63 episodes

Ilana Dunn is Seeing Other People. Each Tuesday, Ilana invites expert guests onto the podcast to discuss the tropes of modern dating and relationships with an unmatched level of honesty and empathy. On Thursday’s "Unfiltered" episodes, anonymous listeners join the show to have vulnerable and open conversations about what they’ve struggled with in their dating lives, what they wish they knew when going through their experience, and how they came out stronger. Tune in for your weekly reminder that dating doesn’t have to suck and we’re all in this together. Presented by Mindset Wellness CBD! Head to www.MindsetWellnessCBD.com and use code SeeingOtherPeople for 10% off and free shipping! Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/seeingotherpeople/support

Seeing Other People Ilana Dunn

    • Society & Culture
    • 4.5 • 322 Ratings

Ilana Dunn is Seeing Other People. Each Tuesday, Ilana invites expert guests onto the podcast to discuss the tropes of modern dating and relationships with an unmatched level of honesty and empathy. On Thursday’s "Unfiltered" episodes, anonymous listeners join the show to have vulnerable and open conversations about what they’ve struggled with in their dating lives, what they wish they knew when going through their experience, and how they came out stronger. Tune in for your weekly reminder that dating doesn’t have to suck and we’re all in this together. Presented by Mindset Wellness CBD! Head to www.MindsetWellnessCBD.com and use code SeeingOtherPeople for 10% off and free shipping! Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/seeingotherpeople/support

    Unfiltered: My Vagina Says, "Do Not Enter"

    Unfiltered: My Vagina Says, "Do Not Enter"

    On this episode I sit down with the woman who shares a story about being diagnosed with vaginismus. Vaginismus is a condition in which the vaginal muscles contract involuntarily during any form of vaginal penetration. Depending on the woman, the effects of vaginismus can vary from mild discomfort to severe pain. She shares what it was like to receive her diagnosis and how it’s impacted her dating life and daily life ever since.



    We’re staying calm this month so we can be our best selves. Whether you’re dealing with dating burnout, debating getting back out there after a break over the summer, or fresh out of a toxic situationship, there’s nothing that Mindset Wellness CBD’s Calm Gummies can’t help you get through. What are you waiting for? Try them today at www.mindsetwellness.com


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    • 55 min
    From Heartbreak To Lyrics with GAYLE

    From Heartbreak To Lyrics with GAYLE

    Artist and songwriter GAYLE joins the show today to talk about what it’s like transforming her dating experiences into music and lyrics. We talk about the breakup that led to her new single "abcdefu," what it’s like putting her raw emotions out there for the world to hear, turning heartbreak into music, dating within the industry, writing revenge songs, the fear of never being good enough, and more.

    Check out the song "abcdefu" here and follow GAYLE on Instagram.

    We're keeping calm this September by listening to music, taking walks while we listen to Seeing Other People, and taking Mindset Wellness CBD's Calm Gummies. Try them today at www.mindsetwellness.com and use code "seeingotherpeople" at checkout for 10% off and free shipping! 

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    • 52 min
    Unfiltered: My Nonconsensual Sexual Experience

    Unfiltered: My Nonconsensual Sexual Experience

    TW: the following content may be sensitive for those who have experienced any form of sexual assault.

    On today’s episode, I’m joined by a woman who had a nonconsensual sexual experience when she was a college student. We hear about the events leading up to this, what actually happened in the moment, and how it’s impacted her long term. We discuss guilt, trust, consent, communication, safe dating and more.

    We’re focusing on staying calm this month so we can be our best selves in our daily lives and our dating lives. Whether you’re dealing with dating burnout, debating getting back out there after a break over the summer, or fresh out of a toxic situationship, there’s nothing that Mindset Wellness CBD’s Calm Gummies can’t help you get through. What are you waiting for? Try them today at www.mindsetwellness.com


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    • 50 min
    See Them vs. See Other People with Tinah Ogalo

    See Them vs. See Other People with Tinah Ogalo

    Tinah (with an H) Ogalo, host of the In Your Twentys podcast, joins us today for a deep dive into the most controversial and shocking poll results from the @seeingotherpeople Instagram Story that you’ve all been voting on. Get ready to hear about politics, cheating, family involvement, social media stalking, commitment issues, exclusivity and more.

