Raising Barbara Jean and Wanda

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"Raising Barbara Jean and Wanda" is a captivating and wildly entertaining podcast brought to you by TikTok sensations, Kila Carr and Ashley Lamar. Known for their viral stories, "My Lost and Found Sisters" and "Trailer Park Chronicles," Kila and Ashley have joined forces to bring you a unique podcast experience that's as heartwarming as it is hilarious. The podcast revolves around their unconventional upbringings under the care of their mothers, Barbara Jean and Wanda. Tune in as they delve into a world of hilarious anecdotes, tear-jerking moments, startling revelations, and tales so zany they could only be true. While their mothers' parenting styles may have been far from traditional, the life lessons, love, and resilience they instilled are a testament to their unique brands of motherhood. Kila and Ashley are passionate about sharing stories of those who have discovered family through DNA tests and offering support to those raising children in challenging circumstances. Their stories are a roller-coaster of emotions, peppered with raw honesty and infectious humor, which makes for a podcast experience unlike any other. But remember, only Kila and Ashley are allowed to talk about their mommas like this! Buckle up and get ready for a wild ride as these two ladies share their world with you. Whether you're looking for a good laugh, a cathartic cry, or a bit of unconventional wisdom, "Raising Barbara Jean and Wanda" delivers. Launching on Mother's Day, it's a testament to the fact that there's no one-size-fits-all when it comes to parenting, and that's perfectly okay. After all, it's the wild, crazy, and heartwarming stories that make a family, a family.

  1. 6-Year "Sisterversary" with Dixie

    5D AGO

    6-Year "Sisterversary" with Dixie

    In this special episode of Raising Barbara Jean & Wanda, Kila and Ashley are celebrating something BIG — the 6-year anniversary of Kila and her sister Dixie finding each other. 🥹💛 It's their "sisterversary", and the vibes are emotional, hilarious, and very on-brand. Dixie joins the show as they look back on: 💌 How they first connected and the day Dixie found Kila 🗓️ Why it feels like it's been both a lifetime and "only three years" 💬 How quickly "strangers" became family, group chats, inside jokes, and all Of course, it wouldn't be an RBJ&W episode without some chaos and side quests: 🚐 Dixie's RV Life – moving out of the house and into the RV, adjusting with two big dogs, and figuring out what "home" looks like now 🌪️ Storm Panic & Power Outages – Kila prepping for the worst with firewood and backup plans, realizing she actually has gas heat, and talking about folks who went 11 days without power 💇‍♀️ Julie's Hair vs Todd's Chick-fil-A – the ongoing saga of poor Julie not getting her hair colored while Todd is out here living his best life eating Chick-fil-A weekly 🥴 "Do you need a kidney or something?" – when Dixie suddenly wants to come stay with them for a month, the girls jokingly question her motives in true sister fashion Underneath all the laughter and nonsense is something really beautiful: This episode is about chosen family, late-in-life siblings, and what it means when someone goes from a stranger… to "my people" in just a few years. If you love: Real-life reunion stories Sister banter Southern chaos and storytelling Tangents about weather, RVs, hair, food, and everything in between …you're gonna love this one. 🎧 Listen now on YouTube, Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Don't forget to subscribe, rate, and share—especially with someone who's ever dreamed of finding missing pieces of their family.

    49 min
  2. Caught in the Con Part 4: Daniel Martin Warrants, New Victims w/ Jessica Reynolds & Jason Bennett

    JAN 22

    Caught in the Con Part 4: Daniel Martin Warrants, New Victims w/ Jessica Reynolds & Jason Bennett

