What’s Your Next Move: Aging on Your Own Terms Lisa & Adellina Cini

“Gramps is in the ER! You need to come here now!”🏥😭
That was pretty much how our week started – with a loved one in a life-threatening condition and our whole Italian family barging into the hospital, bombarding doctors and nurses with questions and asking them to perform different lab tests!😷🩻
Why not? We have the right to get the best care for our patient. It was a chaotic and tiring week, and our family learned something very important throughout the process. 😩🥱
Like when medical personnel tell you they have no room available, that may not be true! Or when they tell you something about the patient's condition, but you know better! 😡😣
How can you communicate what your loved ones need? What's the first thing you must do in an emergency? 🦺🚑
Get ready for an emotional episode that teaches you how to be a patient advocate, communicate with medical professionals, and navigate your family in these life-threatening situations. 😵😭


“Have a conversation before a crisis. I speak of this not only as the eldest daughter but with my brothers and sisters – we were not prepared. As much as I talk about everything, I talk to other people, I don't think it's clear to all five siblings what my parents' wishes are.” ~ Lisa Cini

In This Episode:
- 00:27: Gramps ended up in the ER!
- 01:46: Sometimes, parents or grandparents can put on a show
- 03:01: Addie's perspective on the situation 
- 05:16: Italian families don't have boundaries
- 05:59: The key to communicating with medical professionals
- 08:28: Ageism is real!
- 12:31: What we have learned as a family 
- 17:14: How doctors communicate with each other
- 19:11: Ask your nurse to triple-check what needs to be done
- 19:59: Getting the patient advocate involved
- 27:10: Be clear about your parent's wishes
- 32:14: Communicate! Communicate! Communicate!
- 33:18: What's one thing you can do today to have a better tomorrow?


Connect with Lisa Cini: 
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Connect with Adellina Cini: 
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Let's talk about those little things that make life melodious – like hearing. But what happens when the sweet symphony starts fading? We're diving into a common yet often unnoticed challenge: hearing loss. 🎶
Everyone notices that Grandpa can't hear like he used to, except himself, who's in a slight denial dance about it! 🙉 But don't worry, we're here to unravel the secrets of embracing hearing loss gracefully. 🎭
First things first – the why. We're breaking down the importance of hearing and the hurdles that tag along when it takes a backseat. 🗣️🚫 Prepare for aha moments that'll have you nodding in recognition.
But we're not just highlighting the problem – we're diving deep into the ocean of solutions. 🌊🎯 From articulation secrets to the magic of closed captioning, we're loading you with actionable steps for home sweet home.
And don't you worry about stepping out! We've got your back there too. Whether it's chatting with waiters about your hearing or picking restaurants with perfect acoustics, we're revealing the outside-world hacks that'll keep you connected. 🍽️👂
So join us in this episode, where we'll tap into the world of hearing solutions – from fine-tuning your living space to amplifying your dining experiences. Let's make hearing loss another beat in life's rhythm, shall we? 🎵🌈

“Teach your kids how to speak to their grandparents. So teach them to bend down, to articulate, and to face them.” ~ Addie Cini
“People with mild hearing loss are three times, THREE TIMES, more likely to have a history of falling. Because your eyes and your ears work together, and you can have a vestibular mismatch, and so you can have a fall three times more likely.” ~ Lisa Cini
In This Episode:
- 02:37: Problems associated with not hearing well 
- 03:49: Some statistics about hearing to understand the context
- 05:31: Reasons why hearing is important 
- 08:33: The perception around hearing aids in the past 
- 09:34: What is induction looping technology? 
- 11:39: How to improve the acoustics of a room
- 15:16: What to do to support people with hearing loss 
- 23:48: What’s one thing you can do today to have a better tomorrow?

Connect with Lisa Cini: 
Website - https://www.lisamcini.com/ 
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/lisa.m.cini/ 
Twitter - https://twitter.com/lcini 
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LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/lisacini/ 
Pinterest - https://ar.pinterest.com/lcini/ 
TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@lisacini_designexpert 

Connect with Adellina Cini: 
LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/adellina-cini-166babb4 
Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/addie_theastronaut/ 
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We weren't always a multigenerational hub. Nope, it was just us and our trusty dog, living life one tail wag at a time! 🐕❤️
Then we became a multigenerational household, and guess who joined the party? Another adorable dog! 🐾🎉 
Just when you thought that was it – surprise! A bee hive made a grand entrance! 🐝🏡

Honey isn't the only sweetness here – it's also about the joy of routines and exercise, courtesy of our delightful companions. 🏋️🎈

