35 min
Quarantine Love - 5 D’s For Doing the Impossible Hot Mess Millionaire
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- Self-Improvement
To fully manifest and attract that which is yours, you must first do the work on yourself. Dr. Venus knows that challenging seasons such as this one are promised to come and go, but while we have the gift of time, we can take a deep dive into the 5 D’s that defy the impossible and lead us to winning in life. In this episode, Dr. Venus breaks down each of the 5 D’s and identifies ways we can shift our focus from fear to the future.
Key Takeaways:
[6:34] Dr. Venus created the 5 D’s in 2015, after noticing that many of her clients were approaching their entrepreneurial lifestyle with an employee mindset. She wanted to go beyond mindset and really identify where our life is shaped and created.
[9:51] The “impossible” in our lives doesn’t always look like something huge or dramatic. It can look normal and something we just accept or learn to live with. The two examples Dr. Venus gives from her own life include accepting the pain and restrictions that come with aging, and her desire to start performing stand up comedy.
[12:10] The 5 D’s For Doing the Impossible:
Determine your current relationship with yourself. You can not move forward if you don’t know where you are. Your sense of self determines so much. Notice how you talk to yourself when you miss the mark. Is it critical or kind? Identify how you talk, relate and regard someone you admire? It can be someone you know, a celebrity, or even an animal. Make a list and review it. That is the way you will want to talk to and treat yourself.
2. Declare your independence from tyranny and strongholds that have kept you stuck, sick and small. Write down where you have sold out on you and what you are punishing yourself for.
3. Develop desire. Allow yourself to be pulled by your passion. It’s like falling in love with yourself! And allowing yourself to want and dream is one of the biggest gifts you can give to yourself in this lifetime. To go even deeper, who or what would you have to forgive to dream and want again?
4. Design what you want your relationship with yourself to be, and take actions consistent with that version of yourself. Focus on what empowers you and create an identity based around it.
5. Do the impossible in your life now. Ask yourself these five questions:
1. Where have I given up on me?
2. What am I certain will never happen?
3. Where has life broken my heart?
4. What is my access to doing the impossible? What would I have to give up, and what characteristics would I truly have to embody to get myself in the game?
5. How do I do the impossible in my own life? If you want to solve a problem, create a crisis. Something that throws your life into chaos in the best way where you have no other choice but to move forward and figure things out.
Quotes / Tweetables:
“You are only going to see what you are looking for. That’s how the mind is wired.”
“You are your own best thing.”
“If you don’t allow yourself to want and dream, you rob yourself of the fuel to live fully.”
“You can either suffer over the past or you can create the future with your language.”
“To do the impossible, you must get in a street fight with yourself on your behalf.”
Mentioned:
Dr. Venus - Website | Facebook | Twitter | Instagram
Join The Truth Tribe
Link to Money Mogul Fundamentals Formula
Beloved
Dave Chappelle
To fully manifest and attract that which is yours, you must first do the work on yourself. Dr. Venus knows that challenging seasons such as this one are promised to come and go, but while we have the gift of time, we can take a deep dive into the 5 D’s that defy the impossible and lead us to winning in life. In this episode, Dr. Venus breaks down each of the 5 D’s and identifies ways we can shift our focus from fear to the future.
Key Takeaways:
[6:34] Dr. Venus created the 5 D’s in 2015, after noticing that many of her clients were approaching their entrepreneurial lifestyle with an employee mindset. She wanted to go beyond mindset and really identify where our life is shaped and created.
[9:51] The “impossible” in our lives doesn’t always look like something huge or dramatic. It can look normal and something we just accept or learn to live with. The two examples Dr. Venus gives from her own life include accepting the pain and restrictions that come with aging, and her desire to start performing stand up comedy.
[12:10] The 5 D’s For Doing the Impossible:
Determine your current relationship with yourself. You can not move forward if you don’t know where you are. Your sense of self determines so much. Notice how you talk to yourself when you miss the mark. Is it critical or kind? Identify how you talk, relate and regard someone you admire? It can be someone you know, a celebrity, or even an animal. Make a list and review it. That is the way you will want to talk to and treat yourself.
2. Declare your independence from tyranny and strongholds that have kept you stuck, sick and small. Write down where you have sold out on you and what you are punishing yourself for.
3. Develop desire. Allow yourself to be pulled by your passion. It’s like falling in love with yourself! And allowing yourself to want and dream is one of the biggest gifts you can give to yourself in this lifetime. To go even deeper, who or what would you have to forgive to dream and want again?
4. Design what you want your relationship with yourself to be, and take actions consistent with that version of yourself. Focus on what empowers you and create an identity based around it.
5. Do the impossible in your life now. Ask yourself these five questions:
1. Where have I given up on me?
2. What am I certain will never happen?
3. Where has life broken my heart?
4. What is my access to doing the impossible? What would I have to give up, and what characteristics would I truly have to embody to get myself in the game?
5. How do I do the impossible in my own life? If you want to solve a problem, create a crisis. Something that throws your life into chaos in the best way where you have no other choice but to move forward and figure things out.
Quotes / Tweetables:
“You are only going to see what you are looking for. That’s how the mind is wired.”
“You are your own best thing.”
“If you don’t allow yourself to want and dream, you rob yourself of the fuel to live fully.”
“You can either suffer over the past or you can create the future with your language.”
“To do the impossible, you must get in a street fight with yourself on your behalf.”
Mentioned:
Dr. Venus - Website | Facebook | Twitter | Instagram
Join The Truth Tribe
Link to Money Mogul Fundamentals Formula
Beloved
Dave Chappelle
35 min