Sexual Empowerment for Women

Tarisha Tourok

Welcome to the Sexually Empowered Radiant Women podcast, where women learn how to become radiant, confident and own the power & beauty of their sexuality no matter their size, shape, age or race. Your host is Tarisha Tourok. Join She Desires: Discover 5 Keys to Unlock Your Desire & Reclaim Your Pleasure masterclass at www.sexualempowermentforwomen.com. Free course Reclaim Your Sexual Confidence https://radiantwoman.xperiencify.io/tarishatourokbody/order/

  1. Why Most Women Feel Shut Down in the Bedroom (and How to Come Alive Again) with Lauren Rogers

    APR 19

    Why Most Women Feel Shut Down in the Bedroom (and How to Come Alive Again) with Lauren Rogers

    Send us Fan Mail Most of us grew up with sex ed that was clinical, fear-based, or missing entirely. No one taught us about pleasure, desire, communication, or how to actually feel alive in our bodies. So when women hit their 40s and notice they are shut down in the bedroom, they blame themselves, their hormones, or their relationship, when really they were never given the tools in the first place. In this episode I sit down with Lauren Elise Rogers, Certified Holistic Sexuality Educator and Embodied Intimacy & Relationship Coach, founder of Sex Ed For You. We talk about the sex education you never got, why so many women feel numb or disconnected from desire, and the practical pathways back to aliveness, pleasure, and confidence in your body. You will hear: Why low libido is rarely the real problemWhat holistic sexuality education actually looks likeHow shame and shutdown get wired in, and how to unwire themEmbodiment practices to reconnect with desireHow to talk to your partner about what you want without freezing upThis one is for every woman who has ever wondered why am I like this in the bedroom. You are not broken. You were never taught. About Lauren: Lauren Elise Rogers, CHSE, EIRC, is a Certified Holistic Sexuality Educator and Embodied Intimacy & Relationship Coach. She is the founder of Sex Ed For You, where she helps women and couples reclaim pleasure, deepen intimacy, and build the sex life they actually want. Connect with Lauren: sexedforyou.com/connect | Instagram @sex_ed_for_you Connect with Tarisha: sexualempowermentforwomen.com Your host: Tarisha Tourok is the founder of the Sexually Empowered Radiant Woman movement where women learn how to become radiant, confident and own the power and beauty of their sexuality no matter their size, shape, age or race. FREE MINI COURSE: Unlock Your Sexual Confidence - Learn 5 Practices to Heal Your Relationship with Your Body & Your Sexuality https://radiantwoman.xperiencify.io/tarishatourokbody/mini-course/ FREE WEBINAR: Women Over 40: Discover 5 Keys to Unlock Your Desire So You Enjoy Heart-Melting Intimacy This is perfect for women who are in a relationship and feel frustrated with their love life, are single and don't want to repeat past hurtful patterns where they lose themselves and their voice, and women who want to feel confident expressing their longings and desires Join Free Online where you'll learn 5 obstacles to your desire and 5 actionable strategies to activate your desire so you stop feeling frustrated with your love life https://www.sexualempowermentforwomen.com Visit our website at https://www.sexualempowermentforwomen.com to join the Sexually Empowered Radiant Woman movement.

    49 min
  2. Why Women Binge Drink: The Hidden Survival Pattern No One Talks About | with Colleen Clifford

    APR 15

    Why Women Binge Drink: The Hidden Survival Pattern No One Talks About | with Colleen Clifford

