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Four Christian wives encourage other wives to enjoy God’s gift of sex in all of its awesomeness by presenting a biblical view, practical tips, and engaging discussion about godly sexual intimacy.

Sex Chat for Christian Wives Bonny Burns, Gaye Christmus, J Parker, and Chris Taylor

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Four Christian wives encourage other wives to enjoy God’s gift of sex in all of its awesomeness by presenting a biblical view, practical tips, and engaging discussion about godly sexual intimacy.

    Newlywed Tips, with Ngina Otiende

    Newlywed Tips, with Ngina Otiende

    Today, we have special guest Ngina Otiende of Intentional Today, and we're talking about sex and marriage for newlyweds.

    • 27 min
    What Research Tells Wives About Sex, with Shaunti Feldhahn

    What Research Tells Wives About Sex, with Shaunti Feldhahn

    We are so privileged today to have Shaunti Feldhahn—social researcher, bestselling author, and popular speaker—pulling up a chair at our virtual kitchen table.
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    From the Bible

    So God created mankind in his own image, in the image of God he created them; male and female he created them. Genesis 1:27

    I made a covenant with my eyes
    not to look lustfully at a young woman.
    Job 31:1
     
    Resources
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    For Women Only, Revised and Updated Edition: What You Need to Know About the Inner Lives of Men by Shaunti Feldhahn Through a Man's Eyes: Helping Women Understand the Visual Nature of Men by Shaunti Feldhahn Do Our Yoga Pants Make Men Sin? - Hot, Holy & Humorous On “Pigs,” Good Men, and the Difference - Hot, Holy & Humorous The Surprising Secrets of Highly Happy Marriages: The Little Things That Make a Big Difference by Shaunti Feldhahn The Good News About Marriage: Debunking Discouraging Myths about Marriage and Divorce by Shaunti Feldhahn 10 Takeaways from the Spark Marriage Conference - Hot Holy & Humorous 4 Things Your Husband Wants from You in Bed - Hot, Holy & Humorous 7 Ways Screen Sex Is Not Like Real Sex - Hot, Holy & Humorous Thriving in Love and Money: 5 Game-Changing Insights about Your Relationship, Your Money, and Yourself by Shaunti Feldhahn What Is Sexual Interest and Why Should I Care? - OysterBed7 25 Ways to Improve Sexual Interest - OysterBed7 Budget Minded Gifts For Her (Pursuit) - OysterBed7 A Moment of Hard Truth - The Forgiven Wife To Duty Sex—and Beyond! - The Forgiven Wife Can “Fake It to Make It” Really Work with Sex? - The Forgiven Wife Why “10 Minutes and Lube” Is Horrible Advice - The Forgiven Wife Visit our website: forchristianwives.com

    • 37 min
    Feeling More Sensual

    Feeling More Sensual

    Today we’re talking about sensuality and how wives can feel more sensual. What does it mean to feel sensual? Why can it be difficult, and why does it matter? And what can you do to feel more sensual yourself?

    • 27 min
    Getting Him to Touch You Where You Want

    Getting Him to Touch You Where You Want

    It’s a common scenario we hear: She wants him to touch her body in various places, and he wants to focus on the “good bits.” So today, we’re going to talk about where you’d like to be touched, besides your special lady-parts, and how you can get your husband to spend more time and attention there.
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    From the Bible
    What does God have to say about touching and kissing her body?

    She
    Let him kiss me with the kisses of his mouth— for your love is more delightful than wine.
    Song of Songs 1:2

    His left arm is under my head and his right arm embraces me.
    Song of Songs 2:6, 8:3

    A loving doe, a graceful deer—
    may her breasts satisfy you always,
    may you ever be intoxicated with her love.
    Proverbs 5:19
    Resources
    How Do You Like to Be Touched? - Hot, Holy & Humorous Why woman are different from men and vice versa - Amanda Gore The Most Sensitive Spots on Men (and on You) - Women's Health (study of college men and women) You’re Not Kissing Enough - Hot, Holy & Humorous Open Your Mind and Take Off Your Shoes - The Forgiven Wife Episode 78: Breasts and How They Impact Female Sexuality 7 Ways to Communicate with Your Husband About Sex How to Talk with Him About Sex Feet and Sex (Pedicures link to arousal?) - OysterBed7 "Dirty Dice" - Married Dance (despite the name, it's simply a game to encourage touching/kissing various body parts - affiliate link) Learn What You Like in Bed - The Forgiven Wife
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    • 18 min
    4 Tips to Improve Your Sex Life

    4 Tips to Improve Your Sex Life

    We want to encourage you to just think of one thing you could do to improve your sex life. To give you some ideas, we're each going to share one thing we did to improve our sex life.

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    From the Bible

    What does God have to say about our tips?

    For his unfailing love toward those who fear him
        is as great as the height of the heavens above the earth.
    He has removed our sins as far from us
        as the east is from the west.
    Psalm 103:11-12 (NLT)

    I belong to my beloved,
    and his desire is for me.
    Song of Songs 7:10
    Resources
    Entering Marriage with Sexual Baggage - Hot, Holy & Humorous Q&A with J: How Can I Forgive Myself for My Past? - Hot, Holy & Humorous Has Your Previous Promiscuity Impacted Your Marriage? - Hot, Holy & Humorous Why You Feel Worse Than He Does about the Premarital Sex - Hot, Holy & Humorous Dealing with Sexual Baggage - The Forgiven Wife A Husband's Emotional Need - The Forgiven Wife I Thought Sex Was Just for My Husband. Here’s What Changed My Mind. - The Forgiven Wife Lessons Learned from Premarital Sex - The Forgiven Wife How Not to Think About Sex - The Forgiven Wife If You Make Just One Change . . . - The Forgiven Wife Dear Wife, You Deserve a Great Sex Life Too - Calm.Healthy.Sexy. 5 Questions to Ask about Your Sexual Intimacy - Hot, Holy & Humorous
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    • 19 min
    The Worst & Best Sex Advice We've Ever Received

    The Worst & Best Sex Advice We've Ever Received

    There is some really bad sex advice out there, most of it because the people giving the advice don’t know any better themselves. Today we’re sharing with you the worst sex advice we’ve personally received, but also the best sex advice we’ve received.

    • 19 min

Customer Reviews

4.7 out of 5
497 Ratings

497 Ratings

Britt Reel ,

So good!

Finally found a podcast about intimacy with your husband from a Christian perspective. This podcast is healthy, helpful, and very informative!

Jake18711 ,

Thank you!

Thank you for this podcast. So good to hear other Christians having candid conversations about sex.

laurenripple ,

The real sexual revolution

I love this podcast and this fun group of women! So informative and has brought me a lot of reassurance and confidence to not just overcome my own struggles but to have a healthy and thriving sex life with my husband. All the laughter keeps it light and fun, and it’s been a game-changer to hear *positive* messages about sex (with details!) from other Christian women from a biblical perspective. I laugh with every episode and come away with excitement for this part of our marriage. Highly recommend!

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