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Carla Wilmaris, an Afro-Latina free spirit in her 30's brings her friends each week to discuss and share their unfiltered opinions on various topics such as Mental Health, relationships, sex, pop culture, careers, current events, and much more. No Topic is Off Limits!

SH*T I'M 30! Podcast Carla Wilmaris

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Carla Wilmaris, an Afro-Latina free spirit in her 30's brings her friends each week to discuss and share their unfiltered opinions on various topics such as Mental Health, relationships, sex, pop culture, careers, current events, and much more. No Topic is Off Limits!

    EP 126: I’m In Love But Hoe Is Life Ft. Mandii B

    EP 126: I’m In Love But Hoe Is Life Ft. Mandii B

    In this week’s episode I am joined by one of my best friends and apparently the second mother of my new child  Mandii B. I am attempting to channel my inner Oprah, Iyanla, & Jada to make Mandii confess… she’s in love!
     
    We also discuss growth in all aspects of our lives from business to health and of course….relationships. We are two women who quit our full-time jobs to pursue a career that didn’t come with a blueprint! Since Mandii is the guest for this episode, you know you’re in for a treat.  We may or may not have discussed an 8 person orgy in a sex club during COVID! Guess you’ll have to tune in to find out!
     
    Don't forget to check out her new podcast titled "Period, Sis" on all podcast platforms. It's a podcast discussing the taboo topics of women's sexual and reproductive health!
     
    Connect with us on social media:
    @carlawilmaris
    @Shitim30Podcast
    @officialboxowner
    @whoreible_decisions
    @fullcourtpumps   
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    • 1 hr 24 min
    EP 125: The "So...What Are We?" Talk Ft. Need To Know Podcast

    EP 125: The "So...What Are We?" Talk Ft. Need To Know Podcast

    Why are we so afraid to have the "define the relationship" talk?
     
    Join me as I chat with Savon & Alex from Need To Know Podcast! We talk about being petty on the internet, dating as a millennial during COVID, and so much more! 
     
    Stick around until the end to hear Alex's super vulnerable & transparent confession about his father! 
     
     
    Connect with us on social media:
    @carlawilmaris
    @Shitim30Podcast
    @needtoknowpod
    @balltillwefall
    @savonslvter
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    • 1 hr 50 min
    Don't Miss Out! Annoucements!

    Don't Miss Out! Annoucements!

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    • 5 min
    EP 124: An Audio Adventure: Oldies But Goodies

    EP 124: An Audio Adventure: Oldies But Goodies

    This week, we take an audio adventure back to some older episodes. I used the word adventure intentionally! You won't want to miss this!
    EP 39: 35-Year-Old Virgin, & Recovering from Porn Addiction "Life After Freedom" ft Melodia Shekia:
    We dive into a conversation with Melodia Sheika about her book titled Life After Freedom. When I first read that title, I initially thought she was "free" from jail. However, I was surprised to discover she was referring to her freedom from her former porn addiction.
    EP 85: Foreplay Objects, Nude Rules, & Penny Flights feat Lex & Drea:
    In this clip you'll hear Lex P & Drea Nicole from Pour Minds Podcast talk about the craziest items they've used for foreplay. TRUST ME, YOU WON'T WANT TO MISS THIS! We also chat about the protocol while sending nudes. There are some hidden gems on ways to enhance and repurpose your nudes lol. 
    EP 92: Do You Have a Condom? feat WaxKyng & MandiiB:
    This is the episode when Wax & I finally decided to go public! Wow, time really flies. In this clip, I am joined by my bestie who loves to debate with me, Mandii B host of the Whoreible Decisions podcast and Wax from Bully and the Beast podcast. We give you all the play by play of how Wax finally professed his love for me! 
    EP 98: "The Other Woman" A Story of Growth and Forgiveness:
    Have you ever dated a married man?  At some point in your life you will either know someone who has or you will have experienced this BUT will you ever sit across from her and talk about how you felt during this time and what led to it? In this episode, I am joined by Vyky to tell our stories from 7 years ago when I was "The Other Woman". It takes one hell of an incredible woman to agree to come on this show and tell HER story which is one of Strength, Growth, & Purpose!
    EP 111: Therapy, Celibacy, & Healing feat Hey Fran Hey:
    This episode was a special one for me! Not only do I love Hey Fran Hey from The Friendzone Podcast, but I am also very intrigued by her discipline towards abstaining from sex for the past 4 years. Tune in to hear why she choose abstinence! (edited) 
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    Better Help: 
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    There is a special offer for SHIT IM 30 listeners, you'll get 10% off your first month at:
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    Patreon:
    If you become a patron, you'll also have access to additional content & access to our monthly virtual pajama party!
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    • 50 min
    EP 123: Adoption & Identity W/ Jeannine McKnight

