Out of Queeriosity

Elena Joy Thurston
Out of Queeriosity Podcast

Consider us your Field Guide for Queer Pride. You will hear from the best of the best in terms of queer business leaders, queer relationship experts, the activists working to protect us all, and everyday LGBTQ+ people that have figured a few things out so you don’t have to. “Out of Queeriosity” is brought to you by Pride and Joy Foundation.

  1. Suzette Mullen: The Only Way Through is Out

    JAN 18

    Suzette Mullen: The Only Way Through is Out

    Suzette Mullen (she/her) is a memoir and nonfiction book coach, retreat leader, and the author of the memoir The Only Way Through Is Out, forthcoming February 13, 2024, from the University of Wisconsin Press. Her publications include a tiny love story in the New York Times and The Subaru Should Have Been a Sign, an essay that went viral on today.com.  As a book coach, Suzette builds safe and supportive communities for queer writers where she helps them find their deeper stories and big ideas, choose the structures that serve those stories and ideas, sort through their publication options, find agent representation, and land book deals. “I had this experience of recognizing my sexuality later in life. And the question for me was, how did I not know this before? How did I get to this place? And then how did I get to a place where it was so difficult for me to make a decision about or take action on what I knew to be true for myself?” “I had a lovely life and I have no regrets about that lovely life I led. And I have two sons who I have a great relationship with. I have an ex-husband who I'm still friendly with. I had a whole life before. I feel very grateful that I am now stepping into Suzette 2.0, and it is a very different life. It is a life that feels more alive for me. I feel more aligned with everything.” “We talk about how visibility matters. And I'm sharing a story of somebody who came out later in life, came out in her fifties, is stepping into a vibrant professional career in, in her fifties and now into my sixties. And hopefully it's going to resonate with some people out there.” “I didn't just make a huge change in my personal life. I did that first and then the professional possibilities and really stepping into the work I was meant to do — just to write stories and to help guide other writers and in their storytelling. I mean I love, love my work.” Links Sign up to receive the Insider Companion Guide to The Only Way Through is Out Order Suzette’s book The Only Way Through is Out Learn more about book coaching with Suzette Learn more about Suzette’s Mentorship and Community of Queer writers, Write Yourself Out

    41 min
  2. Ayla Kapahi & Savanna Saldate: Queer & Brown Leadership in Brewing

    11/09/2023

    Ayla Kapahi & Savanna Saldate: Queer & Brown Leadership in Brewing

    Ayla and Savannah run the all-female production crew at the award-winning Borderlands Brewing Co in Tucson, AZ. They've taken those leadership skills into the community, co-founding the local Pink Boots Society chapter, and creating cross-cultural leadership opportunities that reach across our southern border for community building in unlikely places - the women-run breweries of Mexico. Join us to listen and learn from their unique and impactful journey! OutofQueeriosity.com    https://tucsonfoodie.com/2023/02/02/ayla-kapahi/ https://tucsonfoodie.com/2022/09/08/las-hermanas-2022/ https://ket.org/program/la-frontera-with-pati-jinich-14148/beer-tasting-at-borderlands-brewing/ https://www.instagram.com/aylakapahi/?hl=en https://www.linkedin.com/in/ayla-kapahi-337164265/ https://www.borderlandsbrewing.com/ https://www.instagram.com/openupsavy/ Savanna Saldatem she/her- Tucson native since 1991. Lead Brewer for Borderlands Brewing Company for 5 years. Dog-loving, travel-loving, experience-driven human being. LGBTQ+ community member.   Ayla Kapahi, she/her, is the Head Brewer and Director of Production for Borderlands Brewing Company. She has 8 years of professional brewing experience in Tucson. She’s part of an all-women’s beer production facility and collaborates with women brewers throughout Mexico. Ayla is passionate about empowering women and minorities in the craft beer industry. She co-founded Pink Boots of Southern Arizona, a non-profit that supports women in alcohol fermentation sciences. Ayla is currently completing a master’s degree through Eller’s Evening MBA program at the University of Arizona. She loves spending time with family and friends. If Ayla had more free time, she’d spend it taking Bachata dance lessons, going to classic car shows, and training for a weightlifting competition.

