Release Trauma to Relax OR Relax to Release Trauma? (edit‪)‬ Stuck Not Broken

Are you supposed to release trauma to relax or do you relax to release trauma? I delve in depth into this question from a Fellow Stucknaut.
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Original blog - https://www.justinlmft.com/post/polyvagal-safety-how-to-use-it
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National Suicide Prevention Hotline - 1 (800) 273-8255
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LGBT Trevor Project Lifeline - 1 (866) 488-7386
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This and other content produced by Justin Sunseri (“JustinLMFT”) (i.e; podcast, YouTube, Instagram, etc.) is not therapy, not intended to be therapy or be a replacement for therapy.  Nothing in this creates or indicates a therapeutic relationship.  Please consult with your therapist or seek for one in your area if you are experiencing mental health symptoms.  Nothing should be construed to be specific life advice; it is for educational and entertainment purposes only.
Justin Sunseri is a Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist registered in the State of California (#99147).