134 episodes

Four Christian wives encourage other wives to enjoy God’s gift of sex in all of its awesomeness by presenting a biblical view, practical tips, and engaging discussion about godly sexual intimacy.

Sex Chat for Christian Wives Bonny Burns, Gaye Christmus, J Parker, and Chris Taylor

    • Religion & Spirituality
    • 4.7 • 684 Ratings

Four Christian wives encourage other wives to enjoy God’s gift of sex in all of its awesomeness by presenting a biblical view, practical tips, and engaging discussion about godly sexual intimacy.

    How to Talk to Your Husband About Sex

    How to Talk to Your Husband About Sex

    We’ve talked a lot on this podcast about being able to discuss sex with your husband. And even have "more than one conversation," which is Gaye’s trademark advice. But today, we want to walk through the specifics. Whether it’s actually for small changes, an overhaul of your sex life, or something in between, how can you talk to your husband about sex?
    Sponsor

    Get your copy of Pillow Talk today!
    From the Bible
    Gracious words are a honeycomb,
      sweet to the soul and healing to the bones.
    Proverbs 16:24
    My dove in the clefts of the rock,
      in the hiding places on the mountainside,
    show me your face,
      let me hear your voice;
    for your voice is sweet,
      and your face is lovely.
    Song of Songs 2:14
    Resources
    How to Talk about Sexual Problems with Your Spouse - Hot, Holy & Humorous Wives, Your Voice Matters (in the Bedroom & Beyond) - Hot, Holy & Humorous 2020 Webinar Series 2019 Webinar Series Orgasm Webinar Submission Doesn't Mean Putting Up with Sexual Misbehavior - Hot, Holy & Humorous You Are Not Your Husband's Sex Toy - Hot, Holy & Humorous Launching the Conversation About Sex in Your Marriage (with Downloadable Sample Chapter of Pillow Talk) - Hot, Holy & Humorous Husbands - How to Help Your Wife Feel Sexy Again - CalmHealthySexy How to Talk to Your Husband about Sex - CalmHealthySexy Boundaries in Marriage: Understanding the Choices That Make or Break Loving Relationships by Drs. Cloud/Townsend Faithful Counseling (affiliate link) The Feeling Wheel - Couples - The Gottman Institute Visit our website: forchristianwives.com

    • 30 min
    The Orgasm Iceberg

    The Orgasm Iceberg

    When God created women, He gave us an amazing gift—the clitoris! Its only purpose is our sexual pleasure, but many of us don’t know too much about this part of our body. In this episode, we’re going to help you learn about the wonderful clitoris.
    Sponsor

    Learn more about Venus Pearls!
    From the Bible
    For you formed my inward parts;
    you knitted me together in my mother's womb.
    I praise you, for I am fearfully and wonderfully made.
    Wonderful are your works;
    my soul knows it very well.
    Psalm 139:13-14
    Resources

    Amphis, CC SA 1.0, via Wikimedia Commons

    Debunking myths about the clitoris | by Jessica Pin | Medium (8,000 nerve endings myth) Female orgasms and a 'rule of thumb' – Chicago Tribune (C-V distance) Clitoris | Online Etymology Dictionary (etymonline.com) Dragonfly Sex Position | Christian-friendly Sex Positions (named by J!) Packing the Suitcase Sex Position | Christian-friendly Sex Positions CAT Sex Position & Technique | Christian-friendly Sex Positions Orgasm Webinar - GREAT VALUE at only $10! Unlock Your Orgasm: Through a Christian Lens by Bonny Logsdon Burns Visit our website: forchristianwives.com

    • 28 min
    Simplify Summer for Better Sex

    Simplify Summer for Better Sex

    About this episode
    In summertime, the living is supposed to be easy, but we often find it just as stressful and scheduled as the rest of the year is. In this episode we talk about simplifying your summer in ways that can improve your sex life.


