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Podcast by Probably Poly

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    • Society & Culture
    • 4.8 • 25 Ratings

Podcast by Probably Poly

    Unicorn Hunting Relationships

    Unicorn Hunting Relationships

    You asked for an episode on the ethics of Unicorn Hunting and we gave it to you! Listen to Michael, Mandee, and Sarah discuss the defining factors for Unicorn Hunting. What are the red flags and prep work needed if you are considering this relationship style or being approached to join a couple? We also discuss how to address Unicorn Hunting as a group leader.

    Citations:
    - Photo by Daria Sannikova from Pexels
    - OPP Episode: https://www.probablypoly.com/post/episode-33-the-one-eggplant-policy
    - Closed Relationships:https://www.probablypoly.com/post/episode-63-closed-relationships-ethical-otherwise
    - Couples Privilege Episode: https://www.probablypoly.com/post/episode-61-couples-privilege
    - Consent is Not Always Enough: https://www.probablypoly.com/post/episode-58-consent-isn-t-always-enough

    • 1 hr 6 min
    Sexual Safety Agreements Chain

    Sexual Safety Agreements Chain

    Join us as we welcome back Sarah and introduce a method of creating durable, modular, and ethical agreements to help you meet your safer sex goals. Once a much talked about concept fluid bonding agreements have fallen out of favor in ethical non-monogamy for being often problematic and hierarchal, and we can’t help but agree. However, there were some valuable concepts we wanted to salvage and continue to polish into more useful and more ethical forms. Merchandise Website: https://www.etsy.com/shop/MandeeMakesMerch

    • 1 hr 4 min
    Building Trust and Cultivating Gratitude

    Building Trust and Cultivating Gratitude

    In this episode we look at building up trust and open honest communication, especially how to build trust with people who have experienced betrayals in the past, from yourself or others. We also look at the power of gratitude and communication tools to make it all work.

    • 1 hr 10 min
    Crystal Byrd Farmer on The Token

    Crystal Byrd Farmer on The Token

    Episode 65 (Crystal Byrd Farmer on The Token) is now live!

    We are very lucky to have Crystal Byrd Farmer drop by this week to talk about her book. “The Token” is a practical guide, including workshops, on how to look critically at majority communities wishing to increase diversity across any axis as well as common mistakes, how well meaning people are often still doing harm, and the best ways to avoid those harms.

    Citations:
    Crystal’s Website: https://crystalbyrdfarmer.com
    Buy the Token from the Publisher: https://newsociety.com/books/t/the-token

    • 55 min
    A First Hand Look at the Franklin Veaux Harms Process

    A First Hand Look at the Franklin Veaux Harms Process

    We have the amazing honor this week of interviewing five of the people who spoke up about their experiences with Franklin Veaux, who have gone collectively by the name "the Franklin Veaux survivors" (although they don't all individually identify as survivors) — Melanie, Rose, Celeste, Eve and Marissa. We talk about what went right and what went wrong during the harms process and ways in which we can apply these lessons to our communities and culture going forward.

    Citations:
    Survivor Archive: https://www.itrippedonthepolystair.com
    Jiji Judges: https://twitter.com/jijijudges
    Crystal Farmer on Reid Mihalko’s harms process: https://medium.com/@crystalbyrdfarmer/on-accountability-and-reid-mihalko-12bcb8afbb21
    Rose on community response to Harms: https://ourbetternatures.wordpress.com/2019/06/08/community-response-to-complaints/
    Survivor Statement about the Harms Process: https://link.medium.com/8g9lXLxeXbb

    • 1 hr 29 min
    Closed Relationships: ethical & otherwise

    Closed Relationships: ethical & otherwise

    In this episode explore the ethics of closed relationships. This includes explicitly non-monogamous closed relationships (often called poly-fidelitous) as well as how unintentionally closed relationships that represent or see themselves as open form.

    Visual Resource for Boundaries, Wants & Needs Visualization: probablypoly.com/resources

    • 54 min

Customer Reviews

4.8 out of 5
25 Ratings

25 Ratings

makingpolyamorywork ,

Fantastic podcast for nerds

I love this podcast a lot. I love all the nerding out, and sprinkled throughout is some really beautiful adivce and perspective that everyone can benefit from.

Shnibidy ,

Hosting an abuser

There is an entire me too site set up about Franklin veaux’s serial abuse, why are you giving him a platform

Halogen171 ,

So happy

So glad I found you guys! You were recommended on a different poly podcast. Can’t wait to listen to them all. Ps his voice is bomb. 👍🏻

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