In this episode we discuss future faking and how a narcissist plants seeds, that lead to a false hope of future faking. They will allow you to think that you have met your soul mate, you will be taking trips, spending the holidays, birthdays and special events together. You will completely be investing in them and their priorities, everything that you wanted in a partner will magically appear before your eyes. You will now have met your perfect match and they will lead you to believe that the future is with them, you’ll open your heart and they will begin to pull you into their web of lies, false promises and deliver you a nightmare of stress, pain, anxiety, paranoia, shame, self-doubt, excitement, devastation, depression, and literally make you feel less of the great person you are.
You have to look clearly and stop allowing them to blur your reality, so you can try to see theirs more clearly. You are not in their best interest, they FAKE IT till they make it and hoping you never seen the true side of the mark they wear everyday.
Boundary Pushes + Future Faking Investing in a Hope fueled fantasy Progression of manipulation