Picture this: chickens clucking around and bunnies hopping by – our household was a lively zoo! 🐔🐇 While the chickens flaunted their cuteness, the bunnies... well, let's just say they had quirks! 😅

Here's the scoop: pets are a multigenerational household's secret sauce! They bring smiles, laughter, and oh-so-needed cuddles, creating bonds that melt across generations. 🐱❤️👵

No furry friends? No worries! If pets aren't an option, we've got your back with alternative ways to enjoy all the perks of pet companionship. 🐾🌈

Get ready for an episode highlighting the boundless benefits of having these amazing companions in multigenerational living – it's a journey of love, growth, and endless tail wags! 🌟🐶🐦

“Bees are fascinating. So if you ever wanna read about them, they’re really fascinating. And our family worked very much like a beehive, with the worker bees and the soldier bees, the protector bees, the queen bee (which was my grandmother.) So it’s a really interesting kind of environment for multigenerational of how you can work together.” ~ Lisa Cini
“People love them [robotic cats]. It’s great for children. It’s a fantastic option. Especially if you’re on that kind of spectrum of Alzheimer’s/dementia, then you can have a companion pet that genuinely responds to you because that’s also an important thing of like connecting with the animal.” ~ Addie Cini
In This Episode:
- 02:37: Pets give you love, attention, and purpose 
- 04:45: LOVE method with animals 
- 14:47: Pet sitting 
- 19:57: Benefits of robotic cats
- 22:41: How can bird feeders help you 
- 25:19: What is one thing you can do today to have a better tomorrow? 


Connect with Lisa Cini: 
Website - https://www.lisamcini.com/ 
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Twitter - https://twitter.com/lcini 
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LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/lisacini/ 
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Connect with Adellina Cini: 
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Can loneliness cause dementia? Studies reveal it's a big contender – but don't worry, we've got the ultimate Loneliness Antidote in store! 🌈💪
Today, we're diving deep into the realm of the 3 Cs that stand strong against loneliness: 
Connection, Contribution, and Community. Join us for a journey that'll redefine how you connect with your world! 🌍✨
Let's start with the magic of Connection. Picture this: establishing a rhythm that's music to your heart – chatting with loved ones near and far. 🎶💬 By scheduling and dedicating time to the people who matter, you ensure that bonds grow stronger and excuses disappear. It's all about that "no excuses" policy!
Get ready for a whirlwind of strategies to connect with seniors – from heartwarming eye-to-eye chats to competitive game nights! 🎲❤️ And here's the scoop: you don't need to be physically present to make those connections sparkle. Tech and digital tools are your trusty companions too! 💻🤝
But hey, connection is just the start! Contribution comes next, and it's all about adding value to others' lives. 🌟💖 Whether it's lending a hand, volunteering, or mentoring, making a difference brings warmth like no other.

And finally, the cherry on top – Community! 🏡🎉 We've got stories to inspire and examples to light the way, showing you how to foster or build existing communities.

So join us in this inspiring episode that holds the key to defeating loneliness and igniting a brighter future for you and your loved ones! 🌟🤗

“If you don’t use it, you lose it. So if you’re not talking to people, if you’re not connecting with people and having conversations and using your mind in that capacity, you kind of lose it.” ~ Addie Cini
“They say stress kills. But really loneliness, being disconnected [kills]. When you’re no longer having purpose in your life, when you’re not showing up at work every day, when you’re waiting by the phone for your grandkids to call or stop by. That’s a hard thing to do.” ~ Lisa Cini
In This Episode:
- 04:18: The reason why loneliness kills 
- 05:14: What is the definition of Connection?
- 10:28: Different ways of Contribution
- 14:29: What are Blue Zones, and what can we learn from them? 
- 17:31: How is Community different from Connection and Contribution? 
- 20:22: Creating your own Community for your own needs 
- 27:11: What can you do today to have a better tomorrow? 

Connect with Lisa Cini: 
Website - https://www.lisamcini.com/ 
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/lisa.m.cini/ 
Twitter - https://twitter.com/lcini 
Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/lisacini/ 
LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/lisacini/ 
Pinterest - https://ar.pinterest.com/lcini/ 
TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@lisacini_designexpert 

