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Doctor NerdLove is here to help you get your dating life in order with the best dating advice and positive masculine self-improvement on the Internet.

Doctor NerdLove is not really a doctor

Paging Dr. NerdLov‪e‬ Harris O'Malley

    • Self-Improvement
    • 4.7 • 120 Ratings

Doctor NerdLove is here to help you get your dating life in order with the best dating advice and positive masculine self-improvement on the Internet.

Doctor NerdLove is not really a doctor

    This Is Why Dating Sucks For Men (And How To Fix It)

    This Is Why Dating Sucks For Men (And How To Fix It)

    For a lot of men, dating isn't something you enjoy, it's something you endure. From trying to meet women, to getting a number, to actually getting women out on a date... it's more like pulling teeth than meeting a potential partner.

    Today, I want to give you all some advice I wish I had gotten back when I first started dating. Dating for men can be kind of awful. But not for the reasons you might think.

    Here are 5 reasons why dating can SUCK for men… and what you can do about it.

    • 27 min
    The 5 Things That Make People Like You... Instantly

    The 5 Things That Make People Like You... Instantly

    The most magnetic, charming and well liked people aren't popular because of their looks, their money, or their bodies. People like them because of they make others feel and the value that they bring into other peoples' lives.

    These 5 qualities will help you create stronger, more profound connections with others, teach you to be instantly charismatic and become incredibly well liked by everyone around you.

    • 24 min
    Building Incredible Emotional Strength And Powerful Confidence

    Building Incredible Emotional Strength And Powerful Confidence

    Right now, we are living through the most stressful, even outright traumatic year that most of have ever faced in our lives. It can be incredibly hard to have a positive attitude and solid confidence. It can be hard not to look around and say “how am I supposed to have the strength to keep going?" 

    It's time to learn how to build the emotional strength it takes to persevere, that confidence and the positive attitude that can help you face and overcome the challenges in your life that seem impossible.

    • 25 min
    The Secret to Healthier, Stronger Relationships

    The Secret to Healthier, Stronger Relationships

    Have you struggled with relationships that were bad for you?

    Maybe you’ve been in a toxic relationship with somebody who manipulated you, leaving you feeling like a doormat. Maybe you had friends who treated you badly or pushed you to do things that went against your values.

    One of the most important things you can do to ensure you have strong, healthy relationships is to have strong boundaries.

    Today, I'm going to teach you how to build strong boundaries... and how to enforce them.

    • 27 min
    This Is What Nobody Tells You About Having ADHD

    This Is What Nobody Tells You About Having ADHD

    Growing up, I knew I was struggling with things that other people seemed to be able to do effortlessly. I thought I was just lazy, that I needed to be more disciplined and to take things more seriously. But it never worked, and I never understood why.

    Now I finally have the answers. 

    This week, I want to talk with you about my experiences with having been diagnosed with ADHD as an adult, how it can affect you and your relationships, and my experiences with getting diagnosed and getting treated. 

    • 27 min
    The 5 Things You Need To Know About Dating

    The 5 Things You Need To Know About Dating

    The #1 reason why so many men struggle with dating is very simple: they don't know what it takes to be successful with women. Attraction isn't a checklist. Learning to succeed with women isn't about having the right car or the right body, it's about learning how to become your best, most desirable self. 

    That's why this week, I'm going to teach you the 5 things YOU need to know in order to succeed with women, become the man you've always wanted to be and build the love life you've always wanted. 

    • 22 min

Customer Reviews

4.7 out of 5
120 Ratings

120 Ratings

Jenna and Bunny ,

Listen to this guy!

Female here, long time listener because it’s so great to hear such good dating and life advice. Men, check it out, this guy knows what’s up.

Ice Game Reviews ,

Wow

Seriously I feel like the first episode I listened to was a life changer for me! Thank you so much for putting this content out there. The one I listened to was about fear of rejection and I never related to something more. I think I will listen to it daily while I do the other work that you advised on. Thanks so much! Peace and love to you!

LorienL ,

I wish all single men would listen to this

Inspired by the recent posts about online dating: one month ago, I married a man I met online who followed all of the suggested rules for online dating. It was about four years ago, so he hadn’t listened to these posts- but we’re a case study of why and how these behaviors work. I think that women in general would be more open and less suspicious if all single men followed these directives.

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