Ark’.  Then I wondered if I could apply that subject to divorce recovery.  So here it is.  Rachel will be back next week.  This is just a short 10-minute podcast of Noah’s Arc and divorce recovery.  Enjoy?
Topics consist of:
Professional helpNot all therapists are goodPlan aheadDon’t miss the boatWe are all on the same boatScrew the criticsThe foundation of self-careEmpty those parking spaces in your brainLet's see how this podcast is received.  I enjoyed doing it!  Have a great holiday weekend (some of you).
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Accepting your past and embracing your future - we found that is is harder than we thought.  There are so many facets with both of those entities when you break them down.  When you're going through a crazy time, how can you even focus on your future?  We dive into that question and many more in this podcast.  Topics of:
Look how far you have comeAll consuming pastMarriage is a safety netDealing with your sh!tPutting things in perspectiveHave and give graceRainbows and butterfliesMove on f*ckersDivorce recovery can learn from a little league coachDid anyone die?Herding cats to waterYing and yangNarcissistsControlBoundariesPeople throw the divorce word around too freelyAs we said, there are so many facets, you can’t solve or face them all at once.  Take on smaller tasks and problems at first, get your sea legs, and eventually take on more and more and harder tasks.  You have nothing but time.  Godspeed!



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Well, it was bound to happen - not during COVID, a ski accident or vacations….  I finally had to do a solo show.  Rachel is busy with graduation and wedding stuff and we wish her the best.  But the show must go on…. LOL.  So, here goes.  I decided to discuss some of my favorite ‘connectors’ from past shows.  Things we say all the time on different podcasts.  So they must be important!  Topics of:
Put your mask on firstGo through the painProfessional help5 Love LanguagesThe rabbit holeCommunicationKnow your limitsEverything can’t be a battleThe Hoe PhaseEmbracing the unknownBoundariesUsing the kids as pawnsLaughterGive yourself graceAll these are important to us.  They all work in tandem for a complete healing process.  I see a part two ‘connector series’ down the road. LOL.  Be safe.



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This episode kinda floats all over the place.  Starting with the concept of hate and ending with being ok and moving on from divorce.  We tried to stay on topic, but as usual, RACHEL deviates from the ‘prime directive’ and takes off.  LOL….  But seriously, we both agree that you can’t stay in the hate space too long but it may be a temporary necessary evil.  Topics of:
Release the feelingsIt’s ok to hate your ex - for a little whileHate others not yourselfLong term relationshipsRecognize your part in itJury Duty on Prime VideoA prime numberCaress your heartGet the negative energy out of your bodyI can’t believe i failedIt’s ok to be okPoison Ivy my assYoga and zen spacesPoker face, fix your facePeople, we only get one life here on earth - staying in the hate and not accepting the hurt while not feeling ok is probably not a good use of your time here.  Whatever you have to get to a more positive space, including professional therapy, please reach out and find your vehicle.  Take care of your heart!



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Happiness - we think it is one of the most important goals in the divorce process.  No matter if you are in the pre, during, or post-divorce, you need some type of happiness in order to survive.  A sort of life’s fertilizer.  Topics of:
My new stripper name is 81 milligramsGotta laughRachel found her passion for things againN.A.F.Being the best version of youLet go of stuffSteven Hawkins of Divorce Devil PodcastWe are not guaranteed tomorrowTime is a factorCry less each dayActs of serviceHappiness is not overrated - embrace itGoing to movies by yourselfLaughing about nothingDid I ride the rollercoaster?You won’t be in the deep end of the pool for longThe rabbit holeWe found in our journeys, happiness has different levels.  When you start the divorce chaos, happiness starts small with each day, week, and/or month getting better.  Patience is the key here.  Trust us, your happiness is out there.  The happiness tank eventually grows as you heal and practice self-love and self-care.  You got this!



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After quickly recovering from a potentially devastating event last Sunday and realizing how blessed and lucky I am,  I thought of the things that I’ve worried and stressed about before, during and after my divorce - some of which I should have worried about in the first place.  So, we will be focusing on big events and how they eventually center your important quotient.  Discussions of:
John Wick 4You can choose to argue or disagreeCommunicationNegative collateral damageHave fun doing nothingLife eventsTake care of yourself even before the kidsDating mulligansRizzBe kind to othersThe  infamous ‘hall pass’Know your limitsAn excuse to be in your own spaceLife events may or may not define you, you are in controlLive every momentYou need to learn what is valuable and what is notEverything can’t be a battleBe sure those you actually care about know itEnjoy every momentHave fun doing nothingWe realize that any big negative event can define you but you still have the final say on how you respond to it.  Being human allows us to learn, hopefully quickly, from our negative actions or situations and maybe to choose to keep a positive spin on them - especially things we have no control of!



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