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My friend, I know how much you long to ENJOY Christian family life. You want your marriage and your motherhood to matter - not just in the here and now, but for eternity.

There is nothing more frustrating than pouring our heart and soul into these family relationships only to feel discouraged, distant, or distracted.

The reality is, we live in a busy world. It’s so easy to get stuck in a rut or find ourselves overwhelmed by all the perfect Christian mom things we ”should” do.

If you’re anything like me, you want to soak up every minute of your time with your family, and you want to keep Jesus at the center of it all. Well, that’s what this podcast is all about.

I’m Jess, a Christian marriage counselor and family therapist with my own wonderful husband, four energetic toddlers, and a very busy life. And this podcast is all about building healthy, happy, and holy family relationships.

Each week, we’ll tackle a different aspect of family life, from emotions to communication to family discipleship. You’ll get biblical encouragement along with plenty of PRACTICAL strategies that will help you love your Christian family life.

In my 10+ years as a marriage and family therapist, I’ve helped hundreds of women strengthen their family relationships. I know that Christian family life is hard work. But, my friend, it is also holy work. Your marriage, motherhood, and family relationships are so important! And, let’s not forget, so is your own mental health, emotional wellness, and spiritual growth.

Want to connect further? You’ll find a TON of great resources at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com.

And I’d love to hear from you. Email me anytime at jessica@loveyourpeoplewell.com

Hugs and blessings, friend! I’ll talk to you soon.

Love Your People Well - Christian Family Life, Christian Marriage, and Christian Motherhood Jessica Hayes - Christian Counselor, Marriage and Family Counselor

    • Kids & Family
    • 5.0 • 29 Ratings

My friend, I know how much you long to ENJOY Christian family life. You want your marriage and your motherhood to matter - not just in the here and now, but for eternity.

There is nothing more frustrating than pouring our heart and soul into these family relationships only to feel discouraged, distant, or distracted.

The reality is, we live in a busy world. It’s so easy to get stuck in a rut or find ourselves overwhelmed by all the perfect Christian mom things we ”should” do.

If you’re anything like me, you want to soak up every minute of your time with your family, and you want to keep Jesus at the center of it all. Well, that’s what this podcast is all about.

I’m Jess, a Christian marriage counselor and family therapist with my own wonderful husband, four energetic toddlers, and a very busy life. And this podcast is all about building healthy, happy, and holy family relationships.

Each week, we’ll tackle a different aspect of family life, from emotions to communication to family discipleship. You’ll get biblical encouragement along with plenty of PRACTICAL strategies that will help you love your Christian family life.

In my 10+ years as a marriage and family therapist, I’ve helped hundreds of women strengthen their family relationships. I know that Christian family life is hard work. But, my friend, it is also holy work. Your marriage, motherhood, and family relationships are so important! And, let’s not forget, so is your own mental health, emotional wellness, and spiritual growth.

Want to connect further? You’ll find a TON of great resources at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com.

And I’d love to hear from you. Email me anytime at jessica@loveyourpeoplewell.com

Hugs and blessings, friend! I’ll talk to you soon.

    The Key To A Happy Christian Home: Speaking Encouraging Words For Your Family

    The Key To A Happy Christian Home: Speaking Encouraging Words For Your Family

    Episode 120 // Want a happy home life? Well, one of the first things to take a look at is your WORDS. How are you using your words with your husband, your kids, even yourself inside your own head?
     
    In today’s episode, we’ll take a look at why your words matter so much, how they impact the people you love the most, and 6 Scriptures that show us how to best use our words inside our homes.
     
    Friend, nothing will tear down your home faster than harsh words, angry words, thoughtless words… and even the silent lack of encouraging, compassionate, kind words.
     
    So let’s look together at how to boost our family’s happiness by using our words well.
     
    Let’s dive in.
     
    hugs & blessings, 
    Jess
     
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    Prayer requests? Questions? Topics you want me to cover? Email me at jessica@loveyourpeoplewell.com. 
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    ... and don't forget:
    I am a licensed therapist, but the podcast and resources from Love Your People Well LLC are not professional or personal advice. Some of my links may be affiliate links and I may earn a small commission if you purchase through my link. Read my disclaimers here.
    ✨ Grab tons of resources and biblical encouragement today at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com ✨ 

    • 40 min
    25 Free Ideas For Family Fun Activities At Home, With Toddlers, Teens, Or Anyone In Between

    25 Free Ideas For Family Fun Activities At Home, With Toddlers, Teens, Or Anyone In Between

    Episode 119.5 // Friday Faith Followup
     
    Ever feel stuck on what to do with your family? How to sneak in a little quality time, make everyone smile, and have some fun on a rainy day?
     
