22 episodes

Feminist shock jocks go off the rails and offend everyone they know and love while talking about sex, relationships, queerness, trans stuff, heteroshit, and general mayhem. EXPLICIT.

Livin' and Lovin' in NYC Livin' and Lovin' in NYC

    • Society & Culture
    • 5.0 • 15 Ratings

Feminist shock jocks go off the rails and offend everyone they know and love while talking about sex, relationships, queerness, trans stuff, heteroshit, and general mayhem. EXPLICIT.

    Episode 19

    Episode 19

    Recorded live via KPISS.FM, in which Otterpup joins us as we get uncharacteristically serious and imbue or sex podcast with political meaning. We do a post-inauguration debrief and talk about how the Victator got the wind knocked out of her, Gayle got frenzied, and Otterpup decided he's not a centrist after all, while his parents stepped up guns-a-blazing to take a stand for gay rights, Gayle's pessimism, if the Trump presidency is validating bigotry and shaking some people out of their comfortable belief in prograss, Also: Gayle and Otterpup come out as an immigrants, an unexpected uptick in Hong Kong listeners, and why we want to keep talking about butt-plug sizes and the finer points of gender identity despite it all.

    • 50 min
    Episode 18

    Episode 18

    Recorded on a porch in the Lowcountry, in which NuBritt and the Victator come together again to discuss their vaginas, how femme is not equal to sub, why the size of your pussy and labia have nothing to do with how much sex you’ve had, NuBritt’s hermit ways and how she once broke a bed, moving in together on the first date, edging, that time the Victator got the orgasm yips, and most importantly: they both finally learn where pussy lubrication comes from.

    • 1 hr 1 min
    Episode 17

    Episode 17

    Recorded live via KPISS.FM, in a more innocent time, before the election — in which Dusty and Max join as we talk about male bisexuality, if it’s more ok for ladies to be bi, if dicks rule everything, if men lose more privilege than women by coming out, Prince, Bowie, Marilyn Manson, and why hair metal was actually macho, how the AIDS epidemic put an end to speedos, man-boy love, ancient Greece, Berlin in the ‘30s, passing and not passing, if everything is RuPaul’s fault, and why dating apps are the place to be open about wanting to be shit on. Plus: Don’t forget to like us on Facebook.

    • 1 hr 10 min
    Episode 16

    Episode 16

    Recorded live via KPISS.FM, in which Rina from Indulgence Boutique joins us as we discuss sex toys, the Victator's conversation with Dr. Chris Donahue, penis oriented sex-toy company TENGA's study “The United States of Masturbation,” notions of masculinity as a barrier to cis-male use of toys, Ms. Mayness' trunk full of toys, the lack of friendly sex toy stores outside of major cities, how timing is everything when introducing toys to partners, checking that ego, Kegel detectors, orgasm noises (or lack thereof), ease of orgasms as baller status, and a blow-job hack for the deep-throat-averse. PLUS: a very special appearance from the KPISS landlord.

    • 53 min
    Episode 15

    Episode 15

    Recorded not-so-live in Gale's living room, in which Vintage Britt joins us as we discuss if there is a cultural disconnect when it comes to lesbians and the eggplant emoji, the Victator’s and Vintage Britt's "D reset button”, chasing the ick, times we don't want to have sex, why guy-on-guy porn is how Gale knows she'll never be 100 percent lez, which is better for your sex life: freelancing or office work, which came first: the chicken or the D, what lady doesn't like g******g porn, Vintage Britt and her same sex lover's epic celebrity fan fiction pursuits, and remember: don't f**k Donald Trump!

    • 1 hr 2 min
    Episode 14

    Episode 14

    Recorded live via KPISS.FM, in which Lucy joins us as we discuss sex in long-term relationships, “givin' out the fake cellphone and name,” defining “relationships” outside of exclusivity, when sex plummets off the cliff of priorities, sex frequency, how Gale needs sex ALL THE TIME, how emotional distance can get you stuck in the lust zone, and how sex is sometimes (shocker!) better in LTRs, the Victator gets sappy in her PMS, stress as a lady-boner killer vs. sex as stress relief, the Octopussy, masturbation and cohabitation, cumming standing up, saving your orgasms, and what the hell "multiple orgasms" really means.

    • 55 min

Customer Reviews

5.0 out of 5
15 Ratings

15 Ratings

doomeragent ,

Savin' All Kinds

Hey. Just wanted to drop a review and say that even as a cis hetero dude, L&LinNYC has been a huge boon for me. Having grown up in kind of a crummy situation without a lot of models for healthy behavior in relationships or sex, L&L has really helped me think about what is possible, what is difficult, what is okay, and what is loving.

Hotstepper234 ,

Move over Dan!

Witty and unabashed. These ladies are a nice alternative to Savage Love. Dan, while yes we love you and all you’ve done for sex — you still seem grossed out by women. WE WANT PEOPLE WHO GET US TOO. And these ladies do. Keep up the good work!

Hannah Neurotica ,

Totally fantastic feminist ear candy!

Love love love everything about this podcast!

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