    The Daniel Martin saga just keeps getting wilder. In this latest episode of Raising Barbara Jean & Wanda, Kila and Ashley are joined once again by Jessica Reynolds and Jason Bennett for another jaw-dropping update on one of Middle Tennessee's most notorious con men. Jessica — who's now taken her story to the news — walks everyone through the latest developments, while Jason helps break down the legal side of this ever-growing mess. From civil judgments to criminal warrants, this episode is packed with details that sound like a movie… but sadly, it's all real. Here's what they get into: 🧾 Million-Dollar Judgment & Prior Victims They revisit one of Daniel's earlier victims — a woman who invested around $300,000 and won a $1.3 million judgment against him for fraud, theft, and emotional damage. Even though she never saw the money, that judgment proved what he was doing long before Jessica's story began. 🏕️ The Camper, the Harley & the Lies Jessica shares more about how Daniel moved her and her kids into a camper she later learned wasn't even his. On top of that, there's the Harley he swore he was making payments on — right up until someone knocked on Jessica's door looking for it. She's got ring camera footage of the guy coming to repossess it, and it's just one small piece of a much bigger scam trail. ⚖️ Warrants, Court Dates & Extradition Talk Jason breaks down: How multiple counties and states (including McMinnville, Shelbyville, and Kentucky) are now involved The difference between civil judgments, arrest warrants, and bench warrants How and why law enforcement sometimes can't find someone who keeps moving and using different addresses Why it's so important that every victim files a report, even if they don't think anything will happen They talk about how at one point, law enforcement literally couldn't find him to serve him, and how he finally got picked up coming back through customs in Miami after a Mexico trip. 💔 More Women, More States, Same Pattern Jessica shares that she is STILL getting messages from women across multiple states — Tennessee, Kentucky, and beyond — who are dealing with the same man, the same lies, and the same financial and emotional damage. They talk about: How he isolates women How he love bombs, lies, and then drains everything Why so many women feel embarrassed or ashamed and don't want to come forward And most importantly, they stress this: IT. IS. NOT. YOUR. FAULT. 💬 A Message to Anyone Affected This episode isn't just about the drama — it's about helping people: Encouraging victims to document everything File police reports, small claims, or civil suits where possible Understand that even if they never see the money, having paper trails and records can stop people like this from hurting more people As always, Kila and Ashley bring their signature mix of humor, outrage, and heart, reacting in real time to some of Jason and Jessica's latest updates and stories. If you've been following the Daniel Martin story, are into true crime meets real life, or just want to hear how women are standing up, speaking out, and trying to stop a serial conman — this episode is a must-listen. 🎧 Listen on YouTube, Spotify, Apple Podcasts, and all major platforms. 👉 Please share this episode, especially if you're in Middle Tennessee or know someone who might have crossed paths with Daniel Martin. The more eyes and ears on this, the better chance there is of getting justice for everyone he's hurt.

    1h 7m
  3. Paranormal TikTok & Daniel Martin Warrants: Spirit Boxes, Book Talk & Calling Out a Con Man

    JAN 15

    Paranormal TikTok & Daniel Martin Warrants: Spirit Boxes, Book Talk & Calling Out a Con Man

    On this episode of Raising Barbara Jean & Wanda, Ashley and Kila are back with a mix of true crime chaos, personal growth, and their signature unfiltered storytelling. First up: 🕵️‍♀️ The Latest on Daniel Martin If you've been following the Daniel Martin saga, you know this dude is a full-blown con man with a trail of wreckage behind him. The ladies dig into: What they've found digging through public records How arrest warrants generally don't expire and can remain active indefinitely The absolutely ridiculous claim he made involving Jerry Jones (yes, the Dallas Cowboys' Jerry Jones) Why they're honestly surprised Jerry hasn't hit him with a defamation of character lawsuit They also talk about how Jessica is still getting messages from people all over the place who've crossed paths with Daniel, and how truly insane and disturbing the pattern is. Then the episode takes a more personal and powerful turn: 📖 Ashley Is Writing Her Memoir Ashley opens up about starting to write her own story—not just about Daniel, but about her life, everything she's been through, and the person she's become through it all. She shares: How it feels to finally put her life on paper Why her first draft felt like a "4.7 out of 10" The balance between being honest, being vulnerable, and not sugarcoating anything The healing (and heaviness) that comes with revisiting old wounds and turning them into something meaningful Throughout the episode, Kila and Ashley also touch on: The importance of sticking to facts when talking about real people and real situations Advice from their lawyer on how to protect themselves while still telling the truth Using humor, honesty, and community to work through trauma And because it wouldn't be Raising Barbara Jean & Wanda without it, you'll also get: Jail and courtroom side stories Dark humor in all the right (and wrong) places The ongoing reminder: 👉 "We can talk shit about our mammas, but nobody else can." If you're into real-life scam stories, women taking their power back, and raw, hilarious, honest conversation, this episode is absolutely for you. 🎧 Listen now on YouTube, Spotify, Apple Podcasts, and all major platforms. Don't forget to subscribe, rate, and share—especially with someone who's ever said, "One day I'm gonna write a book about all this…" and meant it.

