Sell Without Selling

Stacey O'Byrne
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Join your host, Stacey O'Byrne as she explains the art and science of how to sell without selling.

  1. 1d ago

    411: You Are Great at What You Do. So Why Does It Get Weird When the Money Comes Up?

    On this solo episode, Stacey focuses on why sales conversations often become uncomfortable when money is discussed, arguing that the real issue is not pricing or sales skills but subconscious beliefs and nervous system programming around money. Key takeaways: -Certainty transfers. And guess what? So does uncertainty. -You cannot script your way out of the past belief. -Your price is not a referendum on your worth as a human being. Tweetable Quotes: "The moment money comes up in a conversation, your unconscious and subconscious program activates... about asking for money, about what you're worth and what it means if they say no." -Stacey O'Byrne "Nobody wakes up one day and decides asking for money is going to feel uncomfortable... Every one of those experiences made a deposit into an unconscious and a subconscious program, and that program now runs automatically every time money enters into a conversation." -Stacey O'Byrne "Next time the money conversation comes up, pay attention to what happens inside your body before you say the number... The money conversation is the same conversation. The only thing that makes it different is the meaning that the program attached to it." -Stacey O'Byrne Resources: Instagram: @pivotpointadvantage Schedule a 15 minute call with Stacey: http://pivotpointadvantage.com/talktostacey If you’re ready to take yourself and your business to the next level and are interested in a coaching program that will get you there check out: http://pivotpointadvantage.com/iwantsuccess Join an interactive environment to help you build the success you’ve always wanted with other like-minded, success-driven entrepreneurs, business owners, and sales professionals: https://facebook.com/groups/sellwithoutselling

  2. Jul 20

    410: How to Break Through a Revenue Plateau When You Are Already Doing Everything Right

    On this solo episode, Stacey argues that business plateaus are usually not caused by poor strategy but by an "identity ceiling"—subconscious beliefs about what level of success a person deserves or is capable of achieving. Key takeaways: -The market will pay what you hold. -Strategy is never going to break through an identity ceiling. -The plateau is not a strategy problem. It's an identity problem. Tweetable Quotes: "The plateau is the gap between your identity that built the current level and the identity required to run the next one." -Stacey O'Byrne "The market will pay what you hold. The programming decides what you can hold, and until the programming updates, the pricing ceiling holds with it." -Stacey O'Byrne "The current level identity protects current level resources. The next level identity invests in next level outcomes. Same decision, completely different frame, which creates completely different results." -Stacey O'Byrne Resources: Instagram: @pivotpointadvantage Schedule a 15 minute call with Stacey: http://pivotpointadvantage.com/talktostacey If you’re ready to take yourself and your business to the next level and are interested in a coaching program that will get you there check out: http://pivotpointadvantage.com/iwantsuccess Join an interactive environment to help you build the success you’ve always wanted with other like-minded, success-driven entrepreneurs, business owners, and sales professionals: https://facebook.com/groups/sellwithoutselling

  3. Jul 13

    409: The Real Reason Your Clients Keep Draining You Has Nothing to Do With Them

    On this solo episode, Stacey argues that the exhausting, demanding clients many entrepreneurs attract are not random—they are a reflection of the standards, positioning, pricing, and subconscious beliefs they project into the marketplace. Key takeaways: -The draining client is not the problem. The draining client is actually your feedback. -Your programming will always win. -The signal changes when the programming changes. Tweetable Quotes: "You communicated uncertainty about your own value and they responded to the uncertainty, not the number. The clients who pay without pushing back aren't richer or more generous. They're actually responding to a different energy behind the number." -Stacey O'Byrne "Every client you accept below your standard is a vote against your standards and votes compound. The first wrong yes set the standard. Every wrong yes after that confirmed it, and the market responded by sending you more of the same." -Stacey O'Byrne "Most people tell you raise your prices, tighten your niche, get laser focused on your ideal client. And that advice isn't wrong. It's just incomplete. Because if the programming underneath has not changed, you'll raise the price and then discount it where there is friction." -Stacey O'Byrne Resources: Instagram: @pivotpointadvantage Schedule a 15 minute call with Stacey: http://pivotpointadvantage.com/talktostacey If you’re ready to take yourself and your business to the next level and are interested in a coaching program that will get you there check out: http://pivotpointadvantage.com/iwantsuccess Join an interactive environment to help you build the success you’ve always wanted with other like-minded, success-driven entrepreneurs, business owners, and sales professionals: https://facebook.com/groups/sellwithoutselling

  4. Jul 6

    408: Why You Are Always Almost Ready and Never Actually Starting

    On this solo episode, Stacey argues that entrepreneurs often wait until they "feel ready" before raising prices, launching offers, hiring, or having difficult conversations Key takeaways: -Ready is a feeling. -The almost was always bigger than the actual. -You don't need to feel ready. You get to decide. Tweetable Quotes: "Your brain releases dopamine in anticipation of a reward, not just when the reward arrives... the planning, the research, the almost produces a neurochemical reward that partially satisfies the drive to move forward." -Stacey O'Byrne "The revenue that you have not made, the momentum that you have not built, the version of the business you would already be running if you had started when you first knew you should—that's the real cost, and it's compounding." -Stacey O'Byrne "Almost is not a holding pattern. Almost is a decision to stay where you are, and you get to make a different one today." -Stacey O'Byrne Resources: Instagram: @pivotpointadvantage Schedule a 15 minute call with Stacey: http://pivotpointadvantage.com/talktostacey If you’re ready to take yourself and your business to the next level and are interested in a coaching program that will get you there check out: http://pivotpointadvantage.com/iwantsuccess Join an interactive environment to help you build the success you’ve always wanted with other like-minded, success-driven entrepreneurs, business owners, and sales professionals: https://facebook.com/groups/sellwithoutselling