    Send us Fan Mail Have you ever used alcohol to numb the pain, to cope with life, to survive? You're not alone — and there's a way home. In this episode, I sit down with Colleen Clifford — author, coach, commercial fisherwoman, and motivational speaker — about the hidden survival patterns that keep so many women trapped in cycles of binge drinking. If you're sober curious, questioning your relationship with alcohol, or stuck in gray area drinking — this raw, honest conversation will meet you exactly where you are. Colleen's upcoming book, Life Beyond the Binge, offers hope for any woman ready to stop surviving and start living. In this episode: The hidden survival patterns that quietly run your lifeHow grief, loss, and unprocessed pain fuel binge drinking in womenWhy "mommy wine culture" and gray area drinking are so dangerousThe moment of reckoning — when you know something has to changeHow to find your way home to yourselfGuest links: 📖 Book: www.lifebeyondthebinge.com 🌐 Website: www.purepotential.health 📷 Instagram: @purepotential.health 💼 LinkedIn: Colleen Clifford Listen on your favorite platform: 🍎 Apple Podcasts 🎵 Spotify 🔥 Free Webinar — 5 Keys to Unlock Your Desire: www.shedesires.live Your host: Tarisha Tourok is the founder of the Sexually Empowered Radiant Woman movement where women learn how to become radiant, confident and own the power and beauty of their sexuality no matter their size, shape, age or race. FREE MINI COURSE: Unlock Your Sexual Confidence - Learn 5 Practices to Heal Your Relationship with Your Body & Your Sexuality https://radiantwoman.xperiencify.io/tarishatourokbody/mini-course/ FREE WEBINAR: Women Over 40: Discover 5 Keys to Unlock Your Desire So You Enjoy Heart-Melting Intimacy This is perfect for women who are in a relationship and feel frustrated with their love life, are single and don't want to repeat past hurtful patterns where they lose themselves and their voice, and women who want to feel confident expressing their longings and desires Join Free Online where you'll learn 5 obstacles to your desire and 5 actionable strategies to activate your desire so you stop feeling frustrated with your love life https://www.sexualempowermentforwomen.com Visit our website at https://www.sexualempowermentforwomen.com to join the Sexually Empowered Radiant Woman movement.

    25 min
  3. Libido & Menopause and How CBT Can Help to Feel in Control with Simona Stokes

    MAR 25

    Libido & Menopause and How CBT Can Help to Feel in Control with Simona Stokes

    Send us Fan Mail Is your sex life feeling like a "dried prune"? Do you feel like you "couldn’t care less" about intimacy, even if you still love your partner?  You are not alone. In this video, we dive deep into the biological and psychological shifts that cause low libido and changes in sexual desire during menopause. We explore why the "spark" often disappears and, more importantly, how you can reclaim your pleasure and connection. The Biology of Desire: How dwindling levels of estrogen and testosterone directly impact your libido and the "spark" for intimacy. Physical Barriers to Sex: Understanding why vaginal dryness and fragile tissue can make sex painful or uncomfortable, and how local estrogen or HRT can help. The "Sexless Marriage" Trap: How silence around menopausal symptoms leads to partners feeling rejected, unwanted, and detached, creating an emotional chasm in the relationship. Mindset & Shame: Breaking the myth that sex is "only for young people" and addressing the shame or past trauma (like childbirth or abuse) that can resurface during this transition Menopause doesn't have to mean the end of your sexual self. By combining biological support (like hormone therapy) with psychological tools (like CBT and self-compassion), you can move from "machine operator" or "people pleaser" to feeling at home in your body once more. About Our Expert: Simona Stokes is a Psychologist,  Cognitive Behavioural Therapist, Certified Lifestyle Medicine professional.  In 2020, Simona founded the Menopause CBT Clinic, an independent psychology service supporting women with the emotional and psychological shifts of perimenopause and menopause, and training health professionals in menopause-informed psychological care. https://www.menopausecbtclinic.co.uk/ Your host: Tarisha Tourok is the founder of the Sexually Empowered Radiant Woman movement where women learn how to become radiant, confident and own the power and beauty of their sexuality no matter their size, shape, age or race. FREE MINI COURSE: Unlock Your Sexual Confidence - Learn 5 Practices to Heal Your Relationship with Your Body & Your Sexuality https://radiantwoman.xperiencify.io/tarishatourokbody/mini-course/ FREE WEBINAR: Women Over 40: Discover 5 Keys to Unlock Your Desire So You Enjoy Heart-Melting Intimacy This is perfect for women who are in a relationship and feel frustrated with their love life, are single and don't want to repeat past hurtful patterns where they lose themselves and their voice, and women who want to feel confident expressing their longings and desires Join Free Online where you'll learn 5 obstacles to your desire and 5 actionable strategies to activate your desire so you stop feeling frustrated with your love life https://www.sexualempowermentforwomen.com Visit our website at https://www.sexualempowermentforwomen.com to join the Sexually Empowered Radiant Woman movement.

