When we think about blessings we often look at others and try to measure up to their standards. Sometimes we overlook the fact that we too are blessed and don't recognize it. I challenge you to count your blessings and when you have completed you will see that you are more blessed than you could ever imagine. For example, there is a great chance that you slept in a nice worm or cool bed last night, not everyone did. In addition, you may have a gift of music or dance that you don't currently use. The fact that you don't use it does not take it out of the blessing category. Again, so many of our blessings, we don't count the as such. Count your blessings.
Also, begin speaking positively over your family and friends. Tell them what the word of God says about them and I feel that over time their situation will get better. So, count your blessings. Take inventory of your gifts and blessings and use every gift God has given to you. It may seem insignificant to you but don't sit on it, use it for the glory of God.