141 episodes

Four Christian wives encourage other wives to enjoy God’s gift of sex in all of its awesomeness by presenting a biblical view, practical tips, and engaging discussion about godly sexual intimacy.

Sex Chat for Christian Wives Bonny Burns, Gaye Christmus, J Parker, and Chris Taylor

    • Religion & Spirituality
    • 4.7 • 700 Ratings

Four Christian wives encourage other wives to enjoy God’s gift of sex in all of its awesomeness by presenting a biblical view, practical tips, and engaging discussion about godly sexual intimacy.

    God and Your Sex Life

    God and Your Sex Life

    For many, sexuality and sexual experience are compartmentalized away from God. Today, we want to invite you to sit with us as we discuss how God is interwoven throughout every area of our lives, including (and most importantly for this podcast) our sexual intimacy with our husbands.

    From the Bible
    Even though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I fear no evil, for You are with me; Your rod and Your staff, they comfort me. Psalm 23:4 (NASB)
    But now, this is what the Lord says—
        he who created you, Jacob,
        he who formed you, Israel:
    “Do not fear, for I have redeemed you;
        I have summoned you by name; you are mine.
    When you pass through the waters,
        I will be with you;
    and when you pass through the rivers,
        they will not sweep over you.
    When you walk through the fire,
        you will not be burned;
        the flames will not set you ablaze.
    Since you are precious and honored in my sight,
        and because I love you,
    I will give people in exchange for you,
        nations in exchange for your life.
    Isaiah 43:1-2,4

    Or do you not know that wrongdoers will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived: Neither the sexually immoral nor idolaters nor adulterers nor men who have sex with men nor thieves nor the greedy nor drunkards nor slanderers nor swindlers will inherit the kingdom of God. And that is what some of you were. But you were washed, you were sanctified, you were justified in the name of the Lord Jesus Christ and by the Spirit of our God. 1 Corinthians 9:6-11
    Create in me a clean heart, O God, and renew a right spirit within me. Psalm 51:10 (ESV)

    But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, forbearance, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control. Against such things there is no law. Galatians 5:22-23
    Where can I go from your Spirit?
        Where can I flee from your presence?
    If I go up to the heavens, you are there;
        if I make my bed in the depths, you are there.
    If I rise on the wings of the dawn,
        if I settle on the far side of the sea,
    even there your hand will guide me,
        your right hand will hold me fast.
    Psalm 139:7-10
    And so we know and rely on the love God has for us. God is love. Whoever lives in love lives in God, and God in them. 1 John 4:16
    Episode 30: Lies Women Believe, Part 2 - Sex Chat for Christian Wives Episode 43: Dealing with Sexual Baggage Is It Okay to Yell at God about Your Marriage? - Hot, Holy & Humorous A Prayer for Your Sexual Intimacy - Hot, Holy & Humorous Praying Before, During, and After Sex - Hot, Holy & Humorous Episode 117: Prayer and Sex “In Bed” (or Lessons from a Fortune Cookie) - The Forgiven Wife Sexual Invocation – My Journey Toward Sexual Wholeness #3 - The Forgiven Wife Intimacy Revealed: 52 Devotions to Enhance Sex in Marriage by J. Parker  
    Visit our website: forchristianwives.com
    Check out our value-priced webinars: Shop! - Sex Chat for Christian Wives
    Individual Websites
    Calm.Healthy.Sexy. - Gaye Christmus
    Honeycomb & Spice - Chris Taylor
    Hot, Holy & Humorous - J. Parker
    Strong Wives - Bonny Burns

    • 25 min
    Sexual Arousal

    Sexual Arousal

    Sexual arousal describes physiological and psychological preparation for a sexual encounter and intercourse. Today, we talk about what it feels like, what gets in the way, and how to enhance your sexual arousal.

