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Man of prestige is a channel for men lifestyle, leadership and growth. We talk about dating and relationship for men. I am OLA and I am your host. Don't take my words as Gospel truth.

Let's discuss and exchange insights on modern women since we still want and need them for the most part for love and connection. Ignoring the issues will still hurt just as much if not more.

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OLA Tux Abitogun is the Creator of myEmpirePRO. We talk about real estate, entrepreneurship, building empires, marriage, relationships and more.

He is a computer engineering and engineering management graduate from New Jersey Institute of Technology; class of 2004/5. He was born in Dallas Texas and raised in Nigeria.

Today, he is a marketing addict, trainer, marketing and business consultant, real estate investor and all around serial entrepreneur. Most importantly he is husband and father to their 3 kings and ONE princess.

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Man of prestige is a channel for men lifestyle, leadership and growth. We talk about dating and relationship for men. I am OLA and I am your host. Don't take my words as Gospel truth.

Let's discuss and exchange insights on modern women since we still want and need them for the most part for love and connection. Ignoring the issues will still hurt just as much if not more.

#manofprestige #datingadviceformen #relationshipadviceformen

OLA Tux Abitogun is the Creator of myEmpirePRO. We talk about real estate, entrepreneurship, building empires, marriage, relationships and more.

He is a computer engineering and engineering management graduate from New Jersey Institute of Technology; class of 2004/5. He was born in Dallas Texas and raised in Nigeria.

Today, he is a marketing addict, trainer, marketing and business consultant, real estate investor and all around serial entrepreneur. Most importantly he is husband and father to their 3 kings and ONE princess.

    5 Signs of a Cheating Woman

    5 Signs of a Cheating Woman

    5 Signs of a Cheating Woman
    Karen is just an inch away from being ousted by her husband's best friend who is also a co-worker.
    --> READ THE BLOG POST HERE
    https://lolaandola.com/5-signs-of-a-cheating-woman/
     
    --> WATCH VIDEO VERSION HERE
    https://youtu.be/1XwuVU01Ezc
     
    He suspects that the rumors floating around work about the dude she hangs out with for lunch is true.
     
    What’s the rumor?
     
    Well… the rumor is that they have been going to eat something else during lunch and not food.
     
    I know why you are here; you are wondering if your woman is cheating on you.
     
    That’s sad!
     
    Not the part where you want answers, but the fact that you are in this position to even have to question the loyalty and faithfulness of your woman.
     
    I can only imagine what you are going through because trust can be extremely difficult to build back in marriage or relationship.
     
    It’s damn near impossible but it’s possible. Never mind what all the lames are saying on the internet and social media these days.
     
    Projection is at an all time high.
     
    I am sure there are over-exhausted list of signs of a cheating woman out there designed to scare the sh*t out of you.
     
    Trust me… it’s not that deep. After this, your fear will disappear.
     
    We are going to spell out 5 signs of a cheating woman for you in the next few short minutes.
     
    But before that…
     
    What is Cheating?
     
    LOLA: Without some form of agreement between two people to some code of conduct or standard, there is no such thing as cheating.
     
    Cheating is what happens when one person steps outside of the code they agreed to with another person. 
     
    Let’s keep it simple.  If you couldn’t share the full nature of the relationship you have with another person with your partner, it’s probably cheating.
     
    But…
     
    Who is a Cheating Woman?
     
    Like you said, a cheating woman keeps a relationship she wouldn’t necessarily be comfortable sharing the details of with her partner or husband.
     
    It doesn’t matter if physical intercourse was ever involved or not. If not yet, it’s only a matter of time anyway.
     
    That’s true. So there are… 
     
    2 Main Types of Cheating
    Emotional Cheating and Physical Cheating  
    What is Emotional Cheating?  
    Whenever a woman keeps a relationship with another person who fills emotional void for her in romantic way even if there is no sexual intercourse, this is emotional cheating.
     