    44 min
  4. When Love Turns Into Roommates: Reconnecting Intimacy in Long-Term Relationships with Dr Jessica Higgins

    JAN 21

    When Love Turns Into Roommates: Reconnecting Intimacy in Long-Term Relationships with Dr Jessica Higgins

    Send us Fan Mail Couples often wait years before getting support, then wonder why it feels so hard. In this episode, I’m joined by Dr Jessica Higgins to talk about the patterns that quietly take over long-term love, and how to shift them before you become flatmates with a mortgage and a “fine” relationship. We explore what a conscious intimate relationship actually means, why therapy is not a sign you’re failing (it’s a sign you’re learning), and how sex and desire after 40 isn’t about “trying harder”, it’s about coming back into your body. In this episode: Why couples often seek help years after the pattern starts (and the “broken arm seven years ago” metaphor)The pursuer-withdrawer cycle and how it feeds disconnectionWhy having a skilled third person (therapy) helps your nervous system tolerate the hard stuffSex as connection, vitality, and aliveness (not another task on the list)Why emotional safety matters, but erotic energy also needs risk, honesty, and “more of you”The Wheel of Consent and getting clear on giving vs receivingLinks & Resources: Dr Jessica Higgins: https://drjessicahiggins.comEmpowered Relationships podcast: https://drjessicahiggins.com/podcasts/Betty Martin, Wheel of Consent: https://bettymartin.org Dr Jessica also shares her work with couples, including an intimate Couples Adventure Retreat in Banff, Canada (September 2026). Your host: Tarisha Tourok is the founder of the Sexually Empowered Radiant Woman movement where women learn how to become radiant, confident and own the power and beauty of their sexuality no matter their size, shape, age or race. FREE MINI COURSE: Unlock Your Sexual Confidence - Learn 5 Practices to Heal Your Relationship with Your Body & Your Sexuality https://radiantwoman.xperiencify.io/tarishatourokbody/mini-course/ FREE WEBINAR: Women Over 40: Discover 5 Keys to Unlock Your Desire So You Enjoy Heart-Melting Intimacy This is perfect for women who are in a relationship and feel frustrated with their love life, are single and don't want to repeat past hurtful patterns where they lose themselves and their voice, and women who want to feel confident expressing their longings and desires Join Free Online where you'll learn 5 obstacles to your desire and 5 actionable strategies to activate your desire so you stop feeling frustrated with your love life https://www.sexualempowermentforwomen.com Visit our website at https://www.sexualempowermentforwomen.com to join the Sexually Empowered Radiant Woman movement.

    40 min
  5. Beyond Hormones: A Whole-Person Approach to Menopause and Libido with Dr Ivana Matic-Stancin

    09/27/2025

    Beyond Hormones: A Whole-Person Approach to Menopause and Libido with Dr Ivana Matic-Stancin

    Send us Fan Mail In this episode of the Sexually Empowered Radiant Woman Podcast, host Tarisha Tourok welcomes Dr. Ivana Matic-Stancin, a Melbourne-based GP with over 25 years of experience in women’s health and holistic medicine. Together, they explore the journey through perimenopause and menopause, discussing the loss of libido, healthy aging, sexual empowerment, and the importance of reconnecting with yourself. Key topics: Perimenopause and menopause explainedLoss of libido and sexual desire in midlifeHolistic and lifestyle medicine for womenReconnecting with your body and selfThe role of relationships and emotional safetySexual empowerment and self-confidenceHealthy aging and vitality for womenIf you’re navigating perimenopause, menopause, or simply want to feel more empowered in your body and relationships, this episode is for you! Don’t forget to like, comment, and subscribe for more conversations on women’s health, sexuality, and empowerment. **** About Dr Ivana Matic-Stancin MD, Dip Obs &Gyne, FRACGP, FASLM, HCANZA Dr Ivana Matic-Stancin is a Melbourne-based medical doctor (GP) with over 25 years of clinical medical experience working with people of all ages, from various socio-economic, ethnic, and cultural backgrounds, and suffering from different medical conditions. Ivana offers three services: 1/ Clinical Medical comprehensive one-on-one 60-minute consultation in her GP Clinic in Braybrook, Victoria. (Contact Maxwell Medical Group for the appointment.) 2/ Mastering Menopause, a CBT (Cognitive Behaviour Therapy) program, is a six-week in-person course offered in a small group setting:  Contact Maxwell Medical Group for information and to book an appointment.  3/ Online services: Individual online, telehealth consultations  & Small Group CBT online group program (coming soon).   Ivana is a fluent speaker of English, Serbian, and Croatian. Your host: Tarisha Tourok is the founder of the Sexually Empowered Radiant Woman movement where women learn how to become radiant, confident and own the power and beauty of their sexuality no matter their size, shape, age or race. FREE MINI COURSE: Unlock Your Sexual Confidence - Learn 5 Practices to Heal Your Relationship with Your Body & Your Sexuality https://radiantwoman.xperiencify.io/tarishatourokbody/mini-course/ FREE WEBINAR: Women Over 40: Discover 5 Keys to Unlock Your Desire So You Enjoy Heart-Melting Intimacy This is perfect for women who are in a relationship and feel frustrated with their love life, are single and don't want to repeat past hurtful patterns where they lose themselves and their voice, and women who want to feel confident expressing their longings and desires Join Free Online where you'll learn 5 obstacles to your desire and 5 actionable strategies to activate your desire so you stop feeling frustrated with your love life https://www.sexualempowermentforwomen.com Visit our website at https://www.sexualempowermentforwomen.com to join the Sexually Empowered Radiant Woman movement.