    From the Bible
    Let him lead me to the banquet hall,
        and let his banner over me be love.
    Strengthen me with raisins,
        refresh me with apples,
        for I am faint with love.
    His left arm is under my head,
        and his right arm embraces me.
    Song of Songs 2:4-6
    Sex Chat for Christian Wives - webinars Episode 1: Getting in the Mood Episode 33: Getting in the Mood 2 Love Like a Woman: Should Your Sexual Response Be Like Your Husband's? | The Forgiven Wife You're Not Kissing Enough - Hot, Holy & Humorous An Embarrassing Post about Female Sexual Dysfunction | The Forgiven Wife Dealing with Vulvovaginal Atrophy Without Hormones | The Forgiven Wife Mindfulness & Meditation During Sex - Hot, Holy & Humorous 5 Ways to Talk About Sex with Your Husband (calmhealthysexy.com) 2019 Webinar Series 2020 Webinar Series Visit our website: forchristianwives.com

    • 18 min
    4 Mindset Hacks that Can Lead to Better Sex

    4 Mindset Hacks that Can Lead to Better Sex

    Today, Bonny and Gaye share fresh ways of thinking about changes you want to make in your sex life and offer practical tips for taking small, positive steps in that direction.

    Also sponsored by Pillow Talk: 40 Conversations about Sex for Married Couples!
    From the Bible

    Above all, love each other deeply, because love covers over a multitude of sins. 1 Peter 4:8

    Song of Solomon: Solomon’s Song of Songs - Bible Gateway

    Embrace Uncertainty - The Healthy Life Toolbox Overcome Resistance - The Healthy Life Toolbox Focus on Action - The Healthy Life Toolbox The War of Art: Break Through the Blocks and Win Your Inner Creative Battles by Steven Pressfield Resolution Week: "And Now for Something Completely Different..." - Hot, Holy & Humorous Two Words That Could Change the Course of Sex in Your Marriage - Hot, Holy & Humorous Visit our website: forchristianwives.com

    • 28 min
    Best of Summer 2022: Bonny's Pick

    Best of Summer 2022: Bonny's Pick

    There are a lot of resources about sex now, some great and some terrible. But often, resources have some important truths, some debatable points, and some myths. Today we want to talk about what really matters—the foundational points we want wives to know about sex.
    From the Bible
    What does God have to say about sex? 
    But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, forbearance, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control. Against such things there is no law. – Galatians 5:22-23
    Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. Love never fails. – 1 Corinthians 13:4-8a
    Dear Wife, You Deserve a Great Sex Life Too - Calm.Healthy.Sexy. 3 Words that Can Transform Your Sex Life - Calm.Healthy.Sexy. The #1 Myth Christian Women Learned about Sex | Hot, Holy & Humorous Love Like a Woman: Should Your Sexual Response Be Like Your Husband's? - The Forgiven Wife Episode 41: 4 Truths About Sex Husbands Should Know - Knowing Her Sexually How to Read a Marriage Book | Hot, Holy & Humorous Must a Better Friendship Come Before Better Sex? | Hot, Holy & Humorous Healthy Life Toolbox series - Calm.Healthy. Sexy. 3 Ways a Vibrator Can Help Marital Intimacy - The Forgiven Wife Q&A with J: "Is It Okay to Use Sex Toys?" | Hot, Holy & Humorous Is Anal Sex Okay? | Hot, Holy & Humorous Has the Mainstream Embraced BDSM? Should You? | Hot, Holy & Humorous Solo Masturbation? - The Forgiven Wife Setting Boundaries in the Bedroom | Hot, Holy & Humorous Finding Friends to Support Your Marital Intimacy | Hot, Holy & Humorous 10 Tips for Talking to Your Husband About Sexual Intimacy - Hot, Holy & Humorous God, Sex & Your Marriage by Dr. Juli Slattery Sponsor

    Click to buy or learn more
    Visit our website: forchristianwives.com

    • 30 min
    Best of Summer 2022, Chris's Pick

    Best of Summer 2022, Chris's Pick

    About this episode
    We understand the struggle wives often have with their body image and how it affects their sexuality. Today we want to revisit this topic to discuss how we can finally embrace our bodies and get comfortable being naked with our husbands.

