Unbroken Alexandra Amor

Our bodies are the vehicles in which we move through life. Our thinking can be the fog that sometimes fills up the windshield we are looking through. Thankfully, we all have factory installed GPS to help guide our way.







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Transcript of Episode







Hello, explorers, and welcome to episode 58 of Unbroken. I’m Alexandra Amor. I’m here today to talk about the windshield of life. I’ll get into that in just a moment. And it is really the one thing I think that when we see it about life, when we understand this idea, this metaphor, it really does change everything, including our ability to deal with things like anxiety, or depression, or unwanted habits like overeating. So we’ll get into that in just a second. 







I do want to mention again about the Unbroken Community that I’m starting up. So if you’re interested in joining a group of like minded people, having some one-on-one coaching from me, meeting regularly, twice a month to do that, and learning from the coaching that other people receive as well, go to alexandraamorcom/community. You can learn all about what I’m thinking of for this community. And learn more about the details, including the 10% off that you’ll receive for all my books and courses, and a library of videos that will be available, all that kind of stuff, Alexandraamor.com/community. And there, you can sign up to join the waiting list. 







The community hasn’t started yet, if you’re listening to this, as I’m recording in early April 2024. But I want to gauge the level of interest and just see if there’s enough interest in having a group like that. So that’s where you can go to learn more about that and sign up if you would like further information when the group comes together, and when it will be meeting and all that kind of stuff.







All right, let’s get on to this metaphor that I’ve got for you today about the windscreen of life.







This came to me the other day, and I jotted it down, probably more than a week ago. And I’ve been sort of contemplating it ever since. I really like it, I think it really explains a lot about what we’re trying to get our heads around when we’re exploring this inside out understanding. So it looks like this. 







Picture a car, for me, any kind of car doesn’t matter what kind of car it is, could be your car could be your fantasy car, whatever it is. And that car is going to be a metaphor for us for the way that we move through life. And in every car nowadays, anyway, there’s always a windscreen protecting the driver and the passengers, the interior of the car from what’s on the outside. And so like I said, yeah, the car is a metaphor for you for your body. It’s the vehicle that you are using to move through life. 







The windscreen is our ability to see.







It’s as clear as possible. We want it to be clean and clear so that we can see what’s happening outside of the vehicle, outside of the car. And then what happens?

Life has an unerring knack for presenting us with challenges and opportunities for change. Dr. Linda Pettit explores our innate intuitive nature and how we can use that to help us navigate the curves that life brings to us.













Dr. Linda Sandel Pettit is a distinguished author known for her insightful work, including her acclaimed memoir, Leaning into Cuves: Trusting the Wild, Intuitive Way of Love.







With over five decades dedicated to writing, four decades immersed in counseling psychology, and two decades serving as a spiritual mentor, Dr. Linda brings a wealth of experience and expertise to her practice as a speaker, writer and mentor.







Unafraid to delve into divine wisdom, deep feminine knowing, and intuition, Dr. Linda empowers her clients to tap into their innermost truths. Through her guidance, she inspires and facilitates the release of pure love, allowing individuals to express their authentic selves fully.







You can find Linda Pettit at LindaSandelPettit.com and on Instagram at lindasandelpettit.







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You can listen above, on your favorite podcast app, or watch on YouTube. Notes, links, resources and a full transcript are below.







Show Notes









* Discovering that anxiety is thought created 







* What if being calm and in a good feeling is how we’re meant to exist?







* The only thing that ever gets in the way of love is our thinking







* Using self-reporting instruments to gauge how clients were being helped by the Three Principles understanding







* How our intuitive knowing is a life raft for us







* How mystical experiences are the norm or all of us







* Examples of listening to intuitive knowing and letting it guide us







* Why waiting for the moving parts of life to align is important









Resources Mentioned in this Episode









* Linda’s book Leaning Into Curves







* Book: The Butterfly Effect by Andy Andrews









Transcript of Interview with Dr. Linda Pettit







Alexandra: Dr. Linda Sandel Pettit, welcome to Unbroken.







Linda: Thank you. Good to be here.







Alexandra: It’s lovely to have you here. So why don’t we begin with a bit of your background? 







Why don’t you tell us who you are and when you came across the Three Principles?







Linda: I have kind of an interesting background. I started out in journalism and public relations. And then I found my way into the helping professions. I was a counseling psychologist for 30 some, 35 years. And now I do speaking, and writing and mentoring. 







I came across the Three Principles about what was exactly 21 years ago. So when I met my husband, who many know in the Three Principles world, Dr. Bill Pettit, he’s a psychiatrist. And he had been mentored by Sydney Banks, the man who shared the principles originally. Or boy, even at that point, I think it had been close to 20 years. And so I got introduced through Bill. 

