46 min

Dare I FEEL Fun with Jessica Bargenquast Coffee and Tea with CarrieVee

    • Entrepreneurship

About Jessica: For most of my life, I felt invisible. Do you ever feel like people don’t see you or don’t listen to what you have to say? That is how I felt 90% of the time growing up and into adulthood. But this would literally show up in my life. People would LITERALLY walk into me because they didn’t see me or talk over me because they couldn’t hear me. A bird flew into my face once, my partner steps on my toes all the time because he doesn’t see them?! Seriously, sometimes I thought I was LITERALLY invisible.I’ve always envied those who could just stand up and talk in front of any number of people. I’m obviously an introvert, like a hardcore introvert. The only time I’ve ever become an extrovert is while drinking and let’s face it that’s just not sustainable.I didn’t see movement in my business until I finally started saying YES to things that made me uncomfortable. I don’t know what made me do it but I think I just reached a breaking point and was fed up with myself for playing small and making excuses but I saw on Instagram that a photographer I admired was starting a test group and to join you had to apply and talk about yourself – the group was all about taking action. I knew inside me I had to do this. I applied and I was in! From there I just started saying yes and showing up. Truly connecting with someone I admired changed the game for me. I was finally being seen and heard! From there I’ve learned to invest in myself, say yes, and take consistent action. I am seeing the results and I couldn’t be happier!My advice to you is to say yes to that thing you know deep down you wish you could do. When you get that pit in your stomach, sweaty palms, and all over nerves…that’s your intuition telling you to say yes. It doesn’t mean it will be easy but it will 100% be worth it.Join the FUN IS NOT A DIRTY WORD Challenge!May 17 to 21, 2021: www.coachcarriev.com/funisnotadirtywordchallenge

About Jessica: For most of my life, I felt invisible. Do you ever feel like people don’t see you or don’t listen to what you have to say? That is how I felt 90% of the time growing up and into adulthood. But this would literally show up in my life. People would LITERALLY walk into me because they didn’t see me or talk over me because they couldn’t hear me. A bird flew into my face once, my partner steps on my toes all the time because he doesn’t see them?! Seriously, sometimes I thought I was LITERALLY invisible.I’ve always envied those who could just stand up and talk in front of any number of people. I’m obviously an introvert, like a hardcore introvert. The only time I’ve ever become an extrovert is while drinking and let’s face it that’s just not sustainable.I didn’t see movement in my business until I finally started saying YES to things that made me uncomfortable. I don’t know what made me do it but I think I just reached a breaking point and was fed up with myself for playing small and making excuses but I saw on Instagram that a photographer I admired was starting a test group and to join you had to apply and talk about yourself – the group was all about taking action. I knew inside me I had to do this. I applied and I was in! From there I just started saying yes and showing up. Truly connecting with someone I admired changed the game for me. I was finally being seen and heard! From there I’ve learned to invest in myself, say yes, and take consistent action. I am seeing the results and I couldn’t be happier!My advice to you is to say yes to that thing you know deep down you wish you could do. When you get that pit in your stomach, sweaty palms, and all over nerves…that’s your intuition telling you to say yes. It doesn’t mean it will be easy but it will 100% be worth it.Join the FUN IS NOT A DIRTY WORD Challenge!May 17 to 21, 2021: www.coachcarriev.com/funisnotadirtywordchallenge

46 min