Secrets of Happily Ever After Monica Tanner

In this special birthday episode, I share personal strategies that have helped me sustain the spark in my marriage. Here's a breakdown of the five tricks that we explore in this episode:

Think Positive Thoughts: Start your day on a positive note. It sets the tone for the rest of your day and impacts how you interact with your spouse.

Focus on Your Response: Often, we burden ourselves with expectations of how others should act. Let's flip that. Focus on your reaction and response to them instead. This gives you the control and can dramatically improve your relationship dynamics.

Flirt and Date Your Spouse: Keep the flame alive! Treat your relationship with the importance it deserves. Remember, it's not just about living together, it's about loving together too.

Show Gratitude Everyday: Never underestimate the power of 'thank you.' Small gestures of appreciation can help keep resentment at bay and foster a deeper bond with your spouse.

Mix It Up: Add a little zest to your daily routines. A dash of unpredictability can keep things exciting and break the monotony. Remember, the joy is often in the journey, not just the destination.

I hope you find these tips useful. Here's to less 'meh' and more 'marvelous' in your marriage!

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In this week's episode, I had the pleasure of chatting with Suzette Halterman, a relationship expert known for her insightful approach to navigating differences in relationships. We dive deep into the complexities of differing values and viewpoints and how these can be managed in a way that not only maintains but deepens the connection in a relationship.

Suzette brings a wealth of knowledge and experience to the conversation, providing actionable strategies for couples to navigate this often tricky terrain. She addresses how to approach these differences respectfully and constructively, reminding us that differing perspectives are not roadblocks, but rather opportunities for growth and understanding.

From understanding the importance of open communication and empathy, to acknowledging our unique backgrounds and experiences, Suzette shares an empowering message of unity in diversity. Whether you're experiencing these challenges in your relationship, or simply wish to fortify your connection against potential future differences, this episode offers invaluable insights for all couples.

One of the most important facets of building a healthy, satisfying sexual relationship in your marriage is recognizing the importance of personal sexual development. This concept can sometimes be overlooked or misunderstood, but it's vital to the long-term success of intimacy in your relationship.

Taking responsibility for your own sexual development involves understanding your body, your sexual responses, your desires, your boundaries, and your attitudes towards sex. It's about self-discovery and personal growth, which then translates into a more enriched and satisfying shared experience with your partner.

In this episode, I'm talking about why it's so important to take responsibility for your own sexuality and how you can start doing this no matter where you are starting from.

In this episode, we take a deep dive into the Passionate Marriage Club, a one-of-a-kind membership for couples who are ready to elevate their relationship to new heights. 🚀💞

We discuss who this club is perfect for (hint: it might be you!), and why investing time, energy, and resources in your marriage is not just important, but absolutely essential for a thriving, long-lasting relationship. 💏🌟

This is a very special and vulnerable episode, where I open up about 5 of the most important lessons I've learned in 21 years of marriage to my best friend. It's been a crazy and wonderful ride and we keep learning and growing and it just keeps getting better with time. I'm grateful for every moment, even the hard ones.

In this enlightening and candid episode, I sit down with Tammy Hill, an Adjunct Faculty member at BYU, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, Noted Speaker, Author, and mother of 12 in a blended family with her husband Jeff. Tammy shares groundbreaking insights from her new book, "Replenish: Creating Sexual Fulfillment in Marriage, A Guide for LDS Couples."

Join us as we explore the essential ingredients for a satisfying and fulfilling sexual relationship within marriage, discuss the challenges faced by couples in creating this, and uncover practical advice for nurturing intimacy and connection. Don't miss this opportunity to learn from Tammy's vast experience and expertise to help you build a stronger and more passionate bond with your spouse.