When we strive for perfection are we doing ourselves a favour or adding unwanted stress into our lives? When it comes to eating well and resolving an overeating habit, I think embracing the beautiful messiness of life is much more helpful.







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You can listen above, on your favorite podcast app, or watch on YouTube. Notes, links, resources and a full transcript are below.







Show Notes:









* The top 3 ways perfection is a mistake







* How needing to be perfect increases the amount of thinking we’re dealing with







* Why perfection is boring







* How important the messiness of life is







* On the unkindness of perfection









Transcript of Episode







Hello explorers and welcome to episode 56 of Unbroken. I’m Alexandra Amor. I’m here today to talk about perfection, and how it’s a mistake. 







Before I jump into that I wanted to mention, in case you didn’t hear me last week, that I’ve put together a page of information about a community I’m starting, called the Unbroken Community.







You can join a join up for the waitlist for that community at:







AlexandraAmor.com/community







I want to find out if there’s interest in this sort of thing. So there’s a whole bunch of information on that page that I just mentioned, about what the community will look like, when the group coaching calls that we’ll have, the pricing and all the other details about what’s involved, whether it’s a good fit for you, there’s information there about that, and whether it isn’t.







I think it’s always really important in these situations to make it clear what the offering is, and one of the ways to do that is to make it clear that this might not be a good fit for you. If so, you’ll see a little list of bullet points about that as well. So lots of information there.







Check it out: AlexandraAmor.com/community if you’re interested in connecting with me, connecting with others who are wanting to resolve unwanted habits, like overeating, but it could be any kind of unwanted habit as well. Because as I said last week, they all have the same root cause. So yeah, check that out.







All right, so now let’s talk about perfection. In the last few weeks, since I had my coaching call with Tanya Elfersy \that you can listen to on episode 53.







As I said, a couple of weeks ago, my eating habits have been way better. 







I’m so grateful for that. And I’m really happy because it feels like I turned a corner. I had had more insights, learned some more stuff as we do. It’s an ongoing journey. It’s never over is it really? I think as long as we’re alive, we’re going to be continuing to learn. 







Since then, since that corner that I turned, I’ve noticed some more some thinking and more thinking that I’m comfortable with about perfection about holding myself to a standard when it comes to eating that feels a l...

When was the last time you felt deeply heard? Nurse and Three Principles practitioner Wendy Williams shares the impact deep listening has on both the listener and those being listened to. We also discuss the priceless benefits that understanding every human’s innate resilience can have for nurses and other healers.









As a nurse educator and clinician for over 25 years, Wendy Williams helps people facing extraordinary (and ordinary) challenges to move forward with grace and ease. She is an experienced mental well-being educator.







As Wendy sees it (and teaches it), we are meant to thrive in this world, but sometimes we get stuck. Whether it’s being swept up in the whirlwind of everyday life or struggling to overcome a major life hurdle, getting back on track, and moving forward can, and will, happen quite naturally. Wendy’s deep experience mixed with her practical and kind-hearted teaching & education point the way forward.









You can find Wendy Williams at ForwardWithWendy.com and on Facebook at Find Your Way Forward.







You can listen above, on your favorite podcast app, or watch on YouTube. Notes, links, resources and a full transcript are below.







Show Notes









* Paying attention to work we’re naturally drawn to







* Recognizing an awareness of our innate well-being







* How in any circumstance in life we can react in any number of ways depending on our thinking







* On the universal intelligence that flows through everything, including us







* The benefits for healers like nurses of knowing about our innate resilience







* The difference between deep listening and active listening









Resources Mentioned in this Episode









* Wendy’s Deep Listening class with Lori Carpenos, April 5 to 7, 2024







* Sydney Banks’ book The Missing Link







* Beyond Recovery







* Jacqueline Hollows’ book Wings of an Angel









Transcript of Interview with Wendy Williams







Alexandra: Wendy Williams, welcome to Unbroken. 







Wendy: Thank you very much for having me. I’m excited to be here with you. 







Alexandra: Oh, I’m excited, you’re here as well. So let’s begin with a little bit of your background.







Tell us about yourself and how you got interested in the Three Principles.







Wendy: Sure thing. Well, I live in the northeastern part of the United States near Boston, Massachusetts, I have been a nurse for more years. I got married at the ancient age of 38 to a guy that I just adore, even as we speak, I adore him. 







I have been a nurse, like I say, for a very long time, specializing for years in conditions like HIV AIDS, cancer, hospice, so I’m a real pro at the bedside when people are saying goodbye. And, a lot of what I do happens to do with ongoing or chronic pain. 