    EP 123: Adoption & Identity W/ Jeannine McKnight

    I’m Mexican, I was adopted into a white family, & I have a great relationship with my biological mother. Now, that isn’t a sentence you hear often!
    In this week’s episode, I am joined by my dear friend Jeannine. We talk about her story as a Mexican-American woman raised in Florida that was adopted into a White family and her journey towards discovering her identity.
    Sh*t You Should Know:
    Tik Tok is possibly getting banned in the US and has already been banned in India. Kanye announces he is running in the 2020 election race Unsolicited Advice:
    Has Disney brainwashed us all? Tune in to hear our response to a girl that wrote in asking for relationship advice. You also won’t want to miss our advice for a mother considering adoption.
    Quote from the show: “Life is the best party I’ve ever been invited to!”
    Connect with us on social media:
    @carlawilmaris
    @shitim30podcast
    @wonderwoman_j
    Upcoming Episode Announcement:
    If you wanted to write in your question for the upcoming “unsolicited advice ONLY” episode w/ Wax Kyng and I, email your questions to shitim30podcast@gmail.com and title the subject “Unsolicited Advice”
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    • 1 hr 27 min
    EP 122: True Story: Wax Is Out On Bail

    EP 122: True Story: Wax Is Out On Bail

    Before we begin, I want to start by giving my condolences to Wax Kyng & his entire family for the loss of his father. 
     
    This week, Wax and I give you 2 hours of content with a live studio Patreon audience! We discuss the death of his father, me cooking in his mother's kitchen the very first time I go to her house, getting cussed out by his auntie, and the cherry on top to a shit week... Wax going to jail! 
     
    With the constant images and videos of police brutality flooding the internet you could only imagine my angst. Oh yeah, did I mention... WE WERE DRIVING THROUGH GLYNN COUNTY, GEORGIA! Does that city sound familiar? If it does, then you know it's the same city Ahmaud Marquez Arbery, an unarmed 25-year-old African-American man, was shot and killed.
     
    You're also going to want to stick around towards the second hour where I share an outrageous story from a zoom consultation! 
     
    Sh*t You Should Know:
    Georgia is giving teens drivers licenses without a formal driving test! 
    https://www.thedrive.com/news/33366/20000-georgia-teens-that-skipped-road-test-are-now-licensed-drivers
     
    Unsolicited Advice:
    This week we take live questions from our studio audience. Tune in to hear our relationship advice to an active caller. If you want to submit a question email your inquiry to Shitim30Podcast@gmail.com & title the email Unsolicited Advice. 
     
    Connect With Us:
    @CarlaWilmaris
    @Shitim30podcast
    @WaxKyng
    @BullyAndTheBeastPodcast
     
    YouTube:
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    Better Help: 
    I used the hell out of this resource this week! Shout out to my therapist! 
     
    Better Help wants you to start living a happier life TODAY. https://betterhelp.com/30 and join the over 500,000 people taking charge of their mental health with the help of an experienced professional.
    There is a special offer for SHIT IM 30 listeners, you'll get 10% off your first month at:
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    Patreon:
    Join July's Mixed Mind Book Club on Patreon! We have chosen to read Zane: Nervous! 
     
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    • 2 hr

Customer Reviews

4.7 out of 5
373 Ratings

373 Ratings

kk burk ,

Motivation

Carla your growth and your drive have taken you so many places. You will falter but you will learn. You will be tired but you will succeed. Keep opening yourself up and motivating others to “just be them” and take those leaps of faith. Thank you for sharing You on a weekly basis

JenW314 ,

Love it

I enjoyed this podcast! Great advice is offered. I especially loved the one with Charlamene the God.

The Mel Dream ,

Keep up the good work

Love it. ✊🏽🔥🎧

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