Lead Between the Lines: The Unwritten Rules of Leadership & Power

Lois StGermaine
Lead Between the Lines: The Unwritten Rules of Leadership & Power

Welcome to Lead Between the Lines, the podcast where we expose the unspoken truths and hidden strategies that fuel real power and lasting leadership. I’m Lois St. Germaine, your guide into the sophisticated, no-BS arena of authentic influence. This space is designed for the accomplished woman who’s ready to play a bolder, deeper game—who wants more than surface-level success and is ready to embrace the true essence of what it means to lead. Each episode dives beneath the conventional, dissecting the subtle dynamics that define power in both corporate and entrepreneurial worlds. From breaking down the myths of authority to exploring the transformative journey of self-mastery, this podcast brings you raw insights, candid conversations, and the unfiltered strategies that will challenge you to step into your full power. Here, we go beyond the expected. You’ll explore the hidden principles of influence and authority that don’t make it into the guidebooks but drive real, lasting impact. This isn’t just a podcast—it’s an invitation to forge your own path, navigate uncharted territory, and define success on your terms. If you’re ready to rethink leadership, challenge the status quo, and unlock the power to lead between the lines, then let’s dive in. Get ready to see leadership differently. Here, we navigate the unspoken rules of power and unleash the leader within.

  1. 12/23/2024

    Why You’re Daydreaming About Power Dynamics (And What It Means)

    Send us a text Reclaiming Your Inner Power: Embracing Feminine Energy and Balance In this episode of Lead Between the Lines, we uncover the hidden power within you—the primal, magnetic energy that lives beneath the surface of your achievements and external success. We explore the ache you feel, the one that whispers something is missing, even when your life looks full. This conversation unpacks the symbolism behind your fantasies and cravings, revealing them as powerful signals urging you to reconnect with your suppressed feminine energy. You’ll discover why balancing masculine and feminine energies is essential for a complete and authentic life. This is about listening to the whispers of your body and reclaiming the power that has always been yours. Timestamps: 00:00 – Introduction: The power within you and why this conversation matters. 00:42 – The Ache of Missing Fulfillment: What that subtle pull is trying to tell you. 02:36 – Understanding Your Fantasies: The deeper meaning behind bold thoughts and daydreams. 04:50 – Balancing Masculine and Feminine Energies: Why integration, not replacement, is the key. 06:52 – Recognizing and Embracing Your Feminine Energy: How to reconnect with your flow, intuition, and wholeness. 09:02 – Listening to Your Inner Signals: What your body and subconscious are really saying. 12:20 – Conclusion: Reclaiming your wholeness and stepping into your true power. Ready to elevate your personal power and step into your most authentic self? Download the Reinvention Roadmap now and start your journey toward unmatched clarity, self-mastery, and bold transformation. This powerful guide will help you redefine your path and create a vision for your future that aligns with your deepest values and aspirations. Get instant access and begin crafting the life you’re meant to lead. Ready to find out what has really been calling the shots in your career and possibly life? Take the ShadowOS Archetype Quiz today. Follow me on social. Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/loisconnollystgermaine/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lois.connolly.stgermaine LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/loisstgermaine/

