47 episodes

Ilana Dunn is Seeing Other People. Each Tuesday, Ilana invites expert guests onto the podcast to discuss the tropes of modern dating and relationships with an unmatched level of honesty and empathy. On Thursday’s UNFILTERED episodes, anonymous listeners join the show to have vulnerable and open conversations about what they’ve struggled with in their dating lives, what they wish they knew when going through their experience, and how they came out stronger. Tune in for your weekly reminder that dating doesn’t have to suck and we’re all in this together. Presented by Mindset Wellness CBD! Head to www.MindsetWellnessCBD.com and use code SeeingOtherPeople for 10% off and free shipping!

Seeing Other People Ilana Dunn

    • Society & Culture
    • 4.5 • 307 Ratings

Ilana Dunn is Seeing Other People. Each Tuesday, Ilana invites expert guests onto the podcast to discuss the tropes of modern dating and relationships with an unmatched level of honesty and empathy. On Thursday’s UNFILTERED episodes, anonymous listeners join the show to have vulnerable and open conversations about what they’ve struggled with in their dating lives, what they wish they knew when going through their experience, and how they came out stronger. Tune in for your weekly reminder that dating doesn’t have to suck and we’re all in this together. Presented by Mindset Wellness CBD! Head to www.MindsetWellnessCBD.com and use code SeeingOtherPeople for 10% off and free shipping!

    Unfiltered: Surprise! It’s an STI

    Unfiltered: Surprise! It’s an STI

    On this Unfiltered episode we’re joined by a 26 year old female who was diagnosed with herpes. She shares what it was like receiving her diagnosis, communicating it to the person who transmitted it to her and what it’s been like to date with herpes. We hear how her diagnosis impacted her mental health and self worth and she walks us through the steps she took to get herself back to a good place. We learn about the common misconceptions about herpes, the resources that are available for those who find out they have herpes and how we can better communicate about sexually transmitted infections in order to reduce the stigma. 

    Presented by Mindset Wellness CBD. Use code "SeeingOtherPeople" to get 10% off and free shipping at www.mindsetwellnesscbd.com. PS…try the calm gummies to cure your dating anxiety :)

    • 56 min
    Confessions of an Ex Fckboy with Andrew Dunn

    Confessions of an Ex Fckboy with Andrew Dunn

    Ilana’s older brother Andrew (31) is joining us on the podcast today to reassure us that once a fckboy, not always a fckboy. After years of immersing himself in a f*****y bro-y culture (including being his fraternity’s social chair, promoting parties, and working for a nightlife startup), he turned a corner and began to learn that human connection and vulnerability was more valuable and fulfilling than partying and sex. Andrew walks us through what sparked his transformation, including taking a break from alcohol and dating while spending time in India, his move to the San Francisco Bay Area which allowed him to explore the spectrums of sex, gender, identity, etc., studying attachment styles, spirituality, and researching how childhood and ancestral trauma prevent us from showing up fully in life, and are often present major challenges in relationships of all types.

    Check out a piece by Andrew on his womanizing past: https://link.medium.com/65gcweVc2hb
    Presented by Mindset Wellness CBD. Use code "SeeingOtherPeople" to get 10% off and free shipping at www.mindsetwellnesscbd.com. Andrew loves their Rest gummies! 

    • 1 hr 13 min
    Unfiltered: Guys Get Anxiety Too

    Unfiltered: Guys Get Anxiety Too

    On this Unfiltered episode, we’re joined by a 26 year old straight male in the New York City area to hear about his recent relationship that led him to experience anxiety the first time in his life. He shares what caused the anxiety – including the red flags that he ignored, what it felt like, and how he seeks out help by communicating to friends and family and starting therapy. 
    Presented by Mindset Wellness CBD. Use code "SeeingOtherPeople" to get 10% off and free shipping at www.mindsetwellnesscbd.com. PS…try the calm gummies to cure your dating anxiety :) 

    • 46 min
    What Grandma Thinks We're Doing Wrong with Excuse My Grandma

    What Grandma Thinks We're Doing Wrong with Excuse My Grandma

    Kim Murstein and Grandma Gail from the Excuse My Grandma podcast join the show this week to discuss the generational differences of what dating is like now vs when Grandma Gail was searching for love. We talk about how dating has changed over time, when and how “dating” began, social media’s role in dating, the ability to stalk a potential date or an ex, having too many options, the most surprising things about dating in the 50s and dating now, and more.

    Follow along at @excusemygrandma, @seeingotherpeople and @ilana.dunn.

    Presented by Mindset Wellness CBD. Use code "SeeingOtherPeople" to get 10% off and free shipping at www.mindsetwellnesscbd.com. PS…try the calm gummies to cure your dating anxiety :) 

    • 1 hr 2 min
    Unfiltered: Finding Love After Loss

    Unfiltered: Finding Love After Loss

    On this episode of Unfiltered, I’m joined by Caroline, a 27 year old living in New York City who is navigating dating after losing her older brother. She shares what it’s like to communicate her loss to a date, what people’s reactions have been, and how each individual has their own personal preference on the grieving process and on how and when to have these conversations with a potential partner. Caroline and I discuss how people can have more thoughtful and empathetic conversations surrounding loss and grief in order to destigmatize and reduce the overall awkwardness.
    Follow along on Instagram @seeingotherpeople and @ilana.dunn. 
    Presented by Mindset Wellness CBD.  Head to to www.mindsetwellnesscbd.com and use code "SeeingOtherPeople" at checkout for 10% off and free shipping on all of my favorite CBD products. 

    • 53 min
    Double Dating with Fourplay Social

    Double Dating with Fourplay Social

    Ilana sits down with Julie and Danielle, the founders of Fourplay Social, a double dating app where friends team up and match with other pairs. We hear about why the duo decided to create a new dating app, the benefits of double dating are, how you can be a good wing-person for your single friends, and how to make dating fun when you feel burnt out. We also discuss why first dates shouldn’t be longer than an hour, how important the little things in dating are.
    Follow @fourplaysocial, visit Fourplay Social’s website at https://www.fourplaysocial.com/
    Presented by Mindset Wellness CBD.  Head to to www.mindsetwellnesscbd.com and use code "SeeingOtherPeople" at checkout for 10% off and free shipping on all of my favorite CBD products.

    • 1 hr 3 min

Customer Reviews

4.5 out of 5
307 Ratings

307 Ratings

Skullkingkiller ,

The PODCAST You NEED!!!! 💫

Ilana covers everything you need when tackling the dating world! Her perspective are kindhearted and full of wisdom you can take with you into your next or current relationship!!

A MUST LISTEN FOR EVERYONE!!

michellehernan ,

Love love love!

I love the advice and guests Ilana brings on each week. Even though I’m currently in a relationship I still find the advice to be fresh and relative to what I have gone through dating or what my friends are currently going through.

I look forward to the episodes each week and can’t recommend it enough!

Boywonderflounder ,

MUST LISTEN!!! What would I do without SOP?!

I was single in the city, and now into a relationship… Ilana covers it all and I can’t stop listening!! I would give a 6th star if I could :)

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