100 episodes

Are you dragging your feet about having the sex talks? Do you wish someone would just tell you what to say to your tween (or any age kid) about this important part of life? You are in the right place.

I’m Amy Lang, a sex and parent educator, and in my frank (really frank), opinionated, and full of swears advice-column style parenting podcast, I answer real questions from real parents about the talks. I also provide topic-specific scripts so you can sound like a pro.

Most episodes are a potluck of questions that run the gamut from abortion to porn and everything in between. They need to know about all of these things by the time they start middle school.*

When you have no idea about the best age to start the birds and bees talks; what’s age appropriate; and what to actually SAY to them about sex, it makes the sex talks daunting (to say the least)!

When it comes to the sex talks, keeping it sex positive, light and fact based is key to getting them to listen to you and see you as their go-to birds and bees source. Just Say This can help you make this happen.

To record a question for me to answer in a later show (even if you think it’s a stupid one) call 206-926-1522.*

I love funny sex talk stories, too. So feel free to call those in, too.

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+ FB @BirdsBeesKids
+ BirdsAndBeesAndKids.com

*Not a thing.

**In middle school they talk about everything so it’s better (and safer) for your kid to be super-well informed so that they feel confident and smart as things get really real. Do you remember middle school? Wouldn’t it have been so much better if you had known everything? Or anything?

Just Say This! How to have sex talks with tweens Amy Lang, MA

    • Kids & Family
    • 4.9 • 137 Ratings

Are you dragging your feet about having the sex talks? Do you wish someone would just tell you what to say to your tween (or any age kid) about this important part of life? You are in the right place.

I’m Amy Lang, a sex and parent educator, and in my frank (really frank), opinionated, and full of swears advice-column style parenting podcast, I answer real questions from real parents about the talks. I also provide topic-specific scripts so you can sound like a pro.

Most episodes are a potluck of questions that run the gamut from abortion to porn and everything in between. They need to know about all of these things by the time they start middle school.*

When you have no idea about the best age to start the birds and bees talks; what’s age appropriate; and what to actually SAY to them about sex, it makes the sex talks daunting (to say the least)!

When it comes to the sex talks, keeping it sex positive, light and fact based is key to getting them to listen to you and see you as their go-to birds and bees source. Just Say This can help you make this happen.

To record a question for me to answer in a later show (even if you think it’s a stupid one) call 206-926-1522.*

I love funny sex talk stories, too. So feel free to call those in, too.

+ IG @BirdsBeesKids
+ FB @BirdsBeesKids
+ BirdsAndBeesAndKids.com

*Not a thing.

**In middle school they talk about everything so it’s better (and safer) for your kid to be super-well informed so that they feel confident and smart as things get really real. Do you remember middle school? Wouldn’t it have been so much better if you had known everything? Or anything?

    Semen -- Episode 145

    Semen -- Episode 145

    In this episode, Amy explains semen.

    Article: 13 Things You Need to Know About Semen

    BBK Bookstore is here

    Other resources
    My new book! Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It is all scripts and some tips! 
    Sign up for my news letter and get helpful 7 Tips to Have Great Birds & Bees Talks –   Birds & Bees & Kids 
    The podcast can only get you so far...The Birds & Bees Solutions Center can help you become the trustworthy adult you didn’t have and your kid's go-to person. Includes group coaching, special topic webinars and a massive library of resources
    Use coupon code PODCAST for $10 off.
    Need more help? Schedule a Quickie Consult!
    Work with kids? Visit my site for professionals BBKpros.com
    Other resources
    Stop It Now – Sexual Abuse Prevention info and support RAINN – National Sexual Assault Hotline. Free. Confidential. BARK – Monitoring and filtering (US only)  Qustodio – Monitoring and filtering (outside US)   
    Facebook
    Instagram
    Website

    • 3 min
    Explaining 69 to an 8-year-old; penis and banana "joke"; and sperm banking for a 12-year-old -- Episode 144

    Explaining 69 to an 8-year-old; penis and banana "joke"; and sperm banking for a 12-year-old -- Episode 144

    In this episode, Amy answers mail bag questions.  

    BBK Bookstore is here

    Other resources
    My new book! Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It is all scripts and some tips! 
    Sign up for my news letter and get helpful 7 Tips to Have Great Birds & Bees Talks –   Birds & Bees & Kids 
    The podcast can only get you so far...The Birds & Bees Solutions Center can help you become the trustworthy adult you didn’t have and your kid's go-to person. Includes group coaching, special topic webinars and a massive library of resources
    Use coupon code PODCAST for $10 off.
    Need more help? Schedule a Quickie Consult!
    Work with kids? Visit my site for professionals BBKpros.com
    Other resources
    Stop It Now – Sexual Abuse Prevention info and support RAINN – National Sexual Assault Hotline. Free. Confidential. BARK – Monitoring and filtering (US only)  Qustodio – Monitoring and filtering (outside US)   
    Facebook
    Instagram
    Website

    • 22 min
    Stretch marks -- Episode 143

    Stretch marks -- Episode 143

    In this episode, Amy explains stretch marks.


