Love Your Life Show Susie Pettit

Unconditional love means you love them no matter what, no matter what they do, no matter what they say, no matter how they act, right?

Uh yes but....

And that's a BIG BUT!

I am a huge supporter of unconditional love (as I went over in last week's podcast). Mainly because you're the one who gets to feel the love! Them move you love, the more you feel loving. I'm all for that.

What I'm not for is being a doormat which is where I see many get confused that unconditional love means having no boundaries.

Oh no warriors! As a boundary expert,I know the tips that help you NOT BE A DOORMAT!

Listen in!



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Psst....do you ever feel irritated or annoyed in your relationships?

Can I get an AMEN?!

I can get annoyed at my kids, my husband, my siblings, my neighbors, heck, I can even get annoyed by random people in the gym.

Good news is, there's something we can do that significantly helps us FEEL LESS ANNOYED!! I'm proof! I swear warriors, I went through a big part of my life being annoyed or irritated at lots of people - yep, me! Susie Sunshine! lol!

I can't wait for you to listen in!



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Are you a goal setter?

Do you like setting intentions or goals for your day, week or year?

If you're a frequent listener of the Love Your Life Show, I'll bet you do.

Which is why I'm super excited to bring this concept that I first heard of from business coach Dan Sullivan and author, Ben Hardy.

Don't run away though - this concept is one I use in my everyday life, as a mom, a wife, a high achieving woman, to feel more life satisfaction. Listen in because it works!!!



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Today I'm sharing the urge jar! One of my clients most favorite (and successful) tools. For free! No session needed! Learning about and using this tool has helped me and my clients break habits that were unhelpful for us like over drinking, over spending, over social media'ing and over eating. It has helped people lose upwards of 25 pounds and helped others to save hundreds of dollars. 



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If you are in a relationship and feeling as if, in order to do be connected to them, you have to lie to yourself or to them, this episode is for you!



Wait a minute? You're a people pleaser. Not a liar! You're doing it for them!



There's no way they go together, do they? Dear warrior, true friendships and relationships are based on acceptance of and for the other person. mutuality. None of this over functioning, under functioning of codependency...that comes from fear! 



Ask yourself this question; do I believe that being a good daughter, a good friend, a good mom, a good sister, a good wife requires me to lie? Well duh susie, no. Okay next question: how often do you not speak up because you think you know how the other person will react or because you think your needs or desires will impact the situation?

Warrior! Listen in. This episode will be so helpful for you!

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How are you feeling warrior?

Stressed? Overwhelmed? Hopeless? Listless?

You're not alone.

In a recent podcast episode, Chalene Johnson cited a study that reported how Americans were the unhappiest they've ever been in 50 years!

Fifty years warriors!

Happiness and hacking the brain to raise our happiness set point is my zone of genius warriors! I had to get on and record this podcast episode today.

Listen in to learn how to feel better.

For you, for me, for your kids, and for everyone you come into contact with.

Our happiness is a moral obligation.

Our happiness and our energy shines out and impacts every single human we come into contact with, the most important being US!

YOU MATTER TO ME

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