    42 min
  6. 09/15/2025

    5 Steps to Melt Distance in Your Relationship Even After Years of Disconnection

    Send us Fan Mail In this episode I’m going to show you the 5 steps to go from roommates to lovers — so you can reignite passion, melt the distance, and feel cherished again. This is part 4 of the Melt the Distance in Your Relationship free training.  👉 Join here to watch full training: https://www.sexualempowermentforwomen.com/lovers/lovers-videos/ This is where everything we’ve been exploring comes together:  ✨ Why intimacy shifts after 40 (and why that’s actually good news)  ✨ The myths that have been keeping you shut down  ✨ How to release the intimacy wounds that block love  ✨ And finally… the roadmap to rekindling your spark You’ll leave this session with clarity, practical steps, and the confidence that yes — you can have a relationship that feels alive, passionate, and deeply connected. Your host: Tarisha Tourok is the founder of the Sexually Empowered Radiant Woman movement where women learn how to become radiant, confident and own the power and beauty of their sexuality no matter their size, shape, age or race. FREE MINI COURSE: Unlock Your Sexual Confidence - Learn 5 Practices to Heal Your Relationship with Your Body & Your Sexuality https://radiantwoman.xperiencify.io/tarishatourokbody/mini-course/ FREE WEBINAR: Women Over 40: Discover 5 Keys to Unlock Your Desire So You Enjoy Heart-Melting Intimacy This is perfect for women who are in a relationship and feel frustrated with their love life, are single and don't want to repeat past hurtful patterns where they lose themselves and their voice, and women who want to feel confident expressing their longings and desires Join Free Online where you'll learn 5 obstacles to your desire and 5 actionable strategies to activate your desire so you stop feeling frustrated with your love life https://www.sexualempowermentforwomen.com Visit our website at https://www.sexualempowermentforwomen.com to join the Sexually Empowered Radiant Woman movement.

    1 hr
  7. #49 Lying next to him but feeling lonely? How to get the spark back training 1