    From the Bible
    Better one handful with tranquility than two handfuls with toil and chasing after the wind. Ecclesiastes 4:6

    So I commend the enjoyment of life, because there is nothing better for a person under the sun than to eat and drink and be glad. Then joy will accompany them in their toil all the days of the life God has given them under the sun. Ecclesiastes 8:15


    Resources
    Episode 60: Vacation Sex 10 Ways to Keep Cool While Heating It Up This Summer - Hot, Holy & Humorous Vacationing with Hubby: How to Make It Better - Hot, Holy & Humorous 6 Simple Ways to Slow Down This Summer - Calm.Healthy.Sexy. How to Have “Vacation Sex” – Even When You’re Not on Vacation - Calm.Healthy.Sexy. 4 Reasons Wives and Moms Need a Summer Vacation - Calm.Healthy.Sexy. What Do Your Children Need this Summer – It May Not Be What You Think! - Calm.Healthy.Sexy. Just Breathe - The Forgiven Wife Stressed and Overwhelmed? - The Forgiven Wife Eat, Drink, and Be Merry - The Forgiven Wife
    Webinars
    2019-2020 Webinar Bundle
    $40.00
    Add to cart

    2020 Webinar Series
    $25.00
    Add to cart

    Orgasm Webinar
    $10.00
    Add to cart

    Oral Sex Webinar
    $10.00
    Add to cart

    Getting in the Mood Webinar – Replay
    $10.00
    Add to cart

    2019 Webinar Series
    $15.00
    Add to cart

    Understanding Her Sex Drive – Webinar Replay
    $5.00
    Add to cart

    Foreplay – Webinar
    $5.00
    Add to cart

    Understanding Your Sex Drive – Webinar Replay
    $5.00
    Add to cart

    • 20 min
    Listener Questions - Answered!

    Listener Questions - Answered!

    About this episode
    Bonny and Chris answer questions about older kids knowing that their parents are having sex, responding to a husband's struggle with pornography, and discerning what is okay in the bedroom.


    Sponsor
    https://b-ltx.com/venus-pearls/


    From the Bible
    Matthew 5:28 - But I tell you that anyone who looks at a woman lustfully has already committed adultery with her in his heart.

    Song of Solomon 2:3 - Like an apple tree among the trees of the forest is my beloved among the young men. I delight to sit in his shade, and his fruit is sweet to my taste.

    Song of Solomon 4:16 - Awake, north wind, and come, south wind! Blow on my garden, that its fragrance may spread everywhere. Let my beloved come into his garden and taste its choice fruits.

    Ephesians 6:11-15 - Put on the full armor of God, so that you can take your stand against the devil’s schemes. For our struggle is not against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the powers of this dark world and against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly realms. Therefore put on the full armor of God, so that when the day of evil comes, you may be able to stand your ground, and after you have done everything, to stand. Stand firm then, with the belt of truth buckled around your waist, with the breastplate of righteousness in place, and with your feet fitted with the readiness that comes from the gospel of peace.


    Resources
    The Joy of Earbuds | The Forgiven Wife

    Q&A with J: Avoiding Sex Because the Kids Can Hear - Hot, Holy & Humorous

    5 Reasons to Stop Using Porn...Now - Hot, Holy & Humorous

    Samson Society

    Hope for Wives podcast

    Beggar's Daughter

    SheRecovery

    • 33 min
    Non-Sexual Ways to Increase Intimacy in Your Marriage

    Non-Sexual Ways to Increase Intimacy in Your Marriage

    About this episode
    You probably know from your own marriage, or from observing other marriages, that non-sexual interactions can make or break a marriage. Today, we talk about why this is true and how we can leverage it to benefit our marriages.


    Sponsors
    Use coupon code SC10 for 10% off!

    Click to Learn More


    This episode was also sponsored in part by Married Dance, a Christian-owned store for marital aids and sex toys.

    From the Bible
    Greet one another with a holy kiss. - 2 Corinthians 13:12


    Resources
    15 Simple Ways to Connect with Your Spouse - CalmHealthySexy 6 Ways to Invest in Your Marriage - CalmHealthySexy Speak Your Husband's Love Language - CalmHealthySexy 6 Kinds of Touch Every Marriage Needs - Hot, Holy & Humorous 5 Kisses You Need to Master - Hot, Holy & Humorous Recreational Enjoyment Inventory | Marriage Builders, Inc. Nurture Your Nonsexual Intimacy | The Forgiven Wife Sensate Focus - PDF Recovering your sex drive with Sensate Focus Mindful Touching Techniques |Linda Weiner  

    • 27 min
    Foundations of Sexual Intimacy

    Foundations of Sexual Intimacy

    Our listeners have varied experiences, and some may value knowing some basic principles from a physical and emotional perspective. So today, we're getting back to the foundations of sexual intimacy, including what we wish we'd known going into marriage.
    Sponsor

