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Sex and the City addressed “taboo” yet relatable topics for its time. But this time, Samantha Jones does the wondering. Let’s tackle all the questions you’re too embarrassed to ask your friends from sexual desire and the neuroses of being single to friendship and financial fails. Because growing up doesn’t bring more answers about how to survive your own life. And let’s be honest, Samantha was the BFF we really wanted.

and I wondered..‪.‬ Samantha Jones

    • Society & Culture
    • 5.0 • 26 Ratings

Sex and the City addressed “taboo” yet relatable topics for its time. But this time, Samantha Jones does the wondering. Let’s tackle all the questions you’re too embarrassed to ask your friends from sexual desire and the neuroses of being single to friendship and financial fails. Because growing up doesn’t bring more answers about how to survive your own life. And let’s be honest, Samantha was the BFF we really wanted.

    S4 E4: Is it the sex...or the communication?

    S4 E4: Is it the sex...or the communication?

    For Season 4 Episode 4, What's Sex Got to Do With It, I sat down with Lindsay Metselaar, the Host of We Met at Acme: We have a relationship without sex and sex without a relationship, which had a better shot at survival?
    Topics include
    Sex without emotions Taking a friend’s partner seriously Is less sex a bad sign in a relationship How SATC handled a topic versus the reboot Follow Lindsey and We Met at Acme 
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    • 25 min
    S4 E3: Sooo…what are we?

    S4 E3: Sooo…what are we?

    For Season 4 Episode 3 “Defining Moments” I spoke with Ilana Dunn, host of the podcast Seeing Other People, and un-SATC fan for ”Carrie’s question: “The more words we invent the harder it becomes to define things. In a world where you can date without sex screw without dating and in the end keep most of your sex partners as friends long after the screwing is over, what really defines a relationship?”
    Topics include: 
    Being friends with an ex (and the 100 nuances that come with it) Boundaries - how comfortable is too comfortable too soon DTR - DEFINING THE RELATIONSHIP (including lines you can steal to find out about your situationship) Follow Ilana and Seeing Other People at
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    • 56 min
    S4 E2: A Pep Talk From Your Boujee Best Friend

    S4 E2: A Pep Talk From Your Boujee Best Friend

    For Season 4 Episode 2 “The Real Me” I spoke with Kornelija Slunjski also known as Koko and Your Boujee Best Friend for Carrie’s question:
    “Why is it that we can see our friends perfectly but when it comes to ourselves no matter how hard we look do we ever see ourselves clearly?”
    Topics include: 
    Trying to be someone we’re not Lowering standards because no one can meet them How your self-awareness is impacting your confidence Understanding who to accept criticism from High maintenance versus narcissism versus confidence Why do we have trouble seeing ourselves Follow Koko
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    • 50 min
    S4 E1: Would you sell your soul to find your soulmate?

    S4 E1: Would you sell your soul to find your soulmate?

    Welcome back! We are kicking off Season 4 Episode 1, “The Agony and the ‘Ex’-tacy,” talking all things soulmates with one of my own soulmates, Bridesmaid for Hire Jen Glantz! Carrie’s question of the episode and all the topics we dive into:
     If you love someone and it didn’t work out, does that mean they weren’t your soulmate? And as you move from age box to box and the contestants get fewer and fewer, are your chances of finding your soulmate less and less? Soulmates, reality or torture device?
    Being in a relationship is the least interesting thing about you Why you shouldn’t feel bad for not doing what everyone else is doing WHY are you getting married? Soulmates - from lovers to friends and pets 30 & the decade of decisions Follow Jen Glantz!
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    • 38 min
    Season Break!

    Season Break!

    Hope you enjoyed Season 3! Stay tuned for Season 4 coming to you in 2022!

    • 9 sec
    Dating, WTF?!

    Dating, WTF?!

    For Season 3 Episode 18 “Cock-a-doodle-doo” I spoke with Lori Hardacker Author of Dating, What The F*ck?”Carrie’s question:
    “What if everything isn’t the man’s fault? After a certain age and a certain number of relationships and it still isn’t working and the exes seem to be moving on and we don’t, perhaps the problem isn’t the last boyfriend or the one before him or even the one before him, could it be that the problem isn’t them, is it us?”
    Topics include: 
    How men vs women process Setting expectations for what you need The role emotions play for men vs women Differences in communication styles How to make a decision Follow Lori and “Dating, What The F*ck?”: https://datingwhatthefuck.com/ 

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    • 41 min

Customer Reviews

5.0 out of 5
26 Ratings

26 Ratings

Alexander The Great X ,

A+

A+ on the tone of voice both in pitch and modern social romantic contexts.

KylieVermeer ,

LOVE!

Love the take on modern dating from a past TV show that was a favorite! I love how open, honest, and raw Samantha is!

SNYC29 ,

Interesting Take On SATC

Love to hear updated advice and commentary on the questions posed almost 20 years ago. My my how things have changed

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