    17 min

  2. 12/16/2024

    Rising to Meet the Self Who Dares to Dream

    Send us a text Embracing the Hidden Dynamics of Power: Reclaiming Personal Leadership In this episode of Lead Between the Lines, host Lois takes you on a transformative journey into the subtle and often overlooked dynamics of personal leadership. What happens when power meets power? Lois introduces the provocative concept of the Existential Kink archetype—the part of you that secretly thrives on the tension of wanting without acting—and explores its role in keeping you stuck in cycles of frustration and unfulfilled dreams. With vivid storytelling and actionable strategies, Lois guides you through the process of confronting your boldest, most unapologetic self. Discover the hidden rewards of staying small, understand how these dynamics operate within your ShadowOS, and learn how to reclaim the power you’ve been unknowingly outsourcing. This episode challenges traditional ideas about empowerment, offering a nuanced and deeply resonant approach to personal transformation. Episode Breakdown: 00:00 – Introduction: Power Meets Power Lois sets the stage by exploring what happens when you meet the version of yourself who dares to articulate impossible dreams. 00:32 – Exploring Personal Leadership Unpacking the layers of personal leadership and the internal resistance that rises as you approach your potential. 01:27 – Confronting Your Boldest Self The emotional friction of standing in the presence of your future self—and what it reveals about your hidden fears. 04:53 – Understanding the Existential Kink Archetype A deep dive into the dynamics of secretly enjoying the struggle and how it keeps you tethered to your ShadowOS. 07:26 – Reclaiming Your Power How to confront these dynamics without judgment and redirect the energy toward achieving your boldest visions. 10:06 – Embracing Frustration and Moving Forward Learning to lean into frustration as a guide and using it to fuel personal growth and leadership. 13:58 – Conclusion: Meeting Your Desires Closing with an empowering challenge: What would it take to fully meet the version of yourself who’s already living your dream? Ready to elevate your personal power and step into your most authentic self? Download the Reinvention Roadmap now and start your journey toward unmatched clarity, self-mastery, and bold transformation. This powerful guide will help you redefine your path and create a vision for your future that aligns with your deepest values and aspirations. Get instant access and begin crafting the life you’re meant to lead. Ready to find out what has really been calling the shots in your career and possibly life? Take the ShadowOS Archetype Quiz today. Follow me on social. Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/loisconnollystgermaine/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lois.connolly.stgermaine LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/loisstgermaine/

    18 min

  3. 12/09/2024

    The Power of Your Next Chapter: Why Women Are Better Suited for the Leadership Shift

    Send us a text The Shift from Hustle to Wisdom: Embracing Crystallized Intelligence In this episode, we unpack a pivotal, yet often overlooked, evolution in personal growth and leadership: the shift from fluid intelligence—marked by quick problem-solving and hustle—to crystallized intelligence, where deep wisdom and strategic power take center stage. Why does this shift matter? Because it’s not just a cognitive transition—it’s a transformational opportunity for high-achieving women to step into their most powerful chapter yet. We explore why women are uniquely equipped to embrace this evolution, and how society’s narratives around relevance and aging often mask the true strength of this phase. With insights inspired by Arthur Brooks' Strength to Strength and my own frameworks, we tackle: Why hustle and willpower stop working—and why that’s not a sign of failure.The burnout trap caused by trying to operate in a "past power" curve.How to redefine success and leverage the calm, grounded authority that crystallized intelligence offers.We also dive into actionable steps to navigate this shift with confidence, including how to: Redefine success in alignment with your legacy.Leverage your crystallized intelligence to mentor, lead, and create sustainable impact.Let go of outdated tools and methods to rise to new heights of influence and fulfillment.This episode is your blueprint for leaving hustle behind and stepping boldly into the leadership role you were made for. Episode Breakdown 00:00 – Introduction: The Double-Edged Sword of Success 00:38 – The Shift from Fluid to Crystallized Intelligence: Understanding the transition. 04:15 – Why Women Are Uniquely Equipped for This Shift: Turning societal narratives into strengths. 08:01 – Challenges in the Transition: Burnout, misalignment, and the hustle trap. 14:50 – Embracing the New Game: Moving into alignment and grounded authority. 15:36 – Actionable Steps for a Smooth Transition: Redefine success, leverage wisdom, and let go of the past. 17:11 – Conclusion: Your Next Iconic Chapter. Ready to elevate your personal power and step into your most authentic self? Download the Reinvention Roadmap now and start your journey toward unmatched clarity, self-mastery, and bold transformation. This powerful guide will help you redefine your path and create a vision for your future that aligns with your deepest values and aspirations. Get instant access and begin crafting the life you’re meant to lead. Ready to find out what has really been calling the shots in your career and possibly life? Take the ShadowOS Archetype Quiz today. Follow me on social. Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/loisconnollystgermaine/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lois.connolly.stgermaine LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/loisstgermaine/

