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Charlie Bird and Ben Schilaty discuss questions they are commonly asked as gay members of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. Each week they are joined by a guest to talk about a question as it relates to LGBTQ+ topics within the context of faith. To submit a question or share a comment about an episode, you can email questionsfromthecloset@gmail.com.

Questions from the Closet Questions from the Closet

    • Religion & Spirituality
    • 4.9 • 824 Ratings

Charlie Bird and Ben Schilaty discuss questions they are commonly asked as gay members of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. Each week they are joined by a guest to talk about a question as it relates to LGBTQ+ topics within the context of faith. To submit a question or share a comment about an episode, you can email questionsfromthecloset@gmail.com.

    Season 2 Recap!

    Season 2 Recap!

    Ben and Charlie talk about their favorite episodes from Season 2 and announce a live event for next season's kickoff.

    • 20 min
    What is conversion therapy?

    What is conversion therapy?

    Ben and Charlie are joined by Dr. Steve Smith (he/him) who talks about what conversion therapy is and why he considers it a harmful practice.

    • 1 hr 2 min
    What is it like to face Church discipline?

    What is it like to face Church discipline?

    Ben and Charlie are joined by John Gustav-Wrathall and James Brinton who share their respective experiences facing Church discipline after marrying same-sex partners.

    • 58 min
    Is sexuality fluid?

    Is sexuality fluid?

    Dr. Lisa Diamond (she/her) joins Ben and Charlie to share her research on sexual fluidity. 

    • 1 hr 3 min
    Do you think the Church will change?

    Do you think the Church will change?

    Ben and Charlie discuss whether or not they expect changes in Church doctrine and policy regarding same-sex couples.

    • 53 min
    Bonus: Ben's Tap Recital + Sound Guy Mike

    Bonus: Ben's Tap Recital + Sound Guy Mike

    Ben treats the listeners to a riveting tap performance followed by a "get to know you" interview with our sound guy, Mike!

    • 16 min

Customer Reviews

4.9 out of 5
824 Ratings

824 Ratings

Robin ZB ,

Down to earth, up beat

I love hearing the perspectives of Ben and Charlie on living in a space that has historically been such a difficult place to be in. I love how they offer hope to so many who have not dared even address this subject. As a therapist, I recommend this podcast whole-heartedly.

Suzie Mc. ,

Life Changing!

Ben and Charlie have opened my eyes and heart in so many ways!

Being born and raised in Southern California, I never thought that I would had naiveties or biases related to LGBTQIA+ community, but when my daughter came out to us as Bisexual last February; I was so scared of what that would mean for our family and the fear that she would become anti-religious and hateful and want nothing to do with our family.

That’s when I started educating myself on stories from LGBTQIA+ individuals. My husband stumbled upon a quote from this podcast randomly from Deseret Bookshelf and shared it with me. It was an answer to many heartfelt prayers from a parent truly wanting to understand what my child might be going through and how to help and support them.

I appreciate Ben and Charlie’s perspectives and their guests. It truly was a paradigm shift for me after Season 1; Episode 10 with the Bishop from Highland, Utah. I had no idea that priesthood leadership would be so welcoming to the LGBTQIA+ community. I was amazed by the love he shared for everyone and listened to that specific episode many times. At one point we met with our bishop and shared this specific episode with him and he listened to it a half a dozen times too!

Since listening to this podcast, I have openly shared my love and care for LGBTQIA+ individuals during relief society lessons and Sunday school lessons and have gotten numerous people afterwards thanking me for my comments. Many of them have a trans family member, a cousin, close friend who is LGBTQIA+ and they appreciate the love that is shared for that community during church.

I’ve also been wearing a rainbow wristband watch since it was suggested from the podcast forever ago (about a simple way to show being an ally by wearing any kind of rainbow pin, sock, etc. while at church to show support). I want everyone to know that they have an Ally in me, especially at church!

Thank you both, so much! Keep up the amazing work! Push past any negative comments and realize that you are doing God’s work!

Bex books 4774 ,

Faithful and Open

I’m so grateful for Ben and Charlie. They are clearly seeking to follow God, follow scriptures, and live the gospel while being open about who they are and the challenges faced by many LGBTQ members of the Church. I turn to this for help to understand the questions and feelings of family members and how I can better respond.

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