  5. Jun 29

    407: SWS REWIND: "12 Random Thoughts of Success"

    On this episode of Sell Without Selling, Stacey, inspired by the holiday spirit... shares 12 random but important thoughts. Key Takeaways: Set boundaries.Stop accepting mediocrity.Recognize the power of questions. Tweetable Quotes: "It is OK to have 'No' in your vocabulary." "Avoid the comfort of certainty." "Asking 'Why?' will get you a story." Resources: Instagram: @pivotpointadvantage Schedule a 15 minute call with Stacey: http://pivotpointadvantage.com/talktostacey If you’re ready to take yourself and your business to the next level and are interested in a coaching program that will get you there check out: http://pivotpointadvantage.com/iwantsuccess Join an interactive environment to help you build the success you’ve always wanted with other like-minded, success-driven entrepreneurs, business owners, and sales professionals: https://facebook.com/groups/sellwithoutselling

  6. Jun 22

    406: If Your Business Stops When You Stop, You Don’t Have a Business

    On this solo episode, Stacey challenges entrepreneurs and business owners with a provocative question: If you disappeared for 30 days, what would happen to your business? Key takeaways: -Do you have a business or a job? -You can't scale yourself. You can only scale a system. -The job will keep calling you back until you stop answering. Tweetable Quotes: "A business runs when you are not in the room, whereas a job requires you. And the difference between those two things is not a system or a hiring issue. It's not even a strategy problem. It's an identity problem." -Stacey O'Byrne "The most valuable person in a business is not the one everyone depends on. It's the one who built something that does not depend on anyone." -Stacey O'Byrne "Every time you catch yourself doing something that is not vision, revenue, or culture, ask yourself one question: Is this the highest and best use of the person who built this? If the answer is no, it belongs to someone else." -Stacey O'Byrne Resources: Instagram: @pivotpointadvantage Schedule a 15 minute call with Stacey: http://pivotpointadvantage.com/talktostacey If you’re ready to take yourself and your business to the next level and are interested in a coaching program that will get you there check out: http://pivotpointadvantage.com/iwantsuccess Join an interactive environment to help you build the success you’ve always wanted with other like-minded, success-driven entrepreneurs, business owners, and sales professionals: https://facebook.com/groups/sellwithoutselling

  7. Jun 15

    405: Why You Know What to Do To Be Successful and Still Don't Do It

    On this solo episode, Stacey argues that the gap between knowing what to do and actually doing it is not a discipline or motivation problem—it's a subconscious programming problem. Key takeaways: -The brain is elastic. It can rewire. -The unconscious mind wins every single time. -Willpower is a 10% tool. It will never win against the 90%. Tweetable Quotes: "If money was always scarce and stressful in your house, your unconscious built a program that says money is hard to get and easy to lose. That program does not care what the conscious mind wants. It will find evidence for what it already believes." -Stacey O'Byrne "The gap between what you know and what you do is not a character flaw. It's not proof that you do not want it badly enough. It's the 90% of your brain running software... overriding the 10% that knows exactly where you need to go." -Stacey O'Byrne "You know what needs to happen. You've known it for a really long time. You know that in order to be successful, you get to make more calls and follow up more consistently... And the story that you've been telling yourself is that you just need more discipline, more motivation, a stronger reason why." -Stacey O'Byrne Resources: Instagram: @pivotpointadvantage Schedule a 15 minute call with Stacey: http://pivotpointadvantage.com/talktostacey If you’re ready to take yourself and your business to the next level and are interested in a coaching program that will get you there check out: http://pivotpointadvantage.com/iwantsuccess Join an interactive environment to help you build the success you’ve always wanted with other like-minded, success-driven entrepreneurs, business owners, and sales professionals: https://facebook.com/groups/sellwithoutselling

  8. Jun 8

    404: The Follow Up Is Where the Money Is. So Why Are You Ghosting Your Own Pipeline?

    On this solo episode, Stacey tackles one of the most common and costly mistakes in sales: failing to follow up. She argues that many business owners, entrepreneurs, and sales professionals mistakenly believe that prospects who say “let me think about it” will naturally reach back out when they are ready. Key takeaways: -They’re not saying no. They’re saying I’m not certain enough yet. -Follow up is not chasing. It’s leading. -It’s not a pipeline problem. It’s a programming problem. Tweetable Quotes: "You told yourself that if they were serious, they would reach out, and they didn’t. That sale is gone. And somewhere in the back of your mind, you already know what happened. You ghosted your own pipeline." -Stacey O'Byrne "When somebody says, ‘Let me think about it,’ they’re not saying no. They’re saying, ‘I’m not certain enough yet.’ And uncertainty is not a closed door." -Stacey O'Byrne "The people you are afraid of bothering, the ones who genuinely aren’t interested, will tell you. A quick no is a gift. It closes the loop and frees you both." -Stacey O'Byrne Resources: Instagram: @pivotpointadvantage Schedule a 15 minute call with Stacey: http://pivotpointadvantage.com/talktostacey If you’re ready to take yourself and your business to the next level and are interested in a coaching program that will get you there check out: http://pivotpointadvantage.com/iwantsuccess Join an interactive environment to help you build the success you’ve always wanted with other like-minded, success-driven entrepreneurs, business owners, and sales professionals: https://facebook.com/groups/sellwithoutselling

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Join your host, Stacey O'Byrne as she explains the art and science of how to sell without selling.

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  • Creator
    Stacey O'Byrne
  • Years Active
    2020 - 2026
  • Episodes
    200
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © Copyright 2026 Stacey O'Byrne
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    Sell Without Selling