    21 min

  4. 12/02/2024

    The Leadership Gap: Why Entrepreneurs Outpace Corporate Professionals

    Send us a text In this thought-provoking episode of Lead Between the Lines, we challenge the conventional approach to career planning as the new year approaches. Unlike the common "new year, new you" mindset, we uncover why many corporate professionals delay setting their goals until January—if at all—while entrepreneurs hit the ground running weeks ahead. Join us as we dive into the stark contrasts between corporate and entrepreneurial mindsets, emphasizing the importance of intentionality, vision, and momentum creation. This episode is packed with actionable insights on crafting an exit strategy, leveraging mentorship, and aligning your career with your long-term personal goals. Whether you're navigating the corporate ladder or considering a leap into entrepreneurship, this episode will equip you to lead your future with purpose. Key Topics and Timestamps: 00:00 – Introduction to the Podcast00:30 – The Importance of Early Planning01:17 – Corporate vs. Entrepreneurial Mindsets04:24 – Reflecting on Career Milestones07:41 – Intentional Career Planning09:23 – The Role of Mentorship09:53 – Vision and Reality Creation12:47 – Corporate Culture and Leadership22:12 – Exit Strategies and Personal Freedom26:52 – Enhancing Efficiency and Connection28:28 – Balancing Work and Family32:09 – The Importance of Being Present34:39 – Reframing Busy Work35:59 – Creating an Exit Strategy39:11 – The Journey of Personal Growth46:27 – Final Thoughts on Planning and VisionKey Takeaways: Start creating momentum for the new year now; don’t wait for January.Align your career goals with long-term personal aspirations for a more fulfilling journey.Intentional planning bridges the gap between reactive decision-making and proactive leadership.Mentorship and vision work are essential tools for both corporate professionals and entrepreneurs.Developing an exit strategy provides not only freedom but clarity on how to navigate your next big move. Ready to elevate your personal power and step into your most authentic self? Download the Reinvention Roadmap now and start your journey toward unmatched clarity, self-mastery, and bold transformation. This powerful guide will help you redefine your path and create a vision for your future that aligns with your deepest values and aspirations. Get instant access and begin crafting the life you’re meant to lead. Ready to find out what has really been calling the shots in your career and possibly life? Take the ShadowOS Archetype Quiz today. Follow me on social. Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/loisconnollystgermaine/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lois.connolly.stgermaine LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/loisstgermaine/

    52 min
  5. Breaking the Addiction to Achievement: Redefining Leadership, Fulfillment, and Power with Ryann Dowdy

    11/25/2024

    Breaking the Addiction to Achievement: Redefining Leadership, Fulfillment, and Power with Ryann Dowdy

    Send us a text In this episode of Lead Between the Lines, I sit down with Ryann Dowdy, a high-performance coach and master sales consultant who’s redefining leadership and fulfillment for ambitious women. With decades of experience building multimillion-dollar sales teams, Ryann shares her journey from corporate success to creating a life aligned with purpose and happiness. We discuss: Breaking free from the addiction to achievement.Why high-achieving women often feel unfulfilled, even at the top.The mindset and energetics of intentional reality creation.The power of self-leadership and owning your identity.How to raise your bottom-bar standards to elevate every area of your life.This episode is an inspiring call to action for women ready to lead differently, step into their power, and rewrite the rules of success. 00:00 Introduction to Ryan Dowdy 02:00 Ryan's Corporate Journey 03:03 The Shift to Entrepreneurship 04:44 Struggles with External Validation 12:57 Intentional Reality Creation 23:41 Challenges in Entrepreneurship 32:25 The Importance of Studying and Relistening 33:18 Professional vs. Personal Development 34:12 Embodiment and Practical Application 37:20 Consistency Across All Areas of Life 38:24 Balancing Leadership at Home and Work 39:28 Teaching Responsibility to Children 47:49 Self-Leadership and Empowerment 49:12 The Rubik's Cube Brain 55:19 The Seven Day Experiment 58:06 Final Thoughts and Collaboration Links Mentioned: Follow Ryann on TikTok & Instagram: @RyannDowdyOfficialJoin the 7-Day Experiment: SoulCharge.com/experiment Ready to elevate your personal power and step into your most authentic self? Download the Reinvention Roadmap now and start your journey toward unmatched clarity, self-mastery, and bold transformation. This powerful guide will help you redefine your path and create a vision for your future that aligns with your deepest values and aspirations. Get instant access and begin crafting the life you’re meant to lead. Ready to find out what has really been calling the shots in your career and possibly life? Take the ShadowOS Archetype Quiz today. Follow me on social. Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/loisconnollystgermaine/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lois.connolly.stgermaine LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/loisstgermaine/

