Out of Bounds — Stop Asking

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About the Episode:

Caroline Culbertson hosts Kenyora Parham, Tracy DeTomasi, and Abigail Morris in unpacking the themes and topics of the survivor experience elicited in "Stop Asking."

"Stop Asking" exemplifies many of the common questions survivors of all identities receive from others after experiencing sexual abuse. The PSA encourages the audience to pivot from responses of victim shaming and blaming to those of care and support for the survivor. From delayed disclosure to sporting team dynamics to interpersonal, organizational, and systemic response, the subject matter experts provide nuances, tips, and best practices for supporting survivors. Each from their own background and professional lens, they together shed a bright light on the need to believe survivors, shift focus to the perpetrator's behavior, and continue embarking on cultural change. Note, this Podcast is an abridged version of the full Roundtable Discussion.

Episode Topics:

Victim Blaming (00:24)

False Reporting (02:08)

Disclosure (04:35)

Societal and Cultural Beliefs (08:13)

Digital Landscape (16:44)

Resource Gap (22:38)

Sporting Environments (26:53)

Resources and Support:

If you or someone you know needs support, visit #WeRideTogether's resources and crisis resources.

About the Series:

The Out of Bounds series consists of four short-form PSAs, each of which explores facets of the victim experience, inside and outside the world of sports, and provides insight, language, and metaphor into "what it's like" to be a victim of sexual abuse or misconduct. The PSAs allow the audience to walk in the victim's shoes as they navigate the survivor's journey interpersonally and within society. Additionally, #WeRideTogether has hosted four longer-form discussions with survivors and subject matter experts to expand the conversation on the topics and nuances in the PSAs. Supporting information and resources for survivors, athletes, parents, coaches, organizations, supporters, and society at large are also provided.

About #WeRideTogether:

#WeRideTogether is a nonprofit organization created to cast light upon the endemic issue of sexual abuse in youth and amateur sports. Our mission is to make the youth and amateur sport environment safer for all athletes. We believe sport should be the safest and healthiest place for children and young adults to grow and flourish, and that every individual has the right to learn, play, and compete without fear of sexual abuse. We are committed to creating the radical change needed to fulfill that vision by addressing education and awareness, creating a safe place for survivors to find resources and share their voices, and eliminating the stigma around these necessary conversations.