9 min

One Thing Some Guys Resent (ways to build trust instead) – 4.24S Coffee with The Couple Cure

    • Kids & Family

Transitioning from dating to marriage has its challenges, even without addictions. But healing a relationship after betrayal is even more challenging. Here are some things you can do to make the process easier–without resenting your spouse–especially if you’re trying to rebuild trust.





TIMESTAMPS (click on a time below to be taken to that section)





0:00 Intro

0:11 It doesn’t take much

1:06 What some guys resent

1:46 The counselor told Jay, “You can’t crank her up like a machine and expect…”

2:14 What Matt thought marriage would be like (dating) *

2:50 One Solution: If he had continued dating his wife

3:40 Being intentional about continuing to date each other *

4:00 How a “perceived lack of finances” can impact relationships

4:56 Solutions to a lack of finances while rebuilding trust *

7:02 $7 cheese and other trees

9:09 In the next episode: How to rebuild trust when you feel attacked



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https://thecouplecure.com - Jay and Lori's website

https://matthewfray.com - Matthew Fray's website

https://pornpainhealed.com - Lori's site for betrayed partners

https://porniskillingme.com - Jay's site for porn addiction recovery



#betrayal

#relationships

#pornaddiction

#marriageadvice

Transitioning from dating to marriage has its challenges, even without addictions. But healing a relationship after betrayal is even more challenging. Here are some things you can do to make the process easier–without resenting your spouse–especially if you’re trying to rebuild trust.





TIMESTAMPS (click on a time below to be taken to that section)





0:00 Intro

0:11 It doesn’t take much

1:06 What some guys resent

1:46 The counselor told Jay, “You can’t crank her up like a machine and expect…”

2:14 What Matt thought marriage would be like (dating) *

2:50 One Solution: If he had continued dating his wife

3:40 Being intentional about continuing to date each other *

4:00 How a “perceived lack of finances” can impact relationships

4:56 Solutions to a lack of finances while rebuilding trust *

7:02 $7 cheese and other trees

9:09 In the next episode: How to rebuild trust when you feel attacked



--





https://thecouplecure.com - Jay and Lori's website

https://matthewfray.com - Matthew Fray's website

https://pornpainhealed.com - Lori's site for betrayed partners

https://porniskillingme.com - Jay's site for porn addiction recovery



#betrayal

#relationships

#pornaddiction

#marriageadvice

9 min

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