9 min

Polyvagal Safety Cues & Loved Ones: Why You Don't Feel Connected (maybe‪)‬ Stuck Not Broken

    • Mental Health

Learn why you might have difficulty accepting safety cues, even from your loved ones. Your Polyvagal state acts as a filter and changes your perception of your interactions with others.
00:00 Introduction and Viewer's Question
00:52 Understanding Safety States
01:39 The Role of Interpersonal Relationships in Safety States
03:45 The Impact of Defensive States on Perception
05:48 Building Strength in Your Safety State
07:28 Alternative Avenues for Anchoring Safety
08:20 Conclusion and Invitation to Join Trauma Recovery Courses
🔸Total Access Membership of trauma recovery courses and community - https://www.justinlmft.com/totalaccess
🔸Free ebook, "Trauma & the Polyvagal Paradigm" when you sign up for my email list - https://www.justinlmft.com/books
🔸Learn the Polyvagal Theory simply and for free - https://www.justinlmft.com/polyvagalintro
🔹I'd love your feedback! - https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSeZhfJa5_AWDN1D4zDO1nDMqs7gl0UrKpmuCqRYLmA5et08zg/viewform?usp=sf_link
National Suicide Prevention Hotline - 1 (800) 273-8255
National Domestic Violence Hotline -1 (800) 799-7233
LGBT Trevor Project Lifeline - 1 (866) 488-7386
National Sexual Assault Hotline - 1 (800) 656-4673
Crisis Text Line - Text “HOME” to 741741
Call 911 for emergency
This and other content produced by Justin Sunseri (“JustinLMFT”) (i.e; podcast, YouTube, Instagram, etc.) is not therapy, not intended to be therapy or be a replacement for therapy.  Nothing in this creates or indicates a therapeutic relationship.  Please consult with your therapist or seek for one in your area if you are experiencing mental health symptoms.  Nothing should be construed to be specific life advice; it is for educational and entertainment purposes only.
Justin Sunseri is a Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist registered in the State of California (#99147).

Learn why you might have difficulty accepting safety cues, even from your loved ones. Your Polyvagal state acts as a filter and changes your perception of your interactions with others.
00:00 Introduction and Viewer's Question
00:52 Understanding Safety States
01:39 The Role of Interpersonal Relationships in Safety States
03:45 The Impact of Defensive States on Perception
05:48 Building Strength in Your Safety State
07:28 Alternative Avenues for Anchoring Safety
08:20 Conclusion and Invitation to Join Trauma Recovery Courses
🔸Total Access Membership of trauma recovery courses and community - https://www.justinlmft.com/totalaccess
🔸Free ebook, "Trauma & the Polyvagal Paradigm" when you sign up for my email list - https://www.justinlmft.com/books
🔸Learn the Polyvagal Theory simply and for free - https://www.justinlmft.com/polyvagalintro
🔹I'd love your feedback! - https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSeZhfJa5_AWDN1D4zDO1nDMqs7gl0UrKpmuCqRYLmA5et08zg/viewform?usp=sf_link
National Suicide Prevention Hotline - 1 (800) 273-8255
National Domestic Violence Hotline -1 (800) 799-7233
LGBT Trevor Project Lifeline - 1 (866) 488-7386
National Sexual Assault Hotline - 1 (800) 656-4673
Crisis Text Line - Text “HOME” to 741741
Call 911 for emergency
This and other content produced by Justin Sunseri (“JustinLMFT”) (i.e; podcast, YouTube, Instagram, etc.) is not therapy, not intended to be therapy or be a replacement for therapy.  Nothing in this creates or indicates a therapeutic relationship.  Please consult with your therapist or seek for one in your area if you are experiencing mental health symptoms.  Nothing should be construed to be specific life advice; it is for educational and entertainment purposes only.
Justin Sunseri is a Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist registered in the State of California (#99147).

9 min