    32 min

  4. JAN 8

    We Survived the Holidays and Are Ready for 2026

    Kila and Ashley are BACK for the first Raising Barbara Jean & Wanda episode of 2026, and of course it's pure holiday-debrief chaos in the best way. 🎙️✨ This episode is a hilarious, real, and super relatable recap of: 🎄 Christmas & Holiday Madness The ladies catch up on how Christmas really went down— • One of the kids officially moved into her first apartment (hello adulting 👏) • Christmas gifts turned into crockpots, cleaning supplies, and stuff that screams: "I'm grown now" • Stockings, spending, and wondering if they're nailing it as moms or totally winging it 🧝‍♂️ Elf on the Shelf Drama They go all in on: • Why Elf on the Shelf is a personal attack on moms • How nobody warned them they needed to shove wire inside the elves to make them pose • Last-minute elf hacks like Velcro hands and pure desperation If you've ever forgotten to move the elf until 6am, this one's for you. 🏰 Disney vs Universal & The Big Trip Reveal The kids' big Christmas surprise?  A trip to Disney and/or Universal. Kila and Ashley break down: • Universal vs Disney – which is better for teens, big kids, and chaos • The pressure of giving your kids "magical memories" while your bank account is screaming • How different it feels raising kids now vs growing up on layaway and one big tree gift 💸 "Y'all Are Rich" – When Kids See Your Life Differently The funniest moment? A little cousin comes over, sees the pool, stairs, and TVs and declares: "I want to live here. Y'all are RICH." Meanwhile, Kila and Ashley are like, "We're just tired and on payment plans." They talk about: • How kids define being "rich" • The weird guilt of doing better than how you grew up • Remembering that what feels normal now would've felt like luxury back then 🧹 Officially Old & Loving It They also confess their favorite gifts this year were: • A fancy green carpet shampooer • A heat gun • And a pink mini fridge If cleaning gadgets and home stuff excite you more than jewelry at this point—you're in the right place. This episode is funny, honest, and the perfect New Year kickoff for anyone trying to juggle kids, money, expectations, and a little bit of magic (with a lot of sarcasm). 🎧 Listen now on YouTube, Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Don't forget to subscribe, rate, and share with a friend who's ever been called "rich" by a kid while checking their bank app in panic. 💀

    38 min

  5. 11/20/2025

    Delilah, Tupac, TikTok Moms & Cassie's Wedding Recap

    On this episode of Raising Barbara Jean & Wanda, Kila and Ashley are in full storytelling mode with an episode that's equal parts hilarious, nostalgic, disgusting (you'll see 👀), and downright sweet. They kick things off talking about Delilah – yes, the late-night radio legend – and how her voice was the emotional soundtrack of the 90s. That memory throws them straight back into childhood: long car rides, fireworks on bridges, "crying, loving, or leaving" on 95.5, and even remembering exactly where they were the day Tupac died. It's a deep dive into those oddly specific core memories that never leave you. From there, the conversation hits all over: • 🎙️ Delilah, radio nights & 90s nostalgia – calling in for love advice, listening to strangers air out their relationships, and wondering how in the world she just went viral on TikTok now. • 🧠 Mom guilt & judgment – talking about how quick people are to judge moms (especially online), from smoking to how they parent, while never offering real help or support. • 📱 TikTok creators vs real-life memories – unpacking the weirdness of people filming everything for content instead of just living in the moment, and the pressure it puts on "regular" moms who are just trying to survive the day. • 🤢 The most disgusting bus story ever told – featuring the greenest, longest booger and a man on the verge of throwing up. If you've got a weak stomach, consider this your warning… but also, it's absolutely hilarious. • 👑 Pageant life & little girl wins – a sweet story about helping a little girl get ready for a competition, doing her hair and makeup, nerves and all—and her priceless reaction to winning "two of them stick things and some flowers" (aka TROPHIES). • 💒 Cassie's wedding chaos – Kila's sister Cassie is officially a married woman, and the recap does not disappoint. From getting ready at the event space, doing hair and makeup, hyping Cassie up like the queen she is, to all the emotional, funny, and chaotic moments only a family wedding can bring—this segment is pure gold. They close things out with some holiday talk—being grateful, dealing with family, and of course the great debate: stuffing vs dressing (spoiler: it's dressing around here 🦃). If you love: • Southern storytelling • Real talk about motherhood & mental load • 90s nostalgia (Tupac, Delilah, radio love lines) • TikTok culture critiques • Wedding chaos & family comedy …this episode is absolutely your vibe. 🎧 Listen now on YouTube, Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Make sure to subscribe, rate, and share with someone who remembers Delilah and Tupac days—or someone who's planning a wedding and needs a laugh.

