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2002-10-18 Carole Diary Carole Baskins Diary

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Jay Cihangir Baykal Affair Ends with an Eviction & Restraining Order


 


This photo was from his LinkedIn profile in 2018 because I have no photos of Jay from 2002.


After breaking up with Peter Kent I met Jay Baykal on Match.com.  He lived in Orlando so it was a long drive for me once or twice a week to be with him and he rarely drove over to Tampa.  I was living at the Island.  He was Turkish and called himself the “Cotton King” saying his father owned Sanko and had sent him to the U.S. to be his primary buyer.  Jay had asked me to marry him within 3 weeks of meeting me and that should have sent up a red flag.  I was so impressed that he wanted me to turn the sanctuary over to my daughter and come be with him.  I had come to feel that all any man wanted me for was monetary gain.  He lavished me in gold and jewels and became increasingly paranoid and jealous. 


 


I wouldn’t leave the sanctuary so he moved in with me and brought all of his furniture within a month or so of our meeting so he would know where I was at night.  It got worse and he started insisting that I not go to work at the sanctuary and began worrying that my daughter and family were going to come between us.  He was very rough with me sexually, and just kept getting weirder and weirder, by not letting me leave the house.  When he said he’d kill my daughter and family so they wouldn’t be a threat to his relationship with me, I knew I had to end it.  The only way to make him move out was to file a tenant eviction, even though he paid no rent.


 


He didn’t take that well.  I got a restraining order after he dragged me by the hair with a 9mm Glock pistol to my head.  (It took that much violence to get the order!)


 


I waited until he was out of the house and had the locks on the house and gate changed.   When he called me screaming, I told him I’d ship his furniture back to his house in Orlando on my own tab, but I never wanted to see him again.  I told him that threatening to kill my family was the last straw.  I’d put up with a lot, but I wasn’t going to be with someone who would hurt them.   I hoped that letting him know that would protect them from any retaliation.  


 


I shipped his stuff back to him, including every piece of jewelry he’d ever given me; which was considerable.  I filed a tenant eviction against him on 10/16/02 in case number 02-CC-025052 and the next day had to get a restraining order against him due to his violence on 10/17/02 in case number 02-DR-017308.  


 


The court records have been destroyed and I don’t know how, or if it is even possible to get a copy now, but the end result was he was out and couldn’t come back anywhere near me. 


 


I didn’t know it until years later, but in retaliation on 10/18/02 he filed falsely for a restraining order against me.  It was denied the same day because the judge said there was no threat, and I never actually saw a copy of it until 2020 when I pulled it off one of my critic’s websites.  I guess he figured it would be a lasting way to cast doubt on my integrity and innocence.  


 


Hillsborough County Official Records Book 12139 page 167 on 10/18/02


 


Jay Baykal  cell phone   home phone 


 


A 2006 background search showed he had been arrested May 5, 1993 D753712 in Horry, S.C. on felony charges which were dropped in 1995.  No further info is available on the report.  On May 10, 2006 he was arrested for stalking in Sanford, FL case number 2006MM004516A while still living at xxxx Crystal View Dr, Orlando, FL. He had some charges for drug possession and traffic violations since then as well.  


 


I've been writing my story since I was able to write, but when the media goes to share it, they only choose the parts that fit their idea of what will generate views.  If I'm going to share my story, it shou

Jay Cihangir Baykal Affair Ends with an Eviction & Restraining Order


 


This photo was from his LinkedIn profile in 2018 because I have no photos of Jay from 2002.


After breaking up with Peter Kent I met Jay Baykal on Match.com.  He lived in Orlando so it was a long drive for me once or twice a week to be with him and he rarely drove over to Tampa.  I was living at the Island.  He was Turkish and called himself the “Cotton King” saying his father owned Sanko and had sent him to the U.S. to be his primary buyer.  Jay had asked me to marry him within 3 weeks of meeting me and that should have sent up a red flag.  I was so impressed that he wanted me to turn the sanctuary over to my daughter and come be with him.  I had come to feel that all any man wanted me for was monetary gain.  He lavished me in gold and jewels and became increasingly paranoid and jealous. 


 


I wouldn’t leave the sanctuary so he moved in with me and brought all of his furniture within a month or so of our meeting so he would know where I was at night.  It got worse and he started insisting that I not go to work at the sanctuary and began worrying that my daughter and family were going to come between us.  He was very rough with me sexually, and just kept getting weirder and weirder, by not letting me leave the house.  When he said he’d kill my daughter and family so they wouldn’t be a threat to his relationship with me, I knew I had to end it.  The only way to make him move out was to file a tenant eviction, even though he paid no rent.


 


He didn’t take that well.  I got a restraining order after he dragged me by the hair with a 9mm Glock pistol to my head.  (It took that much violence to get the order!)


 


I waited until he was out of the house and had the locks on the house and gate changed.   When he called me screaming, I told him I’d ship his furniture back to his house in Orlando on my own tab, but I never wanted to see him again.  I told him that threatening to kill my family was the last straw.  I’d put up with a lot, but I wasn’t going to be with someone who would hurt them.   I hoped that letting him know that would protect them from any retaliation.  


 


I shipped his stuff back to him, including every piece of jewelry he’d ever given me; which was considerable.  I filed a tenant eviction against him on 10/16/02 in case number 02-CC-025052 and the next day had to get a restraining order against him due to his violence on 10/17/02 in case number 02-DR-017308.  


 


The court records have been destroyed and I don’t know how, or if it is even possible to get a copy now, but the end result was he was out and couldn’t come back anywhere near me. 


 


I didn’t know it until years later, but in retaliation on 10/18/02 he filed falsely for a restraining order against me.  It was denied the same day because the judge said there was no threat, and I never actually saw a copy of it until 2020 when I pulled it off one of my critic’s websites.  I guess he figured it would be a lasting way to cast doubt on my integrity and innocence.  


 


Hillsborough County Official Records Book 12139 page 167 on 10/18/02


 


Jay Baykal  cell phone   home phone 


 


A 2006 background search showed he had been arrested May 5, 1993 D753712 in Horry, S.C. on felony charges which were dropped in 1995.  No further info is available on the report.  On May 10, 2006 he was arrested for stalking in Sanford, FL case number 2006MM004516A while still living at xxxx Crystal View Dr, Orlando, FL. He had some charges for drug possession and traffic violations since then as well.  


 


I've been writing my story since I was able to write, but when the media goes to share it, they only choose the parts that fit their idea of what will generate views.  If I'm going to share my story, it shou

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