    One trend we’ve seen is that women who participate in this bad behavior tend to do it with some types of blast from the past; maybe an ex.
     
    This type of cheating actually feels worse to the victim because you’ll never know what happened.
     
    None of the types of cheating feels good to a victim of infidelity. From a feeling standpoint… speaking as a man… the last thing I expect is for my woman to entertain romantic attention from another man.
     
    I am sure women will say the same thing.
     
    So what about…
     
    Physical Cheating  
    LOLA: This occurs when physical intimacy has occurred between a cheating woman and another man.
     
    Let's dive through the 5 signs you should look out for. But I have to give you a quick…
     
    Warning: Overreaction and directly querying your woman if you notice these signs will backfire and make matters worse for you personally.
     
     
    Sign #5 - She hangs out on the other side of the house  
    There is nothing wrong with a healthy space between romantic partners because distance does make the heart fonder.  But the point and ideal is that she can't wait to get back with you whenever there is space.
     
    If she is actively and consistently fighting for space from you in the same house, it could be a sign of cheating.  More importantly, it's a sign of disconnection and the beginning of eventually cheating.
     
     
    Sign #4 - She dresses very sexy but is often not in the mood for intimacy.  
    Typically, when a woman is going through it without nec

    • 7 min
    ACCOUNTABILITY vs RESPONSIBILITY - "If I Have To Protect You, Why Can't I Hold You Accountable."

    ACCOUNTABILITY vs RESPONSIBILITY - "If I Have To Protect You, Why Can't I Hold You Accountable."

    ACCOUNTABILITY vs RESPONSIBILITY - "If I Have To Protect You, Why Can't I Hold You Accountable?" 
    --> READ THE BLOG POST HERE
    http://lolaandola.com/accountability-vs-responsibility/
    --> WATCH VIDEO VERSION HERE
    https://youtu.be/4ujnoB6wY4E
     
    Wow.  I won’t call this a stupid question even though I should.  But I’ll tell you why you can’t hold her accountable.  You lack self respect.
     
    And the worst thing about it is that you are perpetuating it right now. It’s a competition.  It’s a contest.  It’s transactional.  You’ve made yourself equal to the woman… she’s not even your woman.
     
    But then I should calm down because it’s all YouTube panels and should not be conflicted with a romantic relationship.
     
    CAP.  Sadly… Many young men are taking these conversations back to their romantic relationships in attempts to hold a woman accountable.  And it’s failing.
     
    Anything I say in my lessons is easier said than done.  But they are highly rewarding when you figure it out.
     
    Thank you so much for being here.  Please support the channel by hitting the like button, sharing the video and more importantly, sharing your thoughts and engaging in the comment area below.
     
    In this lesson, we will answer questions and cover things like:
     
    Do Females Lack Accountability?  
    Accountability vs Responsibility  
    Accountability vs Blame In Relationships & Marriage  
    5 Signs of Lack of Accountability In Relationships & Marriage  
    Relationship Accountability Spectrum  
    As we speak, there are tons of conversations going on reddit and various social media platforms around the idea that accountability is a woman's kryptonite.
     
    Is that true?
     
    In fact, the memes are endless.  The manosphere talking points around women’s lack of accountability is likewise endless.
     
    For example, I just read one women accountability meme that says… and I quote…  
    "60% of women cheat but 85% of the time it is the man's fault.  Women tend to cheat because they are not being loved properly or they have been feeling lonely for a long period of time in a relationship and so they lean on another male for support and accidentally have sex with them."
     
    As you know, this is a platform where we hold ourselves as men accountable particularly to facilitate personal growth with respect to relationships.
     
    Weak men think of it as pandering.  “Ola.. stop shaming men.”
     
    One of the push back I get this most is…
     
    “So it’s always a man’s fault?” 
    Here is another meme joke I read… I guess a woman saying  
    "Whatchu mean I don't have no accountability? 1-2-3-4-5-6-7-8-9-10! See I have the ability to count.”
     
