Each week this podcast talks about some aspect of personal relationships. Phil and Maude believe that conflict-free relationships are possible for everyone, and talk about how they achieve that between them.
Can We Make All Our Relationships New and Fresh As We Emerge From Lockdown?
Santa Barbara has moved into the Yellow Zone. We’re fully vaccinated and in the midst of a lovely and hectic flurry of meeting up with people as we all emerge from the pandemic. It has been wonderful seeing people we … Can We Make All Our Relationships New and Fresh As We Emerge From Lockdown? Read More »
You Need to Honor the Connection at the Heart of all Relationships
PHIL: Language is an ax that divides the world. Take any word – tree, timidity, travel – and we can say what it does and doesn’t apply to. There will be fuzziness at the edges, but the effect is to … You Need to Honor the Connection at the Heart of all Relationships Read More »
Why Making Time for Sacred Space in Your Relationship is so Important
PHIL: Everybody we know seems to be venturing out again. We’re on our second trip since being fully vaccinated, and on the drive we talked about the importance of getaways and why this is so. One reason is the stimulation … Why Making Time for Sacred Space in Your Relationship is so Important Read More »
Why It Is Important To Remember You Are On The Same Side As Your Partner
We live a peaceful, harmonious life together. What makes this possible? Because that is our desire and our intention. We often caution you to remember that you and your partner (the same applies to all intimate relationships) are both on … Why It Is Important To Remember You Are On The Same Side As Your Partner Read More »
Make Your Relationship Commitment About Intention, Not Obligation
Maude was describing our relationship as having an element of peace, a lack of anxiety; of there never being any distance between us; that we could trust that no weird thing would suddenly appear between us, that no Jeckyll and … Make Your Relationship Commitment About Intention, Not Obligation Read More »
How to Work Through Disagreements to Reach a Mutual Solution
We wrote last week about why core values are so important and that when you and your partner want different things, having shared core values usually makes a resolution possible. Sometimes, of course, it’s not a problem at all. Bill … How to Work Through Disagreements to Reach a Mutual Solution Read More »