18 episodes

Are you a happy couple ready to learn how to argue better and connect more? Mallory Wolfgramm - a couples therapist - and her husband Stranz interview couples on the happy and the heavy behind what makes marriage work. Each episode leaves you with three "work it" takeaways that you can discuss with your partner to make your marriage work just a little bit better.

Make Marriage Work Stranz & Mallory Wolfgramm

    • Society & Culture
    • 5.0 • 27 Ratings

Are you a happy couple ready to learn how to argue better and connect more? Mallory Wolfgramm - a couples therapist - and her husband Stranz interview couples on the happy and the heavy behind what makes marriage work. Each episode leaves you with three "work it" takeaways that you can discuss with your partner to make your marriage work just a little bit better.

    The Passionate Pastime of Hickeys with Gen Z sister Leah

    The Passionate Pastime of Hickeys with Gen Z sister Leah

    Mallory’s Gen Z sister, Leah, joins the podcast to discuss whether hickeys are a pastime to be enjoyed or an ick to cover up. She also shares the pressures of dating in a Christian community that pushes young marriage. Plus, she shares a deeply cringey date story. Buckle up for lots of laughs and some deep relationship talk. Enjoy!
    Follow along on Instagram for more relationship tips @makemarriagework
    Book Couples Coaching with Mallory 
    Free Download: 3 relationship vocabulary words that will change the way you communicate
     

    • 41 min
    How to help your children feel seen, heard and understood with Play Therapist Melanie Cox

    How to help your children feel seen, heard and understood with Play Therapist Melanie Cox

    Do you have little children in your life with big feelings? Do you want them to feel loved and supported, but sometimes aren't sure how to do that when they are screaming or only willing to talk about Bluey? In this episode, Mallory chats with Melanie Cox, a Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist who specializes in play therapy about how to support little kids in developing their emotional framework and how to help them feel loved and secure. 
    Connect with Melanie on Instagram @notarobot_therapy
    Follow along on Instagram for more relationship tips @makemarriagework
    Couples Coaching with Mallory 
    Free Download: 3 relationship vocabulary words that will change the way you communicate
     

    • 45 min
    Dividing up household chores and only arguing a little (Fair Play)

    Dividing up household chores and only arguing a little (Fair Play)

    Mallory & Stranz use Eve Rodsky’s Fair Play Cards to begin dividing up household chores to feel more fair. They only get a few cards in before emotions get high and Stranz ends up face down on the carpet. Eeek! Listen to a couples therapist and her husband navigate the tricky territory of dividing up household chores fairly. 
    Couples Coaching with Mallory
    Fair Play Documentary
    Fair Play Cards
    Fair Play Book
    Cozy Earth Bedding
    Instagram @makemarriagework

    • 39 min
    Growing and Changing TOGETHER with Dom & Ariel @thewordqueer

    Growing and Changing TOGETHER with Dom & Ariel @thewordqueer

    WE ARE BAAACK! The podcast is back with guests Dom & Ariel @thewordqueer.
    But first, check out our online course - Argue Better & Connect More - opening TODAY with a Valentine's Day Sale. Join our waitlist here to get 20% through Valentine's Day. This course has 4 modules + bonuses that will help you stop arguing in circles and start connecting in conflict. 
    Back to our podcast episode! Dom & Ariel have been together for 8 years and married for one of those years. They run a relationship and lifestyle blog called TheWordQueer, which focuses on sharing their lives and perspectives as Black, queer, married women. Their aim is to remove the stigma from Black queer relationships. 
    Follow along on Instagram for more relationship tips @makemarriagework
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    Podcast inquiries: makemarriageworkpodcast@gmail.com 
    Free Download: 3 relationship vocabulary words that will change the way you communicate

    • 43 min
    Let’s Talk About Sex, Baby - Concrete, Shame-Free Sex & Intimacy Tips with Vanessa & Xander @vanessamarintherapy

    Let’s Talk About Sex, Baby - Concrete, Shame-Free Sex & Intimacy Tips with Vanessa & Xander @vanessamarintherapy

    Sex can be a fantastic way to connect and build intimacy, but it is also a common trigger of disagreement, hurt or conflict. Vanessa, a Licensed Sex Therapist, and her husband Xander, join us on the podcast to give you concrete, shame-free sex and intimacy tips. They chat about sex in a way that feels light, shame-free and simple. We know this episode will help spark conversations about sex with your partner to help you connect more sexually and emotionally! 
    Vanessa and Xander - affectionately referred to as "that sex couple" by their followers - are here to help you create the sex life you secretly want. Vanessa is a licensed psychotherapist who studied human sexuality at Brown University and Xander is a regular dude who left a cushy career in Tech once he realized it was more fun to talk about sex with his wife all day. Together, they have the unique ability to make you laugh while giving you the courage to talk about sex and relationships in ways you never have before!
    Make sure to follow Vanessa & Xander on Instagram: @vanessamarintherapy
    Follow along on Instagram for more relationship tips @makemarriagework
    Join our Make Marriage Work Fam Email List
    Podcast inquiries: makemarriageworkpodcast@gmail.com 
    Free Download: 3 relationship vocabulary words that will change the way you communicate
     

    • 40 min
    Skills to Navigate Hurt and Conflict with Ease, Plus Thoughts on Interracial Relationships with Varuna & William @drvarunasrinivasan

    Skills to Navigate Hurt and Conflict with Ease, Plus Thoughts on Interracial Relationships with Varuna & William @drvarunasrinivasan

    Ready for some concrete skills to try out in your relationship to navigate hurt and conflict with ease? Varuna & William have lots for you. 
    We discuss how to make our partner feel heard instead of dismissed, going to couples therapy even when nothing is "wrong", how our assumptions can hurt our relationships, what it's like to navigate an interracial relationship and so much more! 
    William and Varuna met in 2017 while studying public health at Johns Hopkins. Varuna is an immigrant, south asian woman. She is a public health researcher, writer and activist. William is a psychiatry resident at Yale University with a plan to pursue the structural inequities in adolescent addiction. So, as you can imagine, they have LOTS of brilliant thoughts and wisdom to share with you. 
    And make sure to catch our "Work Its" at the end that you can discuss with your partner to work change into your relationship.
    Follow Varuna on Instagram @drvarunasrinivasan
    Follow along on Instagram for more relationship tips @makemarriagework
    Join our Make Marriage Work Fam Email List
    Free Download: 3 relationship vocabulary words that will change the way you communicate
    Podcast inquiries: makemarriageworkpodcast@gmail.com 

    • 54 min

Customer Reviews

5.0 out of 5
27 Ratings

27 Ratings

Kyle K_82 ,

Always left wanting more

Great marriage podcast with a very relatable host. Great content and tools to strenghten your marriage. Nicely done, keep up the great work.

lizardv123 ,

Highly recommend!

Mallory and Stranz and so relatable and lovable! Can’t wait to hear more!!

Hljtfcxghvg ,

I love it!

I have a hard time listening to podcasts but I love listening to this one! I love how real the advice is and also how applicable it is! Great work, I can’t wait to hear more!

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