    We’re focusing on staying calm this month so we can be our best selves in our daily lives and our dating lives. Whether you’re dealing with dating burnout, debating getting back out there after a break over the summer, or fresh out of a toxic situationship, there’s nothing that Mindset Wellness CBD’s Calm Gummies can’t help you get through. What are you waiting for? Try them today at www.mindsetwellness.com

    Support the show https://anchor.fm/seeingotherpeople/support


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    • 54 min
    Unfiltered: How Body Image Insecurities Impact His Dating Life

    Unfiltered: How Body Image Insecurities Impact His Dating Life

    TW: the following content may be sensitive for those with an eating disorder.

    On today’s episode, we hear from a 25 year old male who has struggled with body image issues and an eating disorder. He shares what it’s been like to date and use dating apps when you aren’t comfortable in your own skin.

    Presented by Mindset Wellness CBD. Not sure which mindset you want to choose? Now you don’t have to. Now with their new Total Mindset Gummy Assortment, you can get all your favorite mindsets in one. Head to www.mindsetwellness.com and use code SeeingOtherPeople off at checkout for 10% off and free shipping!

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    • 42 min
    Don’t Let Past Relationships Impact Future Ones with Dr. Abby Medcalf

    Don’t Let Past Relationships Impact Future Ones with Dr. Abby Medcalf

    Today we’re joined by Dr. Abby Medcalf, psychologist, best-selling author of "Be Happily Married: Even If Your Partner Won't Do a Thing Kindle" and host of the "Relationships Made Easy" podcast. We’re sitting down to discuss everything that you need to know about moving on, leaving the past in the past and not letting previous dating and relationship experiences impact present and future ones. Abby walks us through getting closure with yourself, learning how to live in the moment and not in the past, having high standards and low expectations, learning to trust yourself, setting boundaries, and more.

    Stressing about the past? Try Mindset Wellness's Calm CBD Gummies. Grab yours at www.mindsetwellness.com and use code "Seeingotherpeople" for 10% off and free shipping!


    Support the show,  hear bonus episodes, and sign up for your dating app profile revamp here. (https://www.patreon.com/seeingotherpeople)


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    • 1 hr 3 min

Customer Reviews

4.5 out of 5
322 Ratings

322 Ratings

ajfeldman7 ,

Enjoyable

Good perspectives on the trials of modern dating. Ilana gets the most out of her guests

Thisappistheowrstappever ,

*UPDATED Lose the narcissist

***SO MUCH BETTER!! Now that Jonah left this podcast is absolutely incredible, been sharing! Ilana is insightful with great guests, love her and this context keep up the good work! Congrats!

Jonah is absolutely insufferable. Hope Ilana can find a different cohost. He scolds her like she’s some little girl and can’t see past his own narcissistic tendencies. They have an author as a guest to talk about dating but instead jonah asks about the step by step process of getting a book published in order to fulfill his own agenda and interest?! He constantly cuts Ilana off and gaslights her with inane comments. I feel bad for her bc she gives insightful thoughts and personal stories that could make the podcast great but she is overshadowed by a man who obviously has never had to work in a team. It’s a painful listen. what could’ve been great is instead the ramblings of a Brooklyn wannabe who’s trying to create an artistic persona but instead just reveals his true personality- a douche.

River coyote ,

Amended review

Changing my 2 star review since Jonah is finally gone, hallelujah. I reallyyyy like Ilana on her own - she is smart, thoughtful, and puts out engaging, interesting content. It’s so nice to finally get to know her. Keep it up girl!

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