    Check out our special offer for women-owned businesses.
    From the Bible
    But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, forbearance, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control. Against such things there is no law. Galatians 5:22–23
    Be devoted to one another in love. Honor one another above yourselves. Romans 12:10
    You, my brothers and sisters, were called to be free. But do not use your freedom to indulge the flesh; rather, serve one another humbly in love. Galatians 5:13
    Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you. Ephesians 4:32
    Greet one another with a kiss of love. Peace to all of you who are in Christ. 1 Peter 5:14
    And this is his command: to believe in the name of his Son, Jesus Christ, and to love one another as he commanded us. 1 John 3:23
    Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. 1 Corinthians 13:4–7
    Song of Songs (the mutuality and intimacy of sex in marriage)
    “I have the right to do anything,” you say—but not everything is beneficial. “I have the right to do anything”—but not everything is constructive. 1 Corinthians 10:23
    Resources
    Q&A with J: Protecting Yourself from Infection - Hot, Holy & Humorous Dealing with Erection Problems - The Forgiven Wife Should You Track the Frequency of Sex in Your Marriage? - Hot, Holy & Humorous Episode 125: Is Sex a Need? Love Like a Woman: Should Your Sexual Response Be Like Your Husband's? - The Forgiven Wife These 3 Actions Could Bring You to Orgasm - Hot, Holy & Humorous 5 Times of Day to Make Love - Hot, Holy & Humorous You're Not Kissing Enough - Hot, Holy & Humorous Husbands, How to Help Your Wife Feel Sexy Again - CalmHealthySexy How Do You Like to Be Touched? - Hot, Holy & Humorous Female Ejaculation: Is It Real? - Hot, Holy & Humorous Orgasm Webinar Unlock Your Orgasm: Through a Christian Lens by Bonny Logsdon Burns Dear Wife, Sex is for You Too - CalmHealthySexy What Are the Real Purposes of Sex? - Hot, Holy & Humorous Episode 43: Rebuilding Her Trust, with Jessica McCleese - Knowing Her Sexually Faithful Counseling – get connected with a licensed Christian therapist Do I Have To? - The Forgiven Wife Setting Boundaries in the Bedroom - Hot, Holy & Humorous Is Anal Sex Okay? - Hot, Holy & Humorous 5 Ways to Talk About Sex with Your Husband - CalmHealthySexy Pillow Talk: 40 Conversations about Sex for Married Couples by J. Parker Couples Sharing Exercise (FANOS) (hopecounselingtexas.com) Do You Pray for Your Sex Life? - Hot, Holy & Humorous includes affiliate links
    Visit our website: forchristianwives.com

    • 37 min

Customer Reviews

4.7 out of 5
684 Ratings

684 Ratings

candocox ,

Mentors every woman needs

This podcast has been so helpful. If you’re quiet and reserved like me and don’t have a group of women to comfortably talk to about sex and marriage issues, you need to listen. I’ve not only learned so much but I’ve also been able to become more comfortable with my sexuality and more willing to explore it. I hate to think of where I would still be if I hadn’t started listening.

esd103 ,

So helpful!

WOW! I had no idea what to expect going into marriage. Growing up in the church I got a lot of wrong information. Hearing these Christian women openly discuss sex has helped my marriage become so much healthier. Growing up I heard sex is bad, dirty and sinful. Going into marriage with that view was very harmful. I wish I had found this podcast before marriage, but I didn't so now I am thankful I have it now to help me view sex in the way God designed it and to have healthy views and conversations about sex. Thank you Bonnie, Jay, Gaye, and Chris.

Chellamaid ,

Thank you!

I absolutely needed a podcast like this! Christian wives actually talking openly about sex?! So much education is needed in a “What does God say” way and not what “the world” says you should do. So thank you.

Top Podcasts In Religion & Spirituality

Ascension Catholic Faith Formation
D-Group
BibleProject
Sadie Robertson
Hank Smith & John Bytheway
Blaze Podcast Network

You Might Also Like

Belah Rose | Author, Podcaster, & Marital Intimacy Enthusiast
XO Podcast Network, Dave Willis, Ashley Willis
Dr Corey Allan
Tony & Alisa DiLorenzo
Dr. Juli Slattery and Authentic Intimacy®
Ryan and Selena Frederick