233 episodes

As a Certified Sex & Marriage Coach, and a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints, Amanda Louder helps conservative Christian women love their sex life!

In this podcast, Amanda helps women embrace their sexuality so that they can become the woman they were created to be. She teaches you how to integrate sexuality into your marriage in a loving and healthy way, get rid of the drama and negative emotions around sex in your marriage, and develop a better relationship to yourself, your spouse, and your sexuality.

Sex for Saints Amanda Louder

    • Health & Fitness
    • 4.8 • 306 Ratings

As a Certified Sex & Marriage Coach, and a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints, Amanda Louder helps conservative Christian women love their sex life!

In this podcast, Amanda helps women embrace their sexuality so that they can become the woman they were created to be. She teaches you how to integrate sexuality into your marriage in a loving and healthy way, get rid of the drama and negative emotions around sex in your marriage, and develop a better relationship to yourself, your spouse, and your sexuality.

    Bad Sex

    Bad Sex

    Stop settling for bad sex! I talk to a lot of women who just think bad sex is what sex is or that bad sex is better than no sex. This isn’t true. You can have a great sex life that is fun for both you and your partner. Listen to this podcast where we talk about what bad sex is and, more importantly, what good sex is. Never settle for bad sex again!

    • 16 min
    Sex Isn’t A Drive

    Sex Isn’t A Drive

    Have you heard the phrase “sex drive”? I’m sure we all have. But in truth, sex isn’t a drive, it’s a mindset. Why is this important? Because when we think that we need it, or should need it, it becomes a release rather than a way to get closer to our spouse. Listen to this episode to find out what a biological drive actually is, and why it is so important to know that if you don’t want sex, you aren’t broken.
    Sex is NOT a Drive Like Hunger, and Here are 2 Reasons This Fact Matters
    Come as You Are by Dr. Emily Nagoski
    Passionate Marriage by Dr. David Schnarch

    • 11 min
    Duty Sex

    Duty Sex

    What is duty sex? Duty sex is when we have sex with our husbands because we “should.” Because it is our duty as a good wife. Because he “needs” it. Because we don’t want him to look elsewhere for it. Or because we are trying to manage his emotions and behavior with it. We have been convinced that we don’t have to want it too. And this simply isn’t true! Duty sex is passionless and doesn’t create the connection that either of you want. So, how do we stop having duty sex? It isn’t an easy process but in this episode, I’ll share with you the two steps to take to fix it.

    • 18 min
    Female Ejaculation

    Female Ejaculation

    One of the topics I get the most DMs about is female ejaculation. Either women who do it all the time and want to stop or women wanting to know how to do it and everything in between. In this episode, we’re talking about female ejaculation, how it works, why we shouldn’t be afraid of it, and why it actually is pretty amazing. So, why not give it a try?
    She Comes First by Ian Kerner 
    Women’s Anatomy of Arousal by Sheri Winston
    Medical News Today
    Healthline

    • 19 min
    How can I be Righteous and Sexual?

    How can I be Righteous and Sexual?

    I think most of us want to be righteous. We want to do what is right. But where is that line when it comes to sex in our marriages? That’s what we’re talking about in this episode. Where is that line in the sand is? And which side do you fall on? The answer may surprise you. Have you been thinking you are unrighteous for too long? Listen in!

    • 12 min
    The Mental Load That Is Affecting Your Sex Life

    The Mental Load That Is Affecting Your Sex Life

    Do you feel mentally overwhelmed with everything you need to do to take care of your family? With all of the activities, and the doctor's appointments, and the school calendars, not to mention dinner, it gets overwhelming. The answer isn’t to “say no more” or “you’re doing too much.” But what is the answer? Listen to this episode as we talk about how to lighten your load so that you have time to have the wonderful sex life you deserve. 
    Fair Play Cards

    • 23 min

Customer Reviews

4.8 out of 5
306 Ratings

306 Ratings

Marybeary12 ,

Stepmom superhero

Amanda is incredible. I’ve been dealing with a lot of resentment and other negative feelings in my marriage and my role as stepmom to my 4 stepdaughters. Amanda has helped me really take a look at my thoughts and realize they are what cause my negative feelings. Simply focusing on gratitude has made a huge difference already. I only recently discovered this podcast, but I’ve already listened to all of the episodes and signed up to work with Amanda. Thank you for sharing your knowledge and experience to help others!

k wally ,

Don’t think, just listen!

There is such a need for this podcast in the Christian world. Amanda does such a wonderful job addressing common issues in intimacy. I can tell she puts a lot of time and effort into researching and coaching. Although I don’t struggle with everything she talks about, I have learned so much. She has a podcast for everything! I will forever listen to Amanda as long as she’s doing this podcast.

MontanaMama16 ,

So, so helpful

I love this podcast! I have learned SO much and appreciate Amanda’s candor in talking about things we sometimes blush about. Her ease with the topics make it so easy to listen and open up to. I have taken things I have learned and brought them to the bedroom. My husband thanks you too!! Amazing work you are doing. I am a fan.

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