Today we answered a few questions from our listeners.
My partner and I have been arguing a lot more then usual. How to we fix it?
My partner and I have been struggling with intimacy. How can we reignite the spark?
Nina & Roger answer those questions with what has worked for them in the past.
Normally when a couple argue more then usual. Its not what there are arguing about at that moment that is really bothering them. Those little things are just triggers. Triggers to something else that you are struggling with. I say you because that's what it is. Something is bothering you. Something about you, not always them. Find out what that is and discuss it. It might not be something they are doing. Its something you are not doing. Or upset at yourself for. Find out what your story is and dig deep. See what is upsetting you so much its affecting your day to day. Fix it. Don't feel sorry for yourself. Because that will just lead to blame, disrespect and lack of love.
Intimacy and passion are totally in your control. If the spark is going away. Its up to you to reignite it. Which extremely fun and exiting to do. Go out there and impress your partner. Like back in the day, like you used to do when you first started dating. You know, before you used to fart in front of them. When you used to get ready for hours if you thought you MIGHT bump into them today. Keep trying to impress them, sweep them off their feet. Dress well or sexy. Flirt, touch, Make it exiting. Things will light right back up. But don't wait to long. Do it now. It takes longer the longer its been lacking. But know. That's its never to late. Because we all need it. Need it bad.
To top it all off. Its important to know. No matter if you are the man (masculine) or women (feminine) You need to do your part.
Woman tend to be built needing love. They are raised that way. It comes natural to them. Thats why they have that motherly instinct.
And Men need respect. Thats the way they are raised and built.
If you dont give your man respect. Then he will be to the places he receives respect. Like working late or hanging out with his friends. cause thats where the respect is.
If you don't give your woman love. She will start to resent you and be insulted and bitter towards you. Or put all her energy into the kids and friends. Cause love is there and safe.
So give her love. You never know she may even start seeking that else where.
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