Heart Our Minds with Doralee

Doralee
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Normalizing talking about the hard stuff through inspirational content that is real and raw in a safe space. You will learn the tools that will kick shame in the ass. You will learn to set boundaries, stop people pleasing, and accept yourself for who you are, because you are incredible! There is power in story telling, and reminding people they are not alone.

  1. Jan 30

    Why Some People Stay The Same

    This episode is not meant to be comfortable.It’s meant to be honest. Many people listen to conversations about healing for months or years without changing anything in their own lives — not because they’re broken, but because they don’t believe they need help. They believe the problem is everyone else. In this episode, I speak plainly about the difference between listening and taking responsibility, why consumption can become a way to stay asleep, and why I’m no longer willing to participate in that dynamic. I also share why I’m taking a break from this podcast — not out of burnout, but out of integrity. This message is for the women who are ready to be honest with themselves.And for the rest, this may be where we part ways.

    23 min

  2. Jan 27

    What Happens When You Finally Stop Avoiding Yourself

    Starting your emotional and spiritual healing journey feels like entering the upside down—everything familiar turns inside out. Inside that upside down is the younger version of you who has been carrying fears, memories, and survival strategies no one ever held space for. The work isn’t to rush her, fix her, or judge her… it’s to walk her home with compassion so you can finally stop abandoning yourself. Fear isn’t real. It doesn’t come from God. It’s just the lie that keeps you stuck and unwilling to face what hurts. Saying “I’ll start healing when I’m ready” is like saying “I’ll go to the gym when I have a six-pack.”

    13 min

  3. Jan 23

    Why We Respond in a Triggered Tone When People Ask For Help

    If you grew up having to figure everything out on your own… it’s not surprising that you respond with irritation, judgment, or a sharp tone when your partner, kids, or family ask you for help. It’s not that you’re mean — it’s that you were never nurtured. The neglect wound teaches self-reliance out of survival, not confidence. So as adults, we assume everyone else should “just know.” But that expectation isn’t fair — and it keeps the cycle alive. This episode breaks down: 🟤 why we respond in a triggered tone 🟤 how neglect creates emotional self-parentification 🟤 why we lack patience when others need support 🟤 and how to stop passing this pattern down to our kids Understanding this pattern doesn’t just heal you — it breaks a generational cycle.

    26 min

  4. Jan 9

    Why You Keep Attracting Emotionally Unavailable People (And How to Finally Stop)

    In this episode we talk about why you keep choosing people who can’t give you what you need. It’s not because you’re weak or stupid. It’s because that kind of love feels familiar. I explain how old pain, family patterns, and culture trained you to expect the bare minimum in relationships. If you’re tired of being the strong one, the patient one, or the one who “understands,” this episode will hit home. If you want to stop settling, start here: 📍 Buy my book (English): From Wounds to Wisdom 📍 Compra mi libro (Español): de las heridas a la sabiduria If you want help breaking this pattern for real, apply to work with me: ➡️ Apply for 1:1 to work with me

    27 min

  5. Jan 3

    This Isn't the End. It's Only The Beginning

    After years of building, creating, and holding a lot of responsibility, I’ve entered a season of intentional pause and honest reflection. In this episode, I share where I’m at right now, what quietly stopped feeling aligned, and how I’m approaching 2026 differently than any year before. This conversation isn’t about burnout or walking away. It’s about discernment. About recognizing when something that once fit no longer does—and choosing to listen before your body or life forces the change for you. I talk about: What it looks like to step back from intention, not exhaustion Why success isn’t always the signal we think it is How I’m redefining fulfillment, creativity, and capacity What I’m choosing to protect moving forward I’m not disappearing. I’m not done. I’m creating space—because something new is forming, and I hope you give yourself permission to do the same. Xoxo, Doralee

    25 min

  6. 12/16/2025

    Dallisa Hocking ON: The Cost of Ignoring Your Intuition

    In this episode, Coach Doralee sits down with Dallisa Hocking to talk about trusting yourself again and reconnecting to your inner knowing. She is a 5th generation psychic, who's expertise spans psychic development, mediumship, astrology, and tarot, blending spiritual insight with real-world coaching to help people navigate life’s most pivotal moments. She breaks down why every woman is intuitive, how we dim our light to stay accepted, and how self-doubt becomes a learned survival pattern. This conversation blends emotional healing, nervous system awareness, and spiritual intuition in a grounded, real-life way. If you’re ready to stop performing, stop second-guessing, and start listening to yourself, this episode is for you. 🔗 Follow & Connect with Dallisa Hocking 🌐 Website: https://spiritandspark.com 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dallisahocking/ Take the Quiz: What psychic gift do you have?

    1h 11m

  7. 12/05/2025

    The Breakdown That Built Me: The Dark Story I’ve Never Shared… Until Now.

    In this raw, unfiltered interview, Doralee finally reveals the real story behind the woman she became before she ever became a coach—childhood wounds, marriage battles, identity collapse, and the moment she walked away from counseling for good. You’ll hear the truth she’s never shared publicly about the depression, insecurity, and self-sabotage that almost destroyed her… and the breakthrough that rebuilt her. We dive into Latina cultural conditioning, root-cause healing, relationship patterns, motherhood, and the harsh truths women avoid until their life forces them to listen. But the biggest shock? The one mindset Doralee had to kill to find peace—and the truth about why so many women still sabotage the love they pray for. And if this episode wakes something up in you… Doralee’s Healing Tour hits Tucson, AZ on December 20 — doors open at 6PM. Secure your seat here: Tucson Healing Tour

    1h 2m

  8. 11/26/2025

    Your Biggest Fear Isn't Healing, Your Biggest Fear is Outgrowing Everyone You Love

    In this episode, I get brutally honest about why I’ve resisted showing up and selling, and how every fear I had about “failure” was really a fear of rejection. I break down the psychology behind why high-achieving women self-sabotage: not because they can’t heal, but because they’re terrified that healing will separate them from the people they’re scared to outgrow. If you’ve ever stayed small to avoid losing relationships, this conversation is going to expose the cost of dimming your own power. And if you’re ready to stop shrinking and finally rise into the woman God keeps showing you in your visions, this episode is your wake-up call. Come meet me in San Diego on November 28th, 2025 for the Healing Event — if this episode hits you, you’re exactly the woman who needs to be in that room. Doors open at 6:00 p.m. Get Your Tickets Here

    22 min
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Normalizing talking about the hard stuff through inspirational content that is real and raw in a safe space. You will learn the tools that will kick shame in the ass. You will learn to set boundaries, stop people pleasing, and accept yourself for who you are, because you are incredible! There is power in story telling, and reminding people they are not alone.

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