273 episodes

On my show, I aim to create a space that allows us all to hear each other's points of view. Constructive dialog helps us all realize that truly hearing another person's story can enrich our lives. After all, when you walk in Other People's Shoes, you really do get a different perspective on life.

Other People's Shoes Neil Matthews

    • Religion & Spirituality
    • 5.0 • 77 Ratings

On my show, I aim to create a space that allows us all to hear each other's points of view. Constructive dialog helps us all realize that truly hearing another person's story can enrich our lives. After all, when you walk in Other People's Shoes, you really do get a different perspective on life.

    Free To Fly

    Free To Fly

    What is the hardest thing you have ever done? How far down your list of hardest things is forgiving someone? I have heard it said, “Not forgiving someone is like drinking poison and expecting the other person to die.” My guest today is Todd Boczkowski. Todd helps us take flight with a very story, and an even harder person to forgive. Forgiving someone is akin to releasing the weight of resentment and bitterness that has tethered you to the ground. It's an act of liberation, granting you the freedom to soar unencumbered by the burdens of past grievances. As a bird takes flight with newfound grace and ease, forgiving allows you to transcend the confines of hurt and anger, propelling you toward a brighter horizon. In forgiving, you reclaim control over your emotions and your narrative, opening up space for healing and growth. It's a powerful acknowledgment of your strength and resilience, enabling you to embrace life's journey with a lightness of being as if finally set free to explore the vast expanse of the sky. Join me as we take flight with Todd Boczkowski.

    • 39 min
    Baggage

    Baggage

    Have you ever seen this person? They were just out of line suitcases opened wide and trying to decide what to take out of their bag to make it make the weight limit. Usually, there is anger, frustration, and maybe even tears trying to make it work. My guest today is Maurice F. Martin. Maurice, wants you to know that you don't have to carry that extra weight any longer. Your baggage weight limit of 50 pounds when flying is crucial for several reasons. Firstly, it ensures the safety and efficiency of the aircraft. Exceeding weight limits can strain the plane's structure and compromise its aerodynamics, potentially leading to safety hazards. Additionally, weight restrictions are in place to maintain fuel efficiency. Carrying excess weight requires more fuel consumption, contributing to environmental impact and operational costs. Moreover, adhering to baggage weight limits allows airlines to fairly distribute weight among passengers, ensuring a comfortable and equitable flying experience for all. So, while it may seem like a hassle, keeping your baggage under 50 pounds is essential for air travel safety, and efficiency. Join me as we take flight with Maurice.

    • 41 min
    Redirected

    Redirected

    Imagine for a moment you're on an airline and you're just about to take that nap you've been wanting to all day long. That sound comes over the intercom stating that this flight will be redirected. What are you do? My guest today is Danielle Cobo. Danielle in the face of adversity, unstoppable grit emerges as the driving force propelling individuals forward, undeterred by challenges. It's the relentless determination that fuels their journey, even amidst setbacks. Sometimes, being redirected becomes necessary, a strategic shift in course to navigate obstacles effectively. Yet, within these moments of redirection, the true impact of unwavering determination reveals itself. Like a phoenix rising from the ashes, they seize the opportunity to redefine their path and take flight toward their goals, empowered by their resilience and unyielding spirit. Join me as I take flight with Danielle.

    • 46 min
    Empty Seat

    Empty Seat

    Losing a child is an unimaginable tragedy that leaves an indelible mark on a parent's heart. The grief that follows is a heavy burden, one that seems impossible to bear. Each day becomes a struggle, filled with moments of overwhelming sadness and longing for the child who is no longer there. It's like navigating through an endless maze of emotions, where even the smallest memories or reminders can trigger waves of pain. The loss is profound and profound, a wound that never fully heals, no matter how much time passes. Parents often find themselves grappling with feelings of guilt, questioning what they could have done differently, and grappling with the unfairness of it all. Moving forward feels like an insurmountable task, as the void left by their child's absence looms large in their lives. It's a journey fraught with setbacks and moments of despair, yet amidst the darkness, there remains a glimmer of hope that one day, they may find a way to carry on, honoring the memory of their beloved child while learning to live with the pain of their loss. My guest today is Judi Merriam. Judi today shares about the "empty seat" and the "empty shoes by the door". Listen as we "take flight" with Judi Merriam

    • 45 min
    Traffic Control

    Traffic Control

    In aviation, a traffic controller holds a position of immense responsibility, serving as the critical link between aircraft and ground operations. With precision and expertise, they manage the movement of airplanes on the ground and in the airspace, ensuring safe and efficient departures, landings, and taxiing. Their role encompasses communication with pilots, providing instructions regarding altitude, routes, and clearances, all while coordinating with other controllers to maintain separation between aircraft. Armed with advanced radar systems and sophisticated communication tools, they orchestrate the intricate dance of air traffic, prioritizing safety above all else. Their vigilance is unwavering, especially during peak traffic periods or adverse weather conditions, as they efficiently guide aircraft through complex airspace. In the high-stakes aviation environment, a traffic controller's meticulous attention to detail and split-second decision-making are paramount, making them the unsung heroes of the skies. My guest today is Amanda Quick. Amanda has one of the craziest stories you may hear. I believe she had to balance her turbulence on the ground to be able to one day sore. Join me as we fly to new heights with Amanda Quick.

    • 41 min
    My Call Sign?

    My Call Sign?

    “It’s the way he flies, ice cold, no mistakes. He just wears you down. You get bored, frustrated, do something stupid, and he’s gotcha.” The quote from "Top Gun" and "Goose" Portrayed by Anthony Edwards is about Val Kilmer's character. My guest today is Ryan Mayer. Ryan is NOT a doctor or a naval aviator. However, Ryan is here to share his expertise on ADHD, as he is a coach and deals with it himself. Stay tuned for the great reveal as Neil has tasked Ryan with trying to see if he has ADHD.

    • 45 min

Customer Reviews

5.0 out of 5
77 Ratings

77 Ratings

Great app- danielle ,

The podcast that encourages you to keep moving forward.

If you're on the hunt for a show that's like a warm hug for your soul, "Other People's Shoes" is a must-listen. It’s like sitting down with a good friend who's been through it all and has wisdom to share.

The host of this podcast is just so relatable and has a knack for drawing out stories that hit close to home. Each episode feels like you’re catching up with an old friend who's been through their fair share of ups and downs. Whether it’s tackling loss or bouncing back from tough times, these real-life stories are all about finding that silver lining.

The "Other People's Shoes" is not just about sharing challenges; it’s about sharing victories and the little strategies that helped along the way—feeling stuck? This podcast is like that gentle nudge or that burst of encouragement you need to dust yourself off and keep moving forward.

ilove2eatveggies ,

Your weekly dose of empathy

Neil has a casual and approachable rapport with his guests - he is a vulnerable and affable host that has fun while going beyond your typical interview/personal story questions. An under the radar education of life lesson. A must listen.

Thetruthoftmis ,

Thetruthoftmis

Neil runs a good ship here . Very unique perspective love the approach and concept on his show. I recommend the podcast to anyone who wants to see someone who is Dedicated and all in when it comes to creating a space to where you can enjoy a great and honest conversation that brings about an Authentic experience for the listener and guest.

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