    09/08/2025

    #49 Lying next to him but feeling lonely? How to get the spark back training 1

    Send us Fan Mail https://www.sexualempowermentforwomen.com/lovers/ ** In this training you’ll discover:** Why midlife desire doesn’t vanish—it’s just shifting. The two systems of connection—emotional and sexual—and why they drift apart. How “fast-food sex” fails, and the healing power of slow‑cooked intimacy. A simple heart-softening, body‑coming‑home practice to awaken your inner radiance. ** Chapters (jump to the moment you need):** 00:00 – Why you feel so far apart 03:30 – Emotional vs sexual connection systems 08:20 – Why quick‑fix intimacy isn’t working 12:45 – Midlife desire: shifting, not shrinking 18:00 – Heart‑softening somatic practice 23:15 – What’s ahead: Training 2 on myths that kill intimacy ** This is for you if you’re:** Lying next to your partner feeling lonely Wondering, “Is this it? Is passion gone?” Ready to feel deeply connected again Longing to reclaim sensuality, pleasure, and joy neither age nor years can erase ** Let this be your portal—not to how things used to be, but into something richer and new.** Training 2 goes live soon on myths that kill intimacy and how to rewrite your story. ** Join the journey:** • Hit Subscribe to be notified when Training 2 drops • Drop a comment—what felt true for you in this training? • Visit *https://www.sexualempowermentforwomen.com/lovers/* to learn more & join the next live session to learn more & join the next live session Your host: Tarisha Tourok is the founder of the Sexually Empowered Radiant Woman movement where women learn how to become radiant, confident and own the power and beauty of their sexuality no matter their size, shape, age or race. FREE MINI COURSE: Unlock Your Sexual Confidence - Learn 5 Practices to Heal Your Relationship with Your Body & Your Sexuality https://radiantwoman.xperiencify.io/tarishatourokbody/mini-course/ FREE WEBINAR: Women Over 40: Discover 5 Keys to Unlock Your Desire So You Enjoy Heart-Melting Intimacy This is perfect for women who are in a relationship and feel frustrated with their love life, are single and don't want to repeat past hurtful patterns where they lose themselves and their voice, and women who want to feel confident expressing their longings and desires Join Free Online where you'll learn 5 obstacles to your desire and 5 actionable strategies to activate your desire so you stop feeling frustrated with your love life https://www.sexualempowermentforwomen.com Visit our website at https://www.sexualempowermentforwomen.com to join the Sexually Empowered Radiant Woman movement.

    41 min
  8. 08/26/2025

    #48 Brakes and Accelerators of Your Sexual Desire

    Send us Fan Mail If your desire feels unpredictable—or just flat—it might not be about your hormones or your partner. Register for the 5-Day Unlock Your Desire Challenge to access all sessions and replays: 👉 https://radiantwoman.xperiencify.io/desire-challenge-170050937812542/land/ It’s about understanding how your body regulates desire. In Day 2 of the Unlock Your Desire Challenge, we dive into the nervous system science behind female libido—what turns you on, and what shuts you down. You’ll learn: ✨ Why libido isn’t a switch—it’s more like driving with one foot on the gas and one on the brake ✨ The two types of brakes that affect your sexual energy (you’ll probably relate to both) ✨ Why willpower and “pushing through” never work when it comes to arousal ✨ The difference between accelerators (what helps you feel turned on) and brakes (what puts the brakes on desire) ✨ How to identify your unique turn-ons and turn-offs, so you can stop guessing ✨ Why so many women feel confused or frustrated when nothing seems to work—and how to change that We’ll also talk about: 💥 The myth of spontaneous desire 💥 How stress, trauma, resentment, and disconnection become hidden brakes 💥 Real examples of how brakes and accelerators show up in daily life (hint: it’s not just about the bedroom) This session is where many women have major aha moments. If you’re ready to understand how your body actually works when it comes to arousal and intimacy... this is for you. 🩷 Ready for the full experience? Register for the 5-Day Unlock Your Desire Challenge to access all sessions and replays: 👉 https://radiantwoman.xperiencify.io/desire-challenge-170050937812542/land/ Your host: Tarisha Tourok is the founder of the Sexually Empowered Radiant Woman movement where women learn how to become radiant, confident and own the power and beauty of their sexuality no matter their size, shape, age or race. FREE MINI COURSE: Unlock Your Sexual Confidence - Learn 5 Practices to Heal Your Relationship with Your Body & Your Sexuality https://radiantwoman.xperiencify.io/tarishatourokbody/mini-course/ FREE WEBINAR: Women Over 40: Discover 5 Keys to Unlock Your Desire So You Enjoy Heart-Melting Intimacy This is perfect for women who are in a relationship and feel frustrated with their love life, are single and don't want to repeat past hurtful patterns where they lose themselves and their voice, and women who want to feel confident expressing their longings and desires Join Free Online where you'll learn 5 obstacles to your desire and 5 actionable strategies to activate your desire so you stop feeling frustrated with your love life https://www.sexualempowermentforwomen.com Visit our website at https://www.sexualempowermentforwomen.com to join the Sexually Empowered Radiant Woman movement.

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Welcome to the Sexually Empowered Radiant Women podcast, where women learn how to become radiant, confident and own the power & beauty of their sexuality no matter their size, shape, age or race. Your host is Tarisha Tourok. Join She Desires: Discover 5 Keys to Unlock Your Desire & Reclaim Your Pleasure masterclass at www.sexualempowermentforwomen.com. Free course Reclaim Your Sexual Confidence https://radiantwoman.xperiencify.io/tarishatourokbody/order/