    There are a million ideas for how to have fun together, but it’s still really easy to feel stuck. Every family tends to find their routine, figure out what works, and then just keep coming back to the same favorites again and again.
     
    Well, sometimes, we need to branch out! Try new things. Increase the quality time that we’re enjoying with our people. 
     
    That’s why today on the podcast, I’m sharing 25 simple ideas for family fun activities you can do at home. These ideas are free, realistic, and they work for toddlers or teens, without needing to always hop in the car or turn on technology to have fun together. 
     
    Want a few new ideas? Let’s dive in!
     
    hugs & blessings, 
    Jess
     
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    I am a licensed therapist, but the podcast and resources from Love Your People Well LLC are not professional or personal advice. Some of my links may be affiliate links and I may earn a small commission if you purchase through my link. Read my disclaimers here.
    ✨ Grab tons of resources and biblical encouragement today at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com ✨

    • 25 min
    Having FUN With Your Christian Family! How To Get Quality Family Time Even When Life Is Busy

    Having FUN With Your Christian Family! How To Get Quality Family Time Even When Life Is Busy

    Episode 119 // Do you ever find it hard to get quality family time? To actually have FUN together in the middle of your busy lives?
     
    Family life can mean a lot of things to us, but one of the important parts (which is so easily overlooked) is that we want to have fun together. You want to enjoy your people! Conversations, activities, and time together should be fun and meaningful. 
     
    But when life is busy or we start to feel discouraged, having fun together is usually one of the first things to slip off the radar. 
     
    Well, not after today, my friend! Today, we’re looking at 5 reasons why having fun together matters for your quality family time, plus 5 strategies for how to actually make it happen when life gets busy and overwhelming.
     
    Ready? Let’s dive in.
     
    hugs & blessings, 
    Jess
     
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    Want more? 
    You’ll find everything for Christian family life at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com.
    ✔️ Freebies
    ✔️ Devotionals
    ✔️ Faith
    ✔️ Marriage
    ✔️ Parenting
    ✔️ Emotions
    ✔️ Communication
    And don't forget to subscribe to the podcast, leave a written review (hopefully a ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ review!), and share the link to today's episode with a friend who could use some encouragement.
    Read this episode on the blog here!
    Prayer requests? Questions? Topics you want me to cover? Email me at jessica@loveyourpeoplewell.com. 
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    ... and don't forget:
    I am a licensed therapist, but the podcast and resources from Love Your People Well LLC are not professional or personal advice. Some of my links may be affiliate links and I may earn a small commission if you purchase through my link. Read my disclaimers here.
    ✨ Grab tons of resources and biblical encouragement today at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com ✨ 

    • 43 min
    (F3) What is Christian forgiveness? The Connection Between Humility, Wisdom, And Admitting When You’re Wrong

    (F3) What is Christian forgiveness? The Connection Between Humility, Wisdom, And Admitting When You’re Wrong

    Episode 118.5 // Friday Faith Followup
     
    One of the hardest things about faith is understanding (and then living out!) Christian forgiveness. It takes so much humility, courage, and godly strength to forgive others! 
     
    Apologizing to your husband and your kids is not easy work. It requires you to set aside your pride, admit when you’re wrong, and seek restoration. 
     
    None of us can apologize or forgive well if we are not growing in humility. And when our feelings are hurt or we are fuming about something that happened, it takes wisdom to step back and work toward resolution. 
     
    These are important topics, and we all need some encouragement in how we handle apologies and forgiveness in our homes. So join me today for a look at how humility, wisdom, and courage play a role in this important aspect of Christian family life.
     
    Let’s dive in.
     
    hugs & blessings, 
    Jess
     
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    Want more? 
    You’ll find everything for Christian family life at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com.
    ✔️ Freebies - Including the Conflict Resolution Checklist!
    ✔️ Devotionals
    ✔️ Faith
    ✔️ Marriage
    ✔️ Parenting
    ✔️ Emotions - Including a 40-day devotional on emotional control! 
    ✔️ Communication - Including my 40-day devotional on marriage communication!
    🔗 Don’t forget to share the link to today’s episode with a friend who could use some encouragement. 
    💯 While you’re at it, subscribe to the podcast, leave a written review, and join us for more inside the Faith Fiver Club on Patreon! www.patreon.com/loveyourpeoplewell 
    👉 Read this episode on the blog here!
    Prayer requests? Questions? Topics you want me to cover? Email me at jessica@loveyourpeoplewell.com.  
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    ... and don't forget:
    I am a licensed therapist, but the podcast and resources from Love Your People Well LLC are not professional or personal advice. Some of my links may be affiliate links and I may earn a small commission if you purchase through my link. Read my disclaimers here.
    ✨ Grab tons of resources and biblical encouragement today at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com ✨ 
     

    • 13 min
    How To Apologize, Forgive, And Restore Healthy Family Relationships: The Ins And Outs Of Christian Forgiveness In Your Home

    How To Apologize, Forgive, And Restore Healthy Family Relationships: The Ins And Outs Of Christian Forgiveness In Your Home

    Episode 118 // Do you find it easy to apologize to your kids? What about your husband? And let’s talk about forgiveness… ever have trouble forgiving someone who has hurt you?
     