    Why is having a positive body image such a challenge for women? What can we do to combat messages that make us feel worse about ourselves? Do we have any responsibility to take care of our bodies? Despite how we feel about ourselves, most husbands find their wives beautiful. But what about the wife whose husband criticizes her appearance? What advice from your own journey would you give to help a wife embrace a positive body image?

    rom the Bible
    What does God have to say about body image?

    For you created my inmost being;
        you knit me together in my mother’s womb.
    I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made;
        your works are wonderful,
        I know that full well.
    Psalm 139:13-14

    Body Image Got You Down? - The Forgiven Wife Body by God - The Forgiven Wife| He Can't Really Be Happy with My Body - J's guest post on The Forgiven Wife Enjoy a Plus-Sized Sex Life - Honeycomb & Spice 5 Ways to Feel More Attractive – Beauty and Confidence for Real Women - Calm.Healthy.Sexy. My Husband’s Big Belly Turns Me Off. Am I Shallow? - Bonny's OysterBed7

    • 29 min
    Best of Summer 2022, Gaye's Pick

    Best of Summer 2022, Gaye's Pick

    About this episode
    Today we’re talking about something that most women are thinking about at this time of year — taking better care of our health. If you’re like us, you’re probably thinking about getting in shape, eating a healthier diet, getting more sleep, or losing some weight over the next few months.

    And your reasons, like ours, are probably pretty straightforward — you want to look better. You want to feel better. You want to have more energy. And you want to avoid getting sick.

    But there’s a bonus reason for taking care of your health that you may not know about — improving your sex life.

    So let’s talk about some of the ways that good health can lead to better sex and intimacy in your marriage.

    From the Bible What does God have to say about this?
    "Do you not know that your bodies are temples of the Holy Spirit, who is in you, whom you have received from God? You are not your own; you were bought at a price. Therefore honor God with your bodies," 1 Corinthians 6:19-20.

    Episode 7: Exercise and Sex, Sex Chat for Christian Wives Praying for Sexual Health, Hot, Holy & Humorous Is Your Sex Life Getting Enough Sleep?, Hot, Holy & Humorous 4 Ways that Exercise Can Improve Your Health - and Your Sex Life, CalmHealthySexy 9 Things to Do to Get Ready for a Healthy New Year, CalmHealthySexy Healthy Living for Busy Women, CalmHealthySexy A Healthy Weight is not a Skinny Weight, Bonny's OysterBed7 Help for Vaginal Dryness, Bonny's OysterBed7 Sleepin' Is Sexy, Bonny's OysterBed7 A Reminder to Breathe, The Forgiven Wife Sponsor

    • 25 min

Customer Reviews

4.7 out of 5
700 Ratings

700 Ratings

GAandJesus ,

My girlfriends at the kitchen table

I am loving this podcast and I feel like I’m hanging out with my friends and talking about this super important issue of intimacy in our marriages! My husband and I are focusing on intimacy so much more and we are watching God prove the power of this special connection in what we are calling our “sexperiment.” Lol! I am noticing I feel much less anxious, more trusting of and united with my sweet man and a tenderness to his ways that I really needed. He says he feel more confident and less afraid of failure, as well as, looking forward to more frequent time of intimacy together. I am noticing he pays more attention to me and is thoughtful about me and I am loving that! This connection truly fuels Gospel power and I’m so thankful to you for helping us learn and grow! God bless you❤️✝️

abburns ,

Love this so much!

I wish I had this podcast when I was a newlywed! This is a great way the older can teach the younger and give wisdom in this very taboo area unfortunately the church doesn’t talk about.

candocox ,

Mentors every woman needs

This podcast has been so helpful. If you’re quiet and reserved like me and don’t have a group of women to comfortably talk to about sex and marriage issues, you need to listen. I’ve not only learned so much but I’ve also been able to become more comfortable with my sexuality and more willing to explore it. I hate to think of where I would still be if I hadn’t started listening.

You Might Also Like

Dr Corey Allan
Tony & Alisa DiLorenzo
XO Podcast Network, Dave Willis, Ashley Willis
Ryan and Selena Frederick
Dr. Juli Slattery and Authentic Intimacy®
Francie Winslow