    That is funny… You will also hear things like…
     
    "Women demand equality except when they get special treatment for being a woman."
     
    Some even say “Not only are they not held accountable, if a male is involved, he's held accountable for her actions!”
     
    Well, when a man has not heard me long enough, it’s easy for him to say that I am holding him accountable for a woman’s actions.
     
    Never that!  But I could hold you accountable for not leaving and disengaging any conversation with her if she’s such a bad person.  That is your action or lack there-of.
     
    The talking points are endless.  Here is another one.
     
    “Y’all are both drunk and have sex. The male is held accountable.” 
     
    This one is obviously a generalization and you know how I feel about those.
     
    And another one.  “A girl flirts with a guy at work and the guy decides to go for it.  The guy gets fired.” 
     
    Okay. So the society protects the most vulnerable first, children, then women before we get to the men in a society that has men, women and children… no aliens.
     
    Where is the surprise here again? 
    Are we still talking about accountability for women and you are running from accountability?  
    “You both decide to get married but

    • 9 min
    DIGITAL MARKETING - More DEALS, Leads & $INCOME$ (5 Reasons to Engage Immediately)

    DIGITAL MARKETING - More DEALS, Leads & $INCOME$ (5 Reasons to Engage Immediately)

    As much as I try to stay focused in business and in life, some things… you just can't ignore; digital marketing is one of them.
     
    --> READ THE BLOG POST HERE
    https://myempirepro.com/blog/digital-marketing-dealsleads-income5-reasons-engage-immediately/
     
    --> WATCH VIDEO VERSION HERE
    https://youtu.be/W_wq9ff7XrA
     
    What is digital marketing?  
    Digital Marketing is the art and science of getting quality and profitable attention and exposure for products and services on the ever growing and increasing digital platforms such as Google, YouTube, Facebook, Instagram etc while collecting data for maximum optimization opportunities.
     
    For example, if your offer is to buy houses from distressed homeowners to relieve them of the burden of a non-producing asset, imagine 1,000 highly targeted prospects seeing an ad on their smartphone that says “we buy ugly houses.”
    I don't know if it's obvious yet, but this lesson is particularly for you if:  
    You are an aspiring or existing real estate investor or wholesaler.  
    You are an aspiring or existing business owner or entrepreneur.  
    You are looking to pivot into 6 figures 9-5 with 23+ jobs and job types available at entry level.  
    You are looking to build a digital home based business even if you don't have a product yet.  
    You are looking to pick up a digital-age life and survival skill for the coming recession.  
    All types of businesses are drowning as we speak because sales have slowed down everywhere due to complacency.  
     
    The uncertainty is increasing daily; thanks to our fast changing world.
     
    I have been able to take advantage of many opportunities since 2005 my graduation year when I first got exposed to the world of business and October 2006 when I went full time as an entrepreneur.
     
    Right now, we are at another important junction in our lifetime and it's important that you pay attention..  
     
    The more bloody it is financially for most people out there, high gas prices, inflation, increasing cost, declining valuations, crashing markets everywhere, 
     
    …the more income opportunities are coming out.  
    Digital marketing is a major source of those opportunities for your existing career, business and journey.  In this lesson, I am going to give you 5 solid reasons why I think that is.
     
    So many people have been flashing on the gram on credit and it's payday for the lenders.  
     
    What that means for those of us that have been in the trenches of digital marketing is payday too.  If you pay attention to my next few words, you too can join the family.
     
    Without any further ado, let's countdown the 5 reasons why you must engage your business and income with digital marketing starting immediately.
     
    Reason 5 - $4.9 Trillion in Sales.  
    At the end of the day, money only comes from one place.  Not from the sky, not from computers, not from mammy (at least if you are an adult), not from crypto… but from people.
     
    So if money comes from people, it is important that you pay attention to where people hang out when they are relaxing.  That used to be the mall?  
     