Connect with Adellina Cini: 
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Can you teach an old dog new tricks?🤔 We actually believe you can! 🐶✨ 
In this episode, we're diving headfirst into the world of aging-in-place tech tools, proving that age is just a number when embracing innovation! 💡🏠
Some folks think technology is all about electronic gadgets and software, but it's so much more! We're about to uncover the core definition of tech, including tools that don't even need a power plug – pure magic, right? 🌈💻
Get ready because we're zooming in on the heart of the home – the kitchen, the bedroom, and the bathroom! 🍳🛏️🚽 These are the three areas where we kick back, relax, and make lasting memories. It's time to find tech that adds ease and comfort to every moment!
Hold on tight because we've got a flurry of fantastic tools to share with you in rapid-fire style! 💨💫 You can pick the best ones that suit your needs right now and keep adding to your tech treasure chest as life unfolds.
Here's a little secret: integrating these solutions takes time and patience, but we promise it's worth the effort! Take the time to learn and teach your household to use them – soon, you'll wonder how you ever lived without them! 🏡🎓
With so many incredible solutions, you're not alone on this tech adventure. We're here to guide you through the maze and help you find the perfect fit for you and your family! 🧭🌺 Let's embrace the tech and live life to the fullest! 💖🌟

“I really just don’t enjoy this narrative we have that it’s hard to teach seniors technology.” ~ Addie Cini
“Technology is any tool that makes your life better. [It] has nothing to do with something that plugs in or software. And I think that’s where we get confused.” ~ Lisa Cini

In This Episode:
03:33: Core definition of technology 
04:09: Three main areas for aging-in-place technology 
04:25: Technology in the kitchen 
13:33: Solutions for the bedroom 
15:03: Recommendations for people going through menopause
16:47: What causes falls?
17:43: Fall prevention in the bathroom
26:58: What’s one thing you can do today to change your tomorrow for the better?


Connect with Lisa Cini: 
Website - https://www.lisamcini.com/ 
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/lisa.m.cini/ 
Twitter - https://twitter.com/lcini 
Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/lisacini/ 
LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/lisacini/ 
Pinterest - https://ar.pinterest.com/lcini/ 
TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@lisacini_designexpert 

Connect with Adellina Cini: 
LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/adellina-cini-166babb4 
Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/addie_theastronaut/ 
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Today's episode is all about embracing the unique and ever-changing journey of dementia and Alzheimer's with a heart full of love and a dash of creativity! 💖🎨
Imagine every day is like a magical snowflake – different, beautiful, and sometimes challenging. ❄️ One moment, it's smooth sailing, and the next, we face new hurdles. But hey, we're here to learn how to roll with the punches! 🥊😄
Join us as we dive into the world of Alzheimer's and how designing houses like cozy towns can make all the difference for those with long-term memory issues. 🏘️💭 Plus, we've got a treasure trove of experiences in multigenerational living! 🌳👵👶

In the heartwarming moments, we cherish every second, appreciating each precious instant when everyone's in sync, living in the now with our beloved seniors, just where they are at. 🌟💓 And guess what? Sometimes, a little positive manipulation is an act of pure love! 🌈💕

So buckle up and tune in for a joyous ride as we explore the world of Alzheimer's with love, laughter, and the magic of thoughtful design! 🚀🎉 Together, let's create unforgettable memories on this incredible journey! 🌠💫


“You don’t have to keep everything bottled in all the time. But arguing oftentimes doesn’t actually work because it makes them [people with Alzheimer’s or dementia] agitated emotionally, and then they can feel that in their physical sense, and then they wanna resist whatever you’re trying to do just because they feel that physical tension.” ~ Addie Cini
“It’s not our job to judge. Just back to my grandma, it wasn’t for me to tell her she did the cupcake wrong or she was capable of more. It was to meet her where she was and to say: ‘That’s great, grandma. Thanks so much for helping. I love it.’ You know, not to be caught up in what she used to be, but to meet her where she was today and help her to have a better day.” ~ Lisa Cini


In This Episode:
- 01:35: Lisa’s professional connection with Alzheimer’s
- 10:51: Diseases that could mimic dementia
- 11:51: Holistic approach to design
- 14:05: Experiences in multigenerational living
- 19:28: What is positive manipulation?
- 21:20: The Disney approach
- 22:28: The story of Addie’s great grandmother
- 25:25: Lisa’s experience staying at a facility for Alzheimer’s patients
- 29:35: Solutions you can implement in your home right now
- 37:40: Importance of removing sugar from the diet
- 44:17: What can you do today to have a better tomorrow?


Resources mentioned: 

This tiny activity demonstrates how changing your perspective can make something look completely different! - https://thesafezoneproject.com/activities/changing-perspective/

Hive: The Simple Guide to Multi-generational Living - Paperback Edition - https://www.bestlivingtech.com/hive-the-simple-guide-to-multi-generational-living-paperback-edition/ 


Connect with Lisa Cini: 
Website - https://www.lisamcini.com/ 
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/lisa.m.cini/ 
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