Listening from Self Lucas Forstmeyer

0:00 - Intro to Clean Language
25:00 - Persona Modelling vs IFS
55:00 - Assumptions & Leading in IFS
1:00:30 - Persona Modelling and "Fears"  

In this conversation with Wendy Sullivan and Dr. Paul Field we explore Persona Modelling - the Clean Language equivalent to Parts Work:  
- What is Clean Language again?
- How did Person Modelling come to be?
- What are the assumptions as we work with Peronsas?  

Wendy Sullivan is the author of the best-selling book "Clean Language - Revealing Metaphors and opening minds" She has been been working in the field for more than 20 years.   

Dr. Paul Field has been using Clean Language in business and his interest has brought him into co-creating multiple innovative trainings.  

Their website is https://cleanchange.co.uk/ 

Lucas Forstmeyer is leading Online Courses, Groups and Sessions teaching people to connect with themselves and others from a deeper sense of Self. His work focuses on Intimacy, Productivity and work with the Inner Critic. His Website is https://lucasforstmeyer.com

In this conversation with Dries Lombaard we explore how to talk about Talents and Strengths - in teams and in relationships:

- How can we learn the words and language to talk about talents?
- How is it helpful for ourselves to speak "for our" talents - and thus for what we need and want?
- And how can it help teams to perform better when people express their needs and energies?   

Dries Lombaard has been in the field of Strengths-Coaching for more than 20 years and the Author of "Launch your Brilliance". He has lead everything from Team Building, Executive Coaching to Training Programs in this field. In addition to being highly results driven he uses his Strengths for deep thinking understand what strengths actually are and how to use them. His Website is: https://www.strengthsynergy.co.za/    

Lucas Forstmeyer is leading Online Courses, Groups and Sessions teaching people to connect with themselves and others from a deeper sense of Self. His work focuses on Intimacy, Productivity and work with the Inner Critic. His Website is https://lucasforstmeyer.com

In this conversation with Wendy Sullivan and Dr. Paul Field we offer an introduction to Clean Language:  

- How did Clean Language emerge (and how did David Grove develop it)?
- What is the power of Clean Language?
- What does it take to learn Clean Language (and what it means to get it into your bones)?
- Additionally Wendy and Paul offer an introduction into the advances they developed in the Field: Using clean with Parts and the body  

Wendy Sullivan is the author of the best-selling book "Clean Language - Revealing Metaphors and opening minds" She has been been working in the field for more than 20 years.   

Dr. Paul Field has been using Clean Language in business and his interest has brought him into co-creating multiple innovative trainings.  

Their website is https://cleanchange.co.uk/ 

Lucas Forstmeyer is leading Online Courses, Groups and Sessions teaching people to connect with themselves and others from a deeper sense of Self. His work focuses on Intimacy, Productivity and work with the Inner Critic. His Website is https://lucasforstmeyer.com

0:00 - Intro
1:40 - body-friendly and trauma-friendly language
6:30 - Permission to go to the body
9:30 - What is body-friendly language
18:55 - Exploring somatic Parts Work
28:30 - A spontaneous Demonstration of Somatic Parts Work
42:00 - Zen and the Body
47:40 - Welcoming Resistance
52:00 - Trusting the System
59:15 - Connecting Zen and body-friendly Language  

Nick Pole has been practising, teaching and writing about shiatsu for twenty years. Over time he has worked deeply on integrating language with Bodywork. Through Clean Language, he has developed a simple approach to including Language that speaks to the body in his sessions - and written the book “Words that touch” about it. He is happy to respond to Emails if you have any questions. https://nickpole.com/

In this conversation with Dries Lombaard we explore how Talents and Strengths show up in children:  

- How early can we recognise Talents in children?
- Do children with different Talents develop differently?
- How do values and needs of developmental stages influence Talents?   

Dries Lombaard has been in the field of Strengths-Coaching for more than 20 years and the Author of "Launch your Brilliance". He has lead everything from Team Building, Executive Coaching to Training Programs in this field. In addition to being highly results driven he uses his Strengths for deep thinking understand what strengths actually are and how to use them. His Website is: https://www.strengthsynergy.co.za/    

Lucas Forstmeyer is leading Online Courses, Groups and Sessions teaching people to connect with themselves and others from a deeper sense of Self. His work focuses on Intimacy, Productivity and work with the Inner Critic. His Website is https://lucasforstmeyer.com

In this conversation with Tamsin Hartley we explore her approach to personal growth called "The Listening Space":  

- Why do we need Mindfulness for change?
- How can Metaphors help us create lasting change?
- And how can we support each other using Clean Questions?   

Tamsin Hartley is teaching The Listening Space, an approach for personal growth that can be used in group and individual sessions. https://www.thelisteningspace.co.uk/  

Lucas Forstmeyer is leading Online Courses, Groups and Sessions teaching people to connect with themselves and others from a deeper sense of Self. His work focuses on Intimacy, Productivity and work with the Inner Critic. His Website is https://lucasforstmeyer.com