    50 min
  3. Ricky Koo: Deconstructing Binary Experiences in LGBTQ+ Leadership

    10/26/2023

    Ricky Koo: Deconstructing Binary Experiences in LGBTQ+ Leadership

    Today, we are joined by Ricky Koo (he/him), an incredible leadership and development coach who leverages his day job as a tech executive to mentor emerging LGBTQ+ leaders to increase their impact. Our conversation explores the binary experience of growing up in both American culture and Hong Kong culture. Ricky shares his experience in coming out to himself and his cherished mother and how Ricky is using his voice to build connection and community. Ricky displays one of the skills masterfully in this episode.  Ricky Koo (he/him) is a first-generation, queer immigrant originally from Hong Kong. He is a full-time Dog Dad, Finance executive in the technology industry, and a proud entrepreneur who owns a coaching business centered around empowering under-represented communities in their life and career. Ricky's vision is a future of more diverse, more empathetic, and more self-aware leaders, as he coaches individuals and teams on authentic leadership and impactful communication.  You can find Ricky on Instagram @coachingwithricky or on his website: rickykoo.com. Also, you can read his blog post, Queer Innocence and Discovery on the Pride and Joy Foundation Blog here.  _________________________________ Our podcasts are produced with the incredible help of Jessica Whipple. Are you in need of podcast assistance? Find Jess online for podcast management support: jessicawhipple.com @jessicawhipple.wav

    42 min
  4. juliany taveras: queer Ayití Bohio Storyteller

    10/12/2023

    juliany taveras: queer Ayití Bohio Storyteller

    juliany taveras (they/them/elle) is a storyteller from Ayití Bohio (Dominican Republic) by way of Lenapehoking (New York City). Their work, which centers the lives and liberation of the Afro/Indigenous and queer/trans diasporas, takes many forms, including playwriting, screenwriting, poetry, photography, graphic design, teaching artistry, and (perhaps most importantly) kinship. This fall, a new World Premiere stage adaptation of Morris Micklewhite and the Tangerine Dress will debut at Children's Theatre Company (CTC), written by playwright juliany taveras and directed by Heidi Stillman, Artistic Director of Chicago's Lookingglass Theatre. The production will run at CTC from Oct. 10 - Nov. 19, 2023. More information is available here: https://childrenstheatre.org/whats-on/morris-micklewhite/.   About the Play: Morris likes lots of things: doing puzzles, painting pictures, pretending to be an astronaut, and wearing a tangerine dress from his school’s dress-up box because it “reminds him of tigers, the sun, and his mother’s hair.” But some of his classmates think boys can’t wear dresses because … well, they’re boys. With his vivid imagination and space-animal friends, Morris travels the galaxy in search of an answer to the all-important question: “Do astronauts wear dresses?”   The original children's book Morris Micklewhite and the Tangerine Dress has received widespread praise, from critics, readers, families, and educators. Dame Julie Andrews featured it on her show, Julie's Library. It has received the following recognition: Stonewall Book Award-Mike Morgan and Larry Romans Children's and Young Adult Literature Award, 2015, Honor, Children's (Young Adult Literature).   Australian Family Therapists' Award for Children's Literature, 2017, Picture Book.  Marilyn Baillie Picture Book Award, 2015, Finalist, Children's Literature.  Prix TD De Litterature Canadienne Pour L'Enfance et la Jeunesse, 2015, Finalist, English Language.  TD Canadian Children's Literature Award, 2015, Finalist, Children's Literature. First video teaser: https://vimeo.com/859480374?share=copy  ______________________ Our podcasts are produced with the incredible help of Jessica Whipple. Are you in need of podcast assistance? Find Jess online for podcast management support: jessicawhipple.com @jessicawhipple.wav

    43 min
  5. Meg Appelgate & Katie McNamara: Talking About the Troubled Teen Industry with Unsilenced

    09/28/2023

    Meg Appelgate & Katie McNamara: Talking About the Troubled Teen Industry with Unsilenced