    1h 5m

  6. 11/18/2024

    Breaking the Rules and Redefining ‘Having It All'

    Send us a text Rewriting the Rules: Redefining Success on Your Terms In this episode of the Lead Between the Lines podcast, we dive into the unwritten rules that high-functioning women often follow—rules that tell us success requires sacrifice, endless grind, and constant justification for our ambitions. But what if those rules are wrong? This episode is a call to action for women ready to break free from societal norms and redefine success on their terms. Together, we explore the power of creating your own standards, reclaiming your vision, and living a life that aligns with your deepest values—without sacrificing your health, relationships, or peace of mind. You’ll discover how to stop waiting for permission, let go of outdated expectations, and rewrite the rules to build a life of ease, purpose, and alignment. This isn’t about doing more—it’s about becoming more of who you truly are. Episode Highlights: 00:00 Introduction: Uncovering the unwritten rules that keep women stuck.00:14 Breaking Barriers and Challenging Beliefs: Why women don’t believe they can play by their own rules—and why it’s time to change that.03:34 The Toxicity of Sacrifice: How the myth of “success through sacrifice” drains creativity, joy, and initiative.05:07 The Cost of Waiting: Why waiting for the “right time” holds you back from your fullest potential.07:34 Rewriting Your Own Rulebook: The freedom that comes from creating your own standards for success.09:20 Rediscovering Your Vision: Reclaiming your desires and building a life that aligns with your true values.10:27 Conclusion: Redefining success and stepping into your power.This episode is for you if you’re ready to stop grinding, start living with intention, and redefine success in a way that truly honors who you are. Ready to elevate your personal power and step into your most authentic self? Download the Reinvention Roadmap now and start your journey toward unmatched clarity, self-mastery, and bold transformation. This powerful guide will help you redefine your path and create a vision for your future that aligns with your deepest values and aspirations. Get instant access and begin crafting the life you’re meant to lead. Ready to find out what has really been calling the shots in your career and possibly life? Take the ShadowOS Archetype Quiz today. Follow me on social. Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/loisconnollystgermaine/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lois.connolly.stgermaine LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/loisstgermaine/

    14 min

  7. 11/11/2024

    Balancing Power and Vulnerability: Reclaiming Self-Worth and Navigating Identity

    Send us a text In this episode of Lead Between the Lines, host Lois and facilitator Jessica dive deep into the intricate balance of power and vulnerability, particularly for high-achieving women. Through personal reflections on earning, self-worth, and the complexity of career and family roles, they explore how subconscious fears can limit growth and self-perception. The conversation highlights the importance of allowing stillness, embracing self-care, and confronting the invisible mental load often carried without acknowledgment. Listeners are invited to reflect on their own narratives, challenge ingrained beliefs, and take steps toward reclaiming identity and self-worth. 00:00 Introduction and Welcome 00:19 Balancing Power and Vulnerability 01:14 Personal Reflections on Money and Self-Worth 04:33 The Challenge of Receiving Help 10:48 Invisible Tasks and Mental Load 21:04 Wisdom and Simplifying Concepts 26:46 Reinvention Roadmap 41:28 Conclusion and Final Thoughts Ready to elevate your personal power and step into your most authentic self? Download the Reinvention Roadmap now and start your journey toward unmatched clarity, self-mastery, and bold transformation. This powerful guide will help you redefine your path and create a vision for your future that aligns with your deepest values and aspirations. Get instant access and begin crafting the life you’re meant to lead. Ready to find out what has really been calling the shots in your career and possibly life? Take the ShadowOS Archetype Quiz today. Follow me on social. Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/loisconnollystgermaine/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lois.connolly.stgermaine LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/loisstgermaine/

