128 episodes

Have you ever wondered if there’s more to sex than what you’ve been taught? Well, Alexa Bowditch is here to show you what the more is… How sex can be edgy, playful and fulfilling beyond your wildest dreams. 

As a sex coach, business mentor, and intuitive guide, Alexa will take you on a journey of pleasure discovery to show you how to create your best sex life and cultivate your desires, leaving you turned on and inspired AF.

So, let’s talk sex, shall we?

That Sex Chick Alexa Bowditch | Soulfire Productions

    • Health & Fitness
    • 4.8 • 285 Ratings

Have you ever wondered if there’s more to sex than what you’ve been taught? Well, Alexa Bowditch is here to show you what the more is… How sex can be edgy, playful and fulfilling beyond your wildest dreams. 

As a sex coach, business mentor, and intuitive guide, Alexa will take you on a journey of pleasure discovery to show you how to create your best sex life and cultivate your desires, leaving you turned on and inspired AF.

So, let’s talk sex, shall we?

    Sex Addiction is NOT Real with Dr. David Ley

    Sex Addiction is NOT Real with Dr. David Ley

    Dr. David Ley is a therapist and psychologist here to de-shame, debunk, and shed light on the idea of sex as an addiction. He unpacks the impact growing up religious or with morally conservative beliefs has on people identifying as sex addicts, discussing why it’s crucial we make sexuality a healthy part of life. David and Alexa break down how after 40 years, the sex addiction model of treatment still has no positive impact, and how leaning into self-compassion and acceptance are actual solutions to sexual disorders.

    • 48 min
    How to Break Up Better with Adam Roa

    How to Break Up Better with Adam Roa

    Today, Adam Roa joins Alexa to give hot tips on how to break up better. He talks about why breakups are some of the most painful experiences we go through, exploring how it’s a simultaneous dissolution of our past, present and future. They are an opportunity to redefine who you are, and explore yourself, what you want, your fears, your magic — aspects you can only see when you’re in your single, sovereign energy. Adam unpacks his learnings from his year-long relationship hiatus, divulging how to move through breakup pain faster, embody relationship lessons, and evolve yourself so you’re no longer a match for that old type of relationship.

    • 1 hr
    Our Pregnancy Journey: Conception, Miscarriage, Staying in Love

    Our Pregnancy Journey: Conception, Miscarriage, Staying in Love

    Alexa and Jordan open up about their pregnancy journey, sharing the challenges they faced leading up to conception, and the devastation and grief from miscarriage. They unpack how it impacted their marriage, and what Jordan’s learned about being fully present with Alexa and holding her emotions. Today’s show may do more than tug on your heart strings — it’s real, raw life. May it accompany those who feel alone in their own process, and be of service to the hearts that need it.

    • 1 hr 25 min
    Goodbye, Bryn

    Goodbye, Bryn

    Grab your tissues, ‘cause Lex and Bryn are on the mic for a PSA that will bring some tears.

    • 33 min
    Ketamine Therapy: Sexual Healing + Deeper Connections with Dr. Cat Meyer

    Ketamine Therapy: Sexual Healing + Deeper Connections with Dr. Cat Meyer

    Dr. Cat Meyer is a licensed psychotherapist specializing in sex, trauma, and Ketamine Assisted Therapy. Today she and Bryn dive into sexual healing through psychedelics, specifically empathogens like Ketamine, and how it allows us to connect with our trauma in a way that does not dysregulate the nervous system. Dr. Cat shares why Ketamine therapy is also powerful for couples, unpacking how it removes walls for vulnerability so they have a safe container to share fears and desires.

    • 50 min
    Couples Who Do ‘The Work’

    Couples Who Do ‘The Work’

    Alexa and Jordan are back on the mic to unpack what it means to do “the work” as a couple, including personal and sexual development. The path of growth looks different for everyone, and tension can arise when couples are not aligned on this path. Lex and Jordan share their own experience with navigating these waters, sharing ways to encourage your partner in their expansion and why you shouldn’t just “throw the towel in” when you feel they aren’t meeting you in your growth.

    • 1 hr

Customer Reviews

4.8 out of 5
285 Ratings

285 Ratings

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My absolute favorite podcast

I just want to say thank you for such a great podcast! I listen to this everyday for a distraction from a stressful life. It gives me and my husband great new ideas to try and new ideas to connect.

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Balling my eyes out it’s so good😭

Episode after episode hits SO deep. Balling my eyes out as I hear each new story and feel how I can take the wisdom from these guests and apply it in my life. A must listen; I’ve already sent multiple episodes to girlfriends and clients!

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Funny Dom

Really liked and enjoyed this bridge conversation into D/s. Just wish the questions asked were a little more pointed with less meandering a fluff around them. I lose track of what the question is and if it even gets answered when that happens.

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