    In this episode, we chat with Meg Appelgate and Katherine McNamara of Unsilenced.  Unsilenced is a nonprofit dedicated to lifting the voices of survivors of the troubled teen industry and eradicating the industry altogether. This is incredibly important work for the LGBTQ+ community, as a disproportionate amount of LGBTQ+ youth are in these dangerous organizations. In many instances, this is where our youth experience conversion therapy and live with the consequences. From Unsilenced -  Every year, thousands of children are sent against their will – often ripped out of their beds in the middle of the night by strangers – to private facilities to be treated for various mental illnesses, addiction issues and perceived behavioral problems. Many times these programs are labeled as “boot camps,” “behavioral modification schools,” “wilderness therapy,” “secured group homes,” and “conversion therapy.” These programs market themselves to parents, therapists, state and judicial agencies, and insurance companies as providers of therapeutic treatment. Instead of delivering evidence-based treatment, many of these programs deliver a myriad of maltreatment such as physical, verbal, and sexual abuse, isolation, forced hard labor, chemical sedation, sleep and food deprivation, attack therapy, aversion therapy, etc. Tags for IG, twitter, and Tiktok:  @unsilenced_now Unsilenced Tags for Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Unsilenced.now Unsilenced Website: www.unsilenced.org Meg is the co-founder and CEO of Unsilenced, a nonprofit organization aiming to stop institutional child abuse within the Troubled Teen Industry (TTI). She is a survivor of 2 TTI programs, where she spent a combined total of 3 1/2 years of her teen years feeling brainwashed and abused.  After graduating college, with a degree in psychology,  completely oblivious to the abuse she had experienced, Meg spent the next 17 years dedicating her life serving on various non-profit boards helping with Board development, recruitment, and fundraising.  It wasn’t until she was well into her non-profit career that she woke up to the abuse and brainwashing that plagued her childhood and the effect it had on her entire adulthood. It was then that she became determined to pair her love of giving back and helping those in need, with her dedication to empowering other survivors of institutional abuse.   Katherine spent over 2.5 years in Provo Canyon School and Casa By The Sea as a teenager. She has been an outspoken vocal advocate speaking out against this industry and advocating for evidence-based community treatment. In her years of advocacy, she’s conducted multiple investigations into active and closed programs, worked with law enforcement on multiple investigations, built one of the largest program maps, and created the largest archive of program data that is currently available online. In 2020, she was featured in Paris Hilton’s documentary, entitled “This Is Paris” where she and her fellow Provo Canyon School classmates discussed their experiences and brought much-needed mainstream attention to the plight of children in these programs. Outside of her advocacy work, Katherine McNamara is well-known in the cybersecurity field. She is considered a subject matter expert and has published several courses, books, articles, and blogs. She has earned a Bachelors of Science in Information Technology Security, Masters of Science in Information Security and Assurance, and holds over 30 industry certifications including two CCIEs, CISSP, etc.   _________________________________ Our podcasts are produced with the incredible help of Jessica Whipple. Are you in need of podcast assistance? Find Jess online for podcast management support: jessicawhipple.com @jessicawhipple.wav

    57 min
  6. Suzette Mullen & C. Rizleris: Supporting Queer Authors with OUTWrite Authors

    09/14/2023

    Suzette Mullen & C. Rizleris: Supporting Queer Authors with OUTWrite Authors

    Are you book-curious or book ready? Did you know the publishing industry is 89% hetero? We NEED LGBTQ+ writers, we need YOUR voices. If you have expertise and always wanted to write a book or you are ready to take your business to the next level, then OUTWrite Authors might be for you. This week we take a deep dive with our instructor of OUTWrite Authors, Suzette Mullen (she/her), and our very own Director of Operations, C. Rizleris (they/them), who also happens to be an OUTWrite Authors grad.  Suzette Mullen (she/her) is a memoir and nonfiction book coach, retreat leader, and the author of the memoir The Only Way Through Is Out, forthcoming February 13, 2024, from the University of Wisconsin Press. Her publications include a “tiny love story” in the New York Times and “The Subaru Should Have Been a Sign,” an essay that went viral on today.com.  As a book coach, Suzette builds safe and supportive communities for queer writers where she helps them find their deeper stories and big ideas, choose the structures that serve those stories and ideas, sort through their publication options, find agent representation, and land book deals. C. Rizleris (they/them) is a recent MFA Writing graduate from Vermont College of Fine Arts. They are a contributing writer for the Pride and Joy Foundation and have worked in higher education for over ten years. They currently volunteer with LGBTQ+ youth at the Guilford Green Foundation and serve on the Transgender Task Force Committee for the city of Greensboro, NC. You can find C. on Twitter @rizwrites or visit their website.  _________________________________ Our podcasts are produced with the incredible help of Jessica Whipple. Are you in need of podcast assistance? Find Jess online for podcast management support: jessicawhipple.com @jessicawhipple.wav

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Consider us your Field Guide for Queer Pride. You will hear from the best of the best in terms of queer business leaders, queer relationship experts, the activists working to protect us all, and everyday LGBTQ+ people that have figured a few things out so you don’t have to. “Out of Queeriosity” is brought to you by Pride and Joy Foundation.

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