    People still go to the mall but you and I would agree that... not as much as they hang out on their smartphones.
     
    I mean.... people literally take their smart phones equipped with the biggest mall ever, Amazon, into the poop room.  
     
    Be honest, there is no day that someone in your household is not receiving random shipments they forgot they purchased while pooping.
     
    Exactly.  Hence the $4.9 Trillion in global retail e-commerce sales, revenue and income; it's growing year over year in every corner of the planet even in the middle of recessions.
     
    The question is what are you going to do about it for your own income?
     
    Reason 4 - Leads, List Building & More Money  
    All experienced business owners and entrepreneurs know this; 
     
    No leads, No money.
     
    I personally still get tempted all the time to sell to people who

    • 11 min
    WILL SMITH - 5 Tips for an Effective Apology (ft. CHRIS ROCK)

    WILL SMITH - 5 Tips for an Effective Apology (ft. CHRIS ROCK)

    "Chris, I apologize to you.  My behavior was unacceptable and I'm here whenever you're ready to talk."
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    - WILL SMITH - 5 Tips for an Effective Apology (ft. CHRIS ROCK)
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    - WILL SMITH - 5 Tips for an Effective Apology (ft. CHRIS ROCK)
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    So superstar $35 million Hollywood actor Will Smith finally apologized to Chris Rock on the Oscar slap and as to be expected, the whole online community is dragging him again.
     
    On March 27th, 2022 at the 2022 Oscars, Chris Rock cracked a joke around Jada Pinkett-Smith's bald head comparing her to Demi Moore's character in the movie G.I. Jane.
     
    Then her husband,Will Smith, laughed and in a split second, walked up to the stage and slapped the shit out of Chris Rock.
     
    We all thought it was a joke.  We all thought it was staged.  We all thought it was acting. But it was real
     
    From the beginning, I have made it clear that there are only 3 things that Will Smith has done wrong publicly and I'm sorry... it's not marrying Jada Pinkett-Smith  It is...
     
    Supporting the terrible idea of bringing her personal family issues to the red table talk and to the public.  
    Assaulting a fellow man for "disrespect" in front of the public; 17.7 million to be precise according to the New York Post.  
    Overdose on that “woke” lifestyle over-shalaye mansplaining nonsense.  
    The public is wrong about everything as usual including every attempt to involve Jada Pinkett-Smith in the Oscar slap which clearly did not involve her.
     
    I know you all want to bring in Tupac, her daughter’s 7 years old letter to Tupac, AUG, the Jada vs Will social media banter video… lames… but nah.  That’s weak.
     
    I can't front.  Involving and blaming her for her husband's mistakes seems to make videos go super viral.  But over here, we are not going to do that.  That's weak and toxic.
     
    We will do it the right way by helping me hit that like button, sharing and commenting your personal opinions about this apology below this video.  
     
    As a thanks for doing that, here is a picture of Jada crying.
     
    I have to keep applauding Chris Rock on his conduct throughout the whole ordeal.  
     
    In fact, he addressed it for the first time only a few days earlier on stage saying... "Anyone who says “words hurt” has never been punched in the face".
     
    Anyway, Will Smith released the apology video on Friday, July 29th, 2022 and I think it's an opportunity for us to review and extract some lessons around effective apology.
     
    I have extracted 5 tips from the 5 minutes and 44 seconds apology.  So let's get to it.
     
    Tip Number 5 - Take Your Time  
    So the slap happened on March 27th, 2022 and the apology came out on July 29th, 2022 which is about 4 months later.  I think that's more than enough time for proper introspection.
     
    One thing that's wrong about most apologies is the fact that they are often reflex action designed to push issues under the rug as fast as possible; it's avoidance at best.
     
    At this point, it's obvious that Will Smith is not trying to run from his mistake. Kudos for that.
     
