10 min
Be A Selfist: Stand Up For Enjoying Your Life Mother Plus Podcast
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- Self-Improvement
In this episode, Steph learns a new phrase that totally grossed her out: "Taking a selfish." Here's what she discovers:
Why is selfishness a phenomenon seemingly unique to women? Would most men describe doing something enjoyable as "taking a selfish"? After some online research, Steph discovered the origin of "taking a selfish" as a David Rose quote in the first ever episode of Schitt's Creek. This makes SO much sense. And also explains why this phrase is extra cringeworthy for moms to incorporate in a non-ironic way. What role does patriarchal society have in women minimizing their own needs and desires and using trite expressions that devalue their pursuit of joy? DEEP BREATH. Many recent articles have slammed the buzzword "self-care" as it seems to imply that bubble baths and pedicures are enough for women to feel happy and nurtured, overlooking real systemic changes and lifestyle choices that are the true meaning of caring for yourself. The next time you feel tempted to write off something that brings you pleasure or fulfillment as decadent or unnecessary or selfish stop. Dig deeper. Ask yourself why you are so deeply conditioned to apologize for enjoying your life. And then make a different choice.In this solo Steph episode, we go down the rabbit hole of "selfishness," especially as it pertains to women and mothers. If you've ever tried to minimize your needs and wants, rationalize caring for yourself, or used buzzwords and cliches to describe your pursuit of happiness, this episode is for you. Feeling fired up about how the patriarchy has infused you with unconscious guilt for trying to have a balanced, joy-filled life? Leave us a comment or share on social.
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In this episode, Steph learns a new phrase that totally grossed her out: "Taking a selfish." Here's what she discovers:
Why is selfishness a phenomenon seemingly unique to women? Would most men describe doing something enjoyable as "taking a selfish"? After some online research, Steph discovered the origin of "taking a selfish" as a David Rose quote in the first ever episode of Schitt's Creek. This makes SO much sense. And also explains why this phrase is extra cringeworthy for moms to incorporate in a non-ironic way. What role does patriarchal society have in women minimizing their own needs and desires and using trite expressions that devalue their pursuit of joy? DEEP BREATH. Many recent articles have slammed the buzzword "self-care" as it seems to imply that bubble baths and pedicures are enough for women to feel happy and nurtured, overlooking real systemic changes and lifestyle choices that are the true meaning of caring for yourself. The next time you feel tempted to write off something that brings you pleasure or fulfillment as decadent or unnecessary or selfish stop. Dig deeper. Ask yourself why you are so deeply conditioned to apologize for enjoying your life. And then make a different choice.In this solo Steph episode, we go down the rabbit hole of "selfishness," especially as it pertains to women and mothers. If you've ever tried to minimize your needs and wants, rationalize caring for yourself, or used buzzwords and cliches to describe your pursuit of happiness, this episode is for you. Feeling fired up about how the patriarchy has infused you with unconscious guilt for trying to have a balanced, joy-filled life? Leave us a comment or share on social.
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MOTHER PLUS FACEBOOK: https://www.facebook.com/motherpluspodcast
MOTHER PLUS PERMISSION SLIP: https://www.motherplusser.com/Permission-Slip
MOTHER PLUS NEWSLETTER: https://www.motherplusser.com/signup-page
MOTHER PLUS BLOG: https://www.motherplusser.com/blog
10 min