    45 min
  8. Breaking Patterns, Claiming Power: A Leadership Journey with Victoria St Fleur

    11/03/2024

    Breaking Patterns, Claiming Power: A Leadership Journey with Victoria St Fleur

    Send us a text In this powerful and transformative episode, Victoria St. Fleur, an extraordinary mentor known for her unapologetic authenticity, razor-sharp wisdom, and no-nonsense leadership style, joins us for an unfiltered conversation. Together, we explore her journey of embracing her unique identity and transcending societal expectations to redefine what true leadership and personal success look like. We dive deep into critical topics that resonate with high-achieving women, including the audacity to lead from a place of integrity, the concept of the 'bottom bar,' and why embodying your standards—not just preaching them—shifts everything.  This episode is for the woman ready to disrupt her own cycles of self-sabotage, shift her relationship with self-worth and money, and rise into authentic leadership. With insights on personal integrity, responsibility, and the emotional evolution required to step into true power, this conversation will challenge you to level up in ways you didn’t think possible. Follow Victoria on Instagram at @ofrootandbranch for more bold insights into owning your power and creating a life of freedom through aligned leadership. 00:00 Introduction to Victoria St. Fleur 01:17 The Journey of Self-Discovery 05:38 Leadership and Authenticity 10:40 The Concept of the Bottom Bar 17:28 Integrity in Leadership 33:04 The Role of Money and Success 39:51 Understanding the Importance of Money 40:21 The Subconscious Operating System 41:40 Fear and the Unknown 43:28 The Cycle of Self-Sabotage 48:26 Responsibility and Freedom 51:08 Power and Identity 01:01:33 The Role of Identity in Personal Growth 01:08:14 Final Thoughts and Offers Ready to elevate your personal power and step into your most authentic self? Download the Reinvention Roadmap now and start your journey toward unmatched clarity, self-mastery, and bold transformation. This powerful guide will help you redefine your path and create a vision for your future that aligns with your deepest values and aspirations. Get instant access and begin crafting the life you’re meant to lead. Ready to find out what has really been calling the shots in your career and possibly life? Take the ShadowOS Archetype Quiz today. Follow me on social. Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/loisconnollystgermaine/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lois.connolly.stgermaine LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/loisstgermaine/

    1h 17m
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Welcome to Lead Between the Lines, the podcast where we expose the unspoken truths and hidden strategies that fuel real power and lasting leadership. I’m Lois St. Germaine, your guide into the sophisticated, no-BS arena of authentic influence. This space is designed for the accomplished woman who’s ready to play a bolder, deeper game—who wants more than surface-level success and is ready to embrace the true essence of what it means to lead. Each episode dives beneath the conventional, dissecting the subtle dynamics that define power in both corporate and entrepreneurial worlds. From breaking down the myths of authority to exploring the transformative journey of self-mastery, this podcast brings you raw insights, candid conversations, and the unfiltered strategies that will challenge you to step into your full power. Here, we go beyond the expected. You’ll explore the hidden principles of influence and authority that don’t make it into the guidebooks but drive real, lasting impact. This isn’t just a podcast—it’s an invitation to forge your own path, navigate uncharted territory, and define success on your terms. If you’re ready to rethink leadership, challenge the status quo, and unlock the power to lead between the lines, then let’s dive in. Get ready to see leadership differently. Here, we navigate the unspoken rules of power and unleash the leader within.

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