    Tip Number 4 - Make it Short & Sweet (If it has to be public.)  
    If the offense happened publicly, the apology should also be public in addition to a private discussion.  
     
    So I can appreciate this public apology except for the fact that it wasn't a written statement. Will Smith seems to be overthinking everything and then making it worse subsequently.  
     
    At this point, the public rhetoric is actively trying to tear his marriage apart due to over-exposure.  It’s sad to watch… people would rather listen to and over pedestalize divorcees than those trying to make it work.  It is what it is,
     
    Anyway, anything more than a well crafted PR statement can potentially destroy his private life.  It's just not necessary a

    • 10 min
    7 Reasons Why Your Wife Will Dis-Respect & Divorce You

    7 Reasons Why Your Wife Will Dis-Respect & Divorce You

    7 Reasons Why Your Wife Will Dis-Respect & Divorce You
    --> READ THE BLOG POST HERE
    https://lolaandola.com/7-reasons-why-your-wife-will-dis-respect-divorce-you/
    --> WATCH VIDEO VERSION HERE
    https://youtu.be/TrxcSke2tlg


     
    Sadly, they are now divorced because she doesn’t respect him.
     
    Really?  Was it that simple? She was just a disrespectful wife.
     
    Is that the whole story?
     
    You and I know that’s not the whole story.
     
    A wise man once said there are 3 sides to every story.
     
    Your side  
    My side … and   
    The truth.  
    At first, she seems like the evil woman who came all the way from Ekiti, Nigeria to destroy his life based on his story.
     
    Honestly, we are still not calling that a lie.
     
    But after listening long enough, and that… in combination with the experience we have handling these types of cases, it was obvious that there were at least another 9,999 sides to this story.
     
    But we had to listen long enough to hear it between the lines and the nuances.
     
    Just a little over 8 years ago, after turning 42 years old, Maxwell decided that he had to be a little more proactive with settling down and building a family.
     
    As you can imagine, he had dealt with a fleet of other ladies in London, who he deemed belonged in the streets and weren’t wife or marriage material.
     
    You are probably wondering how he figured that out to be so?  Well, they all dumped him because of what he described in very similar patterns.
     
    It usually started as arguments that had nothing to do with their relationship… at least that’s what he thought.
     
    For example, in the case of the last lady he dated, they argued about why he thinks women should not be seen hanging out with other single women at a lounge on a Wednesday evening.
     
    I am sure you consider that to be a reasonable assertion right?
     
    But then maybe not…
     
    Anyway, the argument was just a simple debate according to Maxwell that happened 2 days after the lady… his ex-girlfriend had received a call from a colleague to hang out after hours.
     
    As far as he was concerned, it wasn’t a big deal since it wasn’t about their relationship together.
     
    A few weeks later, he noticed he wasn’t happy with what he calls the constantly combative attitude of the girl.
     
    Las las… she asked for space and he can’t find himself begging and negotiating desire.
     
    We agree completely that desire cannot be negotiated.
     
    But then, all 5 or 6 intimate relationships he created before going to find a wife from the village were laced with these similar patterns of honest conversations leading to these women asking for space.
     
    … dumping him.
     
    They just want to act irresponsibly like single women who have no one to be accountable to. Those were his words.
     
    So he figured that women who were raised the way he was raised more than 30 years ago were raised just like him; traditional.
     
    One conversation with an Uncle led to a few weeks of conversation with a young 22 years old lady in Ikere Ekiti.
     
    18 months later, she is now living in London with him and 4 months pregnant. 
     
    So everything should be fine right?
     
    Compatible… Traditional… groomed to be a wife…. pregnant immediately… he was now 44 years old and finally settling down with his own family.
     
    Yea that was the plan.
     
    According to Maxwell, she wasn’t for the streets… but she was too opinionated. And to add insult to injury, she doesn’t know when to just shut the hell up.
     
    After searching on Google, he finally realized that women are just evil if they can’t provide sex, a sandwich and shut the hell up.
     