    BBK Bookstore is here

    Other resources
    My new book! Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It is all scripts and some tips! 
    Sign up for my news letter and get helpful 7 Tips to Have Great Birds & Bees Talks –   Birds & Bees & Kids 
    The podcast can only get you so far...The Birds & Bees Solutions Center can help you become the trustworthy adult you didn’t have and your kid's go-to person. Includes group coaching, special topic webinars and a massive library of resources
    Use coupon code PODCAST for $10 off.
    Need more help? Schedule a Quickie Consult!
    Work with kids? Visit my site for professionals BBKpros.com
    Other resources
    Stop It Now – Sexual Abuse Prevention info and support RAINN – National Sexual Assault Hotline. Free. Confidential. BARK – Monitoring and filtering (US only)  Qustodio – Monitoring and filtering (outside US)   
    Facebook
    Instagram
    Website

    RECLAIM OUR VOTE - you can send postcards to people in conservative fucked up states and encourage them to vote!

    • 5 min
    Pornisode: Stats; what you need to know today; and a child is porn exposed and addicted -- Episode 142

    Pornisode: Stats; what you need to know today; and a child is porn exposed and addicted -- Episode 142

    In this episode, Amy talks all about how to help your kids navigate how to handle porn when they see it.
    Websites
    20 Stats About The Porn Industry 
    Culture Reframed
    Defend Young Minds
    RAINN – National Sexual Assault Hotline – where to find suport in your area
     
    BBK Bookstore is here
    Good Pictures Bad Pictures - Jr. and Sr. 
    Sexy YA novels 


    Other resources
    My new book! Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It is all scripts and some tips! 
    Sign up for my news letter and get helpful 7 Tips to Have Great Birds & Bees Talks –   Birds & Bees & Kids 
    The podcast can only get you so far...The Birds & Bees Solutions Center can help you become the trustworthy adult you didn’t have and your kid's go-to person. Includes group coaching, special topic webinars and a massive library of resources
    Use coupon code PODCAST for $10 off.
    Need more help? Schedule a Quickie Consult!
    Work with kids? Visit my site for professionals BBKpros.com
    Other resources
    Stop It Now – Sexual Abuse Prevention info and support RAINN – National Sexual Assault Hotline. Free. Confidential. BARK – Monitoring and filtering (US only)  Qustodio – Monitoring and filtering (outside US)   
    Facebook
    Instagram
    Website

    RECLAIM OUR VOTE - you can send postcards to people in conservative f****d up states and encourage them to vote!

    • 26 min
    Teen sleepovers 101 and penis haver with hand-down-the-pants issue

    Teen sleepovers 101 and penis haver with hand-down-the-pants issue

    In this episode, Amy talks about teen sleepovers.  She also explains how to handle young penis-holders.
    Resources:
    My new book! Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It Join my newsletter list and get tips and info and event announcements!  Birds & Bees & Kids  The podcast can only get you so far...The Birds & Bees Solutions Center can help you be your kid's go-to person for the sex talks. Includes group coaching and special topic webinars.                      Use coupon code PODCAST for $10 off.
    Need more help? Schedule a Quickie Consult! BBK Bookstore is here. Work with kids? Visit my site for professionals BBKpros.com Other resources:
    Stop It Now – Sexual Abuse Prevention info and support RAINN – National Sexual Assault Hotline. Free. Confidential. BARK – Monitoring and filtering (US only)  Circle – Monitoring and filtering (international)  Facebook
    Instagram
    Website

    • 18 min
    Casual sex

    Casual sex

    In this episode, Amy explains casual sex.
    Resources:
    Join my newsletter list and get tips and info and event announcements!  Birds & Bees & Kids  The podcast can only get you so far...The Birds & Bees Solutions Center can help you be your kid's go-to person for the sex talks. Includes group coaching and special topic webinars.                      Use coupon code PODCAST for $10 off.
    Need more help? Schedule a Quickie Consult! BBK Bookstore is here. Work with kids? Visit my site for professionals BBKpros.com Other resources:
    Stop It Now – Sexual Abuse Prevention info and support RAINN – National Sexual Assault Hotline. Free. Confidential. BARK – Monitoring and filtering (US only)  Circle – Monitoring and filtering (international)  Facebook
    Instagram
    Website

    • 4 min

Customer Reviews

4.9 out of 5
137 Ratings

137 Ratings

Kfghgddx ,

Necessary. And funny!

I love this podcast. I have 2 kids under 4. It’s helpful for parents of all ages. And I love Amy’s personality and humor. Just listen to this!

RDTay ,

All parents need this education.

Thank you. ALL parents need this podcast.

Erin Hearts ,

Strong opinions

I’m grateful for the strong opinions and topics on this podcast. Thank you for educating me so I can be communicative and open with my son and understanding as a middle school teacher.

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