Navigating the Complexities of Caregiving: A Conversation with Dr. Allison Applebaum

In this episode host K. Wilkes is in conversattion with Dr. Allison Applebaum, author of 'Stand By Me: A Guide to Navigating Modern, Meaningful Caregiving', as she shares her personal journey as a caregiver for her father, renowned musician Stan Applebaum, known for many iconic songs including "Stand By Me" and "This Magic Moment".   The conversation explores the emotional complexities of caregiving, the impact of grief, the importance of building a support network, financial considerations, and the challenges of navigating complicated family dynamics. Allison emphasizes the significance of self-care, mindfulness, and advocating for quality of life while addressing ageism in healthcare. This insightful dialogue offers valuable guidance for current and future caregivers. In this conversation, Allison Applebaum discusses the importance of the platinum rule in healthcare, advocating for patients' values, and the challenges faced by caregivers. She shares her personal journey of caregiving for her father, the inspiration behind her book 'Stand By Me', and her vision for the future of caregiving, emphasizing the need for systemic support for family caregivers. The discussion also highlights practical resources for caregivers and concludes with advice for those embarking on the caregiving journey.

Chapters

03:00  Introduction to Caregiving and Personal Journey

05:08   The Transition to Caregiver Role

08:49  Navigating Grief and Caregiving Responsibilities

12:00   Building a Support Network for Caregiving

15:21   Financial Considerations in Caregiving

18:37  Managing Complicated Relationships in Caregiving

20:14  The Importance of Self-Care for Caregivers

22:50  Incorporating Mindfulness in Caregiving

24:55  Addressing Ageism in Healthcare

27:40  Advocating for Quality of Life in Caregiving

28:09  The Platinum Rule in Healthcare

33:15   The Journey of Caregiving and Advocacy

36:12   Inspiration Behind 'Stand By Me'

38:51   The Future of Caregiving

41:20   Resources for Caregivers

46:55   Final Thoughts on Caregiving

Resources & Links

Dr. Allison Applebaum

Website: https://allisonapplebaum.com/

Instagram: @drallisonapplebaum 

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