I’m still practicing as a nurse in that regard. But I’m also having a real focus on bringing the Three Principles to a wider community in health c...

Last week, on episode 53 of Unbroken, Tania Elfersy coached me around my overeating habit and the return of that habit after months of having it resolved. This week I share the moments that had the most meaning for me and also expand on some of the highlights to offer greater clarity and understanding for those who are dealing with an unwanted habit like overeating.







You can listen above, on your favorite podcast app, or watch on YouTube. Notes, links, resources and a full transcript are below.







Show Notes









* How the words we use in this exploration are pointing to a feeling







* Why did I forget what I know about the drive to overeat?







* How wrestling with ‘problems’ makes them sticky







* How we can use even healthy food to quell the drive to overeat







* How our feelings are always an accurate barometer about our state of mind and/or connection to our well-being







* Why awareness is enough to change an unwanted habit









Resources Mentioned in this Episode









* Episode 53, It’s Not All On You with Coach Tania Elfersy







* Tania’s website







* My new course on Insight Timer is called How To Tell If A Group Has Cult-Like Tendencies







* Sydney Banks’ YouTube Channel







* Book: It’s Not About The Food







* Podcast: Psychology Has It Backwards with Christine Heath and Judith Sedgeman









Transcript of Episode







Hello explorers and welcome to episode 54 of Unbroken. I’m Alexandra Amor. I’m back with a follow up to last week’s episode 53 with Tania Elfersy where she coached me. So I’m going to go through, as I mentioned, and pull out the things that really stuck out for me, the highlights, and talk about what resonated with me, maybe provide some clarity if things weren’t clear.







Tania and I are quite good friends, we’ve known each other for over four years, we are in a mastermind group together. So I suspect that we were able to shorthand some things. So I just want to pull a couple of those things out, and make sure that it was clear to you the listening audience.







Before we begin, a couple of pieces of information I wanted to share.







One is that because of Tania’s coaching session with me, my eating is back on track, I’m eating in a way that really works for me that feels good. And that feels healthy. And it doesn’t feel disordered, for lack of a better word. I don’t feel that drive to overeat anymore. I just feel really good about the way I’m eating. So yay, that’s a victory.

You’ve heard me struggle for the past few months because I’ve had a relapse into my overeating habit. I finally wised up and called in my friend Tania Elfersy to coach me. In this episode, Tania shares so much wisdom and teaches me many things including that awareness of what is truth and what isn’t is so important and that once we’re aware our divine design will take things from there.













Tania Elfersy has a passion for revealing rarely discussed truths about women’s life-cycle events.







She is a transformative coach, speaker, writer and educator. Since 2015, Tania has been supporting women through perimenopause and menopause, allowing them to reach natural symptom relief, and a greater sense of well-being.







You can find Tania Elfersy at TheWiserWoman.com and on Facebook @TheWiserWoman.







You can listen above, on your favorite podcast app, or watch on YouTube. Notes, links, resources and a full transcript are below.







Show Notes









* The truth is always in clarity, never in a bad feeling







* What is an unwanted habit telling us about?







* What happens when we fall off the path of truth?







* The importance of being aware of our experience in the moment







* How wrestling with what we’re feeling makes it ‘sticky’







* How it’s not on us to fix how we feel – it will fix on it’s own once we’re aware of having fallen off the path of truth







* When we are calm solutions arise









Transcript of Interview with Coach Tania Elfersy







Alexandra: Thank you for being with me here today. I really appreciate it. And here’s the funny thing. I had a couple of insights in the last couple of days that have felt like they’ve been quite helpful.







I was listening to some Sydney Banks stuff while I was cooking the other night. And I guess it doesn’t really matter what was said, but he said,









“You are a divine being walking through this life trying to find yourself.”









I really resonated with that. It really encapsulated everything we do, and just shifted something for me. But let’s talk about the stuff that’s tricky. Because that’s where the juice is.







My main question is if you felt stuck, what do you do in that situation?







Tania: That’s why I often feel stuck. Because I’m such a human. I don’t fly on my little enlightenment cushion. And sometimes, it just occurs to me that the feeling is telling me what’s true. So I fall back into the feeling. And ponder on that.







I’ve checked this out now for about six, seven years. Because it’s not enough that I’ll tell you, the feeling is pointing to what’s true. And in that sense, as I’m sure you know, that is the feeling of clarity. And everything else is not true. So, again, I could tell you this, but until you’ve really experienced it. I’m still surprised when I get that. And I’ll give you an example, really, it’s not, I guess it’s not like a stuck example, but it’s an example of that.







I was trying to go to sleep, I’d almost fallen asleep or I just about falling asleep. And all of a sudden there was a huge bang. I mean, boom.