44 min

“Should It Be This Hard?” An Unconventional Q & A with Geoff and Alyssa Make it Mentionable with Alyssa Patmos

    • Self-Improvement

Geoff and I are coming to you from our couch this week with an unconventional Q & A. We identify a question that many people end up being plagued with and offer stories and solutions for figuring out how to answer it. Come behind closed doors with us as we shine a light on the uncomfortable, so it holds less power.
This week’s question is, “Should it be this hard?” Meaning, “Should a relationship be this hard?” 
We dive into the pain behind this question, the underlying frustrations that lead to it popping up, and offer a better question to ask yourself.
We also dive into: 
The illusion of chasing happiness and what we can choose to embrace insteadThe type of work that makes relationships work The facades we often put up to protect ourselves and how they eventually create conflictBetter questions to ask on dates, so you can know sooner if you want to commit or not We also ask and answer...
Is there such a thing as “the perfect relationship”?When is the time to leave and when is the time to stay?The show notes and transcript for the episode are available here: alyssapatmos.com/should-it-be-this-hard-an-unconventional-q-a-with-geoff-and-alyssa

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I’d love to hear from you and continue the conversation! Message me on instagram (@alyssapatmos).
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Geoff and I are coming to you from our couch this week with an unconventional Q & A. We identify a question that many people end up being plagued with and offer stories and solutions for figuring out how to answer it. Come behind closed doors with us as we shine a light on the uncomfortable, so it holds less power.
This week’s question is, “Should it be this hard?” Meaning, “Should a relationship be this hard?” 
We dive into the pain behind this question, the underlying frustrations that lead to it popping up, and offer a better question to ask yourself.
We also dive into: 
The illusion of chasing happiness and what we can choose to embrace insteadThe type of work that makes relationships work The facades we often put up to protect ourselves and how they eventually create conflictBetter questions to ask on dates, so you can know sooner if you want to commit or not We also ask and answer...
Is there such a thing as “the perfect relationship”?When is the time to leave and when is the time to stay?The show notes and transcript for the episode are available here: alyssapatmos.com/should-it-be-this-hard-an-unconventional-q-a-with-geoff-and-alyssa

EXTRA RESOURCES
Sign up for my free newsletter, The Peel, and get my tips for navigating whatever life dishes: https://alyssapatmos.com/thepeel


Join my free community, The Convey Collective, to master authentic communication: https://alyssapatmos.com/community


I’d love to hear from you and continue the conversation! Message me on instagram (@alyssapatmos).
Support the show

44 min