    Apologies and forgiveness are not easy. But they are a must in a Christian home! Family relationships require us to apologize, forgive, and make things right. 
     
    Christian forgiveness is a big topic. Today, we’re looking specifically at the Christian family - mom, dad, kids - and how you can step forward and strengthen your skill and willingness to apologize, forgive, and help restore healthy relationships. 
     
    Ready? Let’s dive in.
     
    hugs & blessings, 
    Jess
     
    * * * * * 
    Want more? 
    You’ll find everything for Christian family life at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com.
    ✔️ Freebies - Including the Conflict Resolution Checklist!
    ✔️ Devotionals
    ✔️ Faith
    ✔️ Marriage
    ✔️ Parenting
    ✔️ Emotions - Including a 40-day devotional on emotional control! 
    ✔️ Communication - Including my 40-day devotional on marriage communication!
    🔗 Don’t forget to share the link to today’s episode with a friend who could use some encouragement. 
    💯 While you’re at it, subscribe to the podcast, leave a written review, and join us for more inside the Faith Fiver Club on Patreon! www.patreon.com/loveyourpeoplewell 
    👉 Read this episode on the blog here!
    Prayer requests? Questions? Topics you want me to cover? Email me at jessica@loveyourpeoplewell.com. 
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    ... and don't forget:
    I am a licensed therapist, but the podcast and resources from Love Your People Well LLC are not professional or personal advice. Some of my links may be affiliate links and I may earn a small commission if you purchase through my link. Read my disclaimers here.
    ✨ Grab tons of resources and biblical encouragement today at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com ✨ 
     

    • 36 min
    (F3) Find Encouragement In 3 Biblical Examples Of Jesus Keeping A Positive Attitude In Really Difficult Situations

    (F3) Find Encouragement In 3 Biblical Examples Of Jesus Keeping A Positive Attitude In Really Difficult Situations

    Episode 117.5 // Friday Faith Follow-up
     
    We struggle with our thoughts, emotions, attitudes, and interactions. They aren’t always as positive and godly as we want. 
     
    So to get a little perspective, let’s flip open our Bibles and take a look at 3 examples from the life of Jesus. Examples of times when he faced really difficult, painful, emotional situations… and dealt with it in a positive and godly way. 
     
    Of course, we’ll never handle things perfectly. Only Jesus was tempted and never sinned! We are tempted and try to sin less and less. As we try to become more and more Christ-like, looking at his example helps us get ideas for how to handle the realities of our lives in more God-honoring ways. 
     
    Ready for some encouragement? Let’s dive in.
     
    hugs & blessings, 
    Jess
     
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    Want more? 
    You’ll find everything for Christian family life at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com.
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    ✔️ Devotionals 
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    ✔️ Parenting
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    Read this episode on the blog here!
    And don't forget to subscribe to the podcast, leave a written review (hopefully a ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ review!), and share the link to today's episode with a friend who could use some encouragement.
    Prayer requests? Questions? Topics you want me to cover? Email me at jessica@loveyourpeoplewell.com. 
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    ..
    ... and don't forget:
    I am a licensed therapist, but the podcast and resources from Love Your People Well LLC are not professional or personal advice. Some of my links may be affiliate links and I may earn a small commission if you purchase through my link. Read my disclaimers here.
    ✨ Grab tons of resources and biblical encouragement today at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com ✨ 

    • 21 min

Customer Reviews

5.0 out of 5
29 Ratings

29 Ratings

Ellie Villanova ,

Amazing!!

God used this podcast to speak directly to me in a meaningful way. Thank you Jessica for being a faithful steward of the gifts and roles God has giving you as a child of God, wife, mother, therapist and more!

Mrs. Mor ,

So practical!

I’ve recently started listening to Love Your People Well, and I’m thankful for the practical tips and Bible application in each show I’ve listened to!

j l rue ,

Must listen!

Love your people well podcast has helped me so much to grow my spiritual life while also helping me more greatly enjoy and cherish my “people”. Thank you so much for sharing “real life” and for your continued insights.

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