    I mean… think about it… That sounds simple right?
     
    We had heard enough so we decided to push back and ask him some thought provoking questions.
     
    It wasn’t long until Maxwell insinuated that we were taking sides.  I can’t lie. That was actually predictable.
     
    At around the 7th year mark

    • 7 min
    5 Ways To Flip Pre-Foreclosure Listings To Cold CA$H

    5 Ways To Flip Pre-Foreclosure Listings To Cold CA$H

    5 Ways To Flip Pre-Foreclosure Listings To Cold CA$H
    --> READ THE BLOG POST HERE
    https://myempirepro.com/blog/5-ways-flip-pre-foreclosure-listings-cold-cah/
     
    --> WATCH VIDEO VERSION HERE
    https://youtu.be/jIED3rXNruk
     
    Wanna learn the 5 ways to flip pre-foreclosure listings to cold cash?  This is what happens when you fully grasp the comprehension of value as related to income.  
     
    While pre-foreclosure is misfortune for distressed property owners, you are able to not just flip it to cold cash, you are also able to flip their sorrow to relief.
     
    That's the value.
     
    Over here, we talk about making money in real estate even if you are not licensed, have no big cash for capital, have bad credit or have no experience.  
     
    One of the easiest ways to do that is by learning how to work a pre-foreclosure list. Have you ever heard the saying that “money is in the list”?  
     
    We are not talking about how to buy a pre-foreclosure.  That part is easy.  
     
    All you have to do is put a call out to a real estate agent and have these things ready… your $1,000 deposit, $20,000 in closing cost and deposit balance and good credit to obtain a mortgage.
     
    Many homeowners with properties in pre-foreclosure have admitted to the need to sell and the first people they tend to call is a real estate agent for obvious reasons.
     
    Everyone does the same thing and that's exactly why it's not the best strategy if you are looking to wholesale pre-foreclosure for quick profit if you are not licensed, have no big cash for capital, have bad credit or do not have any experience.
     
    Instead, in this lesson, I want to share 5 ways to flip pre-foreclosure listings to cold cash.  
     
    There are two contexts that support what pre-foreclosure listings are.  
     
    Licensed real estate agents refer to regular listings with a house that just so happens to be on pre-foreclosure records at the county records office as pre-foreclosure listing.  
    It's been listed like a regular house for sale to be sold hopefully before the house gets foreclosed on.  You can actually see many of these houses on Zillow.  
     
    That's not the pre-foreclosure listings that I am talking about.
     
    The pre-foreclosure listings that I am talking about is actually a hack.  It's a list that most county governments around the United States keep and maintain of houses with homeowners that have defaulted on lien such as a mortgage, property taxes, etc.  
    Basically, the house is heading for foreclosure which is a legal process in which a lender attempts to recover the balance of a loan from a borrower who has stopped making payments to the lender by forcing the sale of the asset used as the collateral for the loan; the property.
     
    So learning how to work pre-foreclosure listings for profit is a hack that I picked up back in 2005 and it made me lots of money.  I also made tons of mistakes along the way which I will  help you avoid right now.
     
    We use a strategy called wholesale real estate which is the art and science of finding deeply discounted properties and securing it as a deal for investors with cold cash.
     
    The marketing message is simple.  "We Buy Houses."  Not you personally but your endless network of buyers which I will show you how to access at the end of this video.
     
    Without any further ado, let's countdown the 5 different ways.
     
    Way Number 5 - County Government House  
    Pre-foreclosure listings can be found for free in the public records section at your county recorder's office.  These days, many of the counties have them in online portals where you can download, name, property address and the lien details.
     
    Many of these online portals are not user friendly or designed for easy download and processing to be flipped to cold cash.  Many people are still watching old training videos and manually editing spreadsheets.
     
    Can you make money that way?  Yes.  But I highly doubt it.
     
    Way Numb

    • 8 min

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