14 episodes

Ever feel like you gotta get your should together?​ ​Is your should about to hit the fan?​ ​Have you been sitting in your shoulds for most of your life wondering if you could be more, see more, do more?

​Podcast hosts, authors and speakers Candace Payne​ + ​Jenny Randle want to stomp out your flaming bag of should.

With a whole lot of faith​ ​together, ​we'll sort through the pain,​ ​purpose​ ​and promise​ ​to find freedom​ ​in the things we​ all​ tell ourselves we should
and should not do.​ Because there’s so much more in you.

​Listen on in and​ Shut the Should Up!

Shut the Should Up with Candace Payne + Jenny Randle Candace Payne + Jenny Randle

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Ever feel like you gotta get your should together?​ ​Is your should about to hit the fan?​ ​Have you been sitting in your shoulds for most of your life wondering if you could be more, see more, do more?

​Podcast hosts, authors and speakers Candace Payne​ + ​Jenny Randle want to stomp out your flaming bag of should.

With a whole lot of faith​ ​together, ​we'll sort through the pain,​ ​purpose​ ​and promise​ ​to find freedom​ ​in the things we​ all​ tell ourselves we should
and should not do.​ Because there’s so much more in you.

​Listen on in and​ Shut the Should Up!

    S1E13: You Should Celebrate

    S1E13: You Should Celebrate

    Lots of singing, celebrating and crying in the last episode of Shut the Should Up season one. Candace + Jenny discusses the importance of making celebration a discipline and how it makes a difference in our day to day lives.

    What are we shutting up?  Complaining and inaction
    If you found encouragement through listening to this episode and want to share, give us a call and you may be featured in season two. Call (315) 308-0163 to become a part of the show!

    Show Summary

    In Won’t He Do It?!, we celebrate Dad Zookeeper, who Candace wants to side hug and makes things awkward.
    You Should Buy It!, features our official Shut the Should Up merch and Party Pants. Party Pants were brainstormed in THIS episode and later hand drawn by Candace. It’s the perfect way to celebrate! Party Pants are basically the greatest invention ever created.
    In You Said What?!  We feature our listeners. From blowing up gingerbread houses to Herrkey the Turkey, they share the special ways they celebrate the holidays.
    In a new segment, Christmas For Days!,  we rapid-fire our Christmas list and ends with Candace bringing some holiday cheer.
    In We Said What?!, Candace shares how her family celebrates. Jenny shares a sweet birthday celebration with her son that left him feeling loved, and Candace ends up crying her face off as she processes through some holiday memories.
    During He Said What?!, Jenny shares from 1 Thessalonians 5:14-24 and teaches us that rejoicing is not only an expression of joy, it’s an action we get to choose. Candace shares about the Feast of Tabernacles and how it’s meaningful for us today.
    In Hey, Let’s Pray!, Candace prays we look to Jesus from the small to the big and honor all the moments worth celebrating. Jenny leaves us with a special word for a listener whose life is being transformed.


    Links Mentioned in the Show:

    Shut the Should Up T-Shirt http://bit.ly/shuttheshouldup-tshirt
    Shut the Should Up Hoodie http://bit.ly/shuttheshouldup-hoodie
    Shut the Should Up Party Pants http://bit.ly/shuttheshouldup-partypants



    Don't forget to give us all the stars + subscribe on apple podcasts.

    Interested in learning more about Candace Payne, her books and curriculum or have her SPEAK for your church or event? Visit https://candacepayne.me/

    Interested in learning more about Jenny Randle, her books or have her SPEAK for your church or event? Visit https://jennyrandle.com

    Until next season, shut the should up everybody!!

    • 44 min
    S1E12: You Should Be Grateful

    S1E12: You Should Be Grateful

    Candace + Jenny challenge us to be grateful in order to live healthier, less stressed, longer lives with deep and meaningful relationships. It’s all about GRATITUDE today and shutting up the entitlement attitude.

    What are we shutting up?  Our bad attitudes.
    If you found encouragement through listening to this episode and want to share, give us a call and you may be featured on an upcoming episode.

    Call (315) 308-0163 to become a part of the show!

    Show Summary

    Today is a BUZZWORD Episode...Get your happy pants on!
    In We Said What?!, Candace gives us several quotes about being grateful and has us all thinking deeper about what it means.
    *FREEBIE ALERT* Jenny gifts a free gratitude journal page that will help you live with intentionality. Plus you’ll get a 5x7 scripture printable to remind you daily. Download here > https://www.jennyrandle.com/gratitude
    In Won’t He Do It?!, we get all the puns from a listener and feel amazing about it.
    This time, in You Said What?!, a listener fact checks Candace + Jenny and opens up a conversation that leads us to dialogue about what we should do when others aren’t as grateful as we would like them to be.
    In You Should Buy It!, we detour from a suggestion from Candace and let a listener lead us in a fun suggestion of what we should be buying.
    In He Said What?!, Candace + Jenny lean into this verse: “Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.” Philippians 4:6-7 (NIV) to uncover how prayer can release peace from a heart of gratitude.
    In Hey, Let’s Pray!, Candace models for us a way to pray with gratitude even when there seems to be little to be grateful for while, correspondingly,  Jenny offers a way to reframe gratitude in our prayers.

    Links Mentioned in the Show:


    Free Gratitude Printables > https://www.jennyrandle.com/gratitude
    Simple Joys by Candace Payne > https://amzn.to/2QNkLko
    Courageous Creative by Jenny Randle > https://amzn.to/33dqhPR
    For full shownotes visit > https://www.shuttheshouldup.com/

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    Until next time, shut the should up everybody.

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    • 44 min
    S1E11: You Should Feel Something

    S1E11: You Should Feel Something

    Kasey Van Norman helps us shut up areas of emotional numbness.

    Candace + Jenny welcome author of NOTHING WASTED, Kasey Van Norman, to discuss why we should feel all the feels. Kasey is a momma, wife, author, speaker, teacher, lover of all things Texas and football.  She is relatable, fun, an enneagram 3, and full of Texas sass and spunk.  Counselor by trade and a pro at listening to feelings of others, she teaches us how to find the glory in the grit and leave nothing wasted.

    If you found encouragement through listening to this episode and want to share, give us a call and you may be featured on an upcoming episode. Call (315) 308-0163 to become a part of the show!

    Show Summary


    In Confetti Like Praise, Jenny + Kasey go head to head while Kasey unveils the mother of all things to be grateful for.
    Won’t He Do It?! has Candace loving a new commonality noticed by the reviews.
    In You Said What?!, a listener shares