    1h 1m
  6. UNO Tarot Chaos & Psychic Shenanigans – Our First Live Episode!

    10/30/2025

    UNO Tarot Chaos & Psychic Shenanigans – Our First Live Episode!

    In this extra wild episode of Raising Barbara Jean & Wanda, Kila and Ashley go LIVE for the very first time—and y'all, it's pure chaos in the best way! From Uno Card Tarot Readings that somehow get way too real to off-the-rails convos about being cat moms, this episode is packed with laughs, surprises, and a touch of psychic energy. Whether you're here for the unfiltered vibes, the unexpected Uno revelations, or just wanna hang with your favorite hilarious duo, this one's for you. Plus, Ashley might be a medium now…? 🔥 Tune in, drop a comment, and let us know what cards you're pulling! 🔮 Featuring: Live Uno Tarot Readings Spontaneous psychic discoveries Shoutouts to the listeners Hilarious hot takes and good vibes   🎧 Follow us & stay tuned for more: IG: @raisingbarbarajeanandwanda 📍Streaming on all major podcast platforms & YouTube!

    47 min
  7. Petty Ponderings, Therapy Wins & The Power of Pauses

    10/23/2025

    Petty Ponderings, Therapy Wins & The Power of Pauses

    This week on Raising Barbara Jean & Wanda, Ashley and Kila are catching up before the chaos of their first-ever live episode. They get into Ashley's big therapy revelations, why sometimes you just need a pause, and what's been going on behind the scenes. Kila's got her petty pants on, Ashley's self-reflecting like a champ, and the dynamic duo is bringing all the realness and laughs you've come to love. Plus, they spill some tea on parenting moments, TikTok rabbit holes, and the emotional rollercoaster that comes with running a podcast that's this real. 🚨 Heads up: this one sets the stage for what's to come — the LIVE shenanigans, special guests, and more unfiltered chaos. You won't want to miss it. 🎧 Tune in now, and don't forget to follow for updates on the live shows and future episodes!

    26 min
  8. 🎬 DNA Results, Family Bombshells & a Hollywood Ending with Lisa Brenner (@thelisabrenner)

    10/09/2025

    🎬 DNA Results, Family Bombshells & a Hollywood Ending with Lisa Brenner (@thelisabrenner)

    In this powerful (and hilarious) episode, Kila and Ashley sit down with actress, writer, and now DNA detective Lisa Brenner, whose real-life family twist inspired her brand-new movie, One Big Happy Family. What started with a simple DNA test turned into a wild journey of identity, unexpected connections, and the ultimate "Are We Related?!" moment. Lisa spills the tea on her emotional rollercoaster, how it changed her life, and how she turned it into a feature film. 🎥 Don't miss this episode if you love: Long-lost family stories Genealogy plot twists Hollywood meets real life Kila and Ashley trying to process the madness 👉 Follow Lisa on socials at @thelisabrenner 🎞️ Check out her movie "One Big Happy Family" on all major streaming platforms!

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"Raising Barbara Jean and Wanda" is a captivating and wildly entertaining podcast brought to you by TikTok sensations, Kila Carr and Ashley Lamar. Known for their viral stories, "My Lost and Found Sisters" and "Trailer Park Chronicles," Kila and Ashley have joined forces to bring you a unique podcast experience that's as heartwarming as it is hilarious. The podcast revolves around their unconventional upbringings under the care of their mothers, Barbara Jean and Wanda. Tune in as they delve into a world of hilarious anecdotes, tear-jerking moments, startling revelations, and tales so zany they could only be true. While their mothers' parenting styles may have been far from traditional, the life lessons, love, and resilience they instilled are a testament to their unique brands of motherhood. Kila and Ashley are passionate about sharing stories of those who have discovered family through DNA tests and offering support to those raising children in challenging circumstances. Their stories are a roller-coaster of emotions, peppered with raw honesty and infectious humor, which makes for a podcast experience unlike any other. But remember, only Kila and Ashley are allowed to talk about their mommas like this! Buckle up and get ready for a wild ride as these two ladies share their world with you. Whether you're looking for a good laugh, a cathartic cry, or a bit of unconventional wisdom, "Raising Barbara Jean and Wanda" delivers. Launching on Mother's Day, it's a testament to the fact that there's no one-size-fits-all when it comes to parenting, and that's perfectly okay. After all, it's the wild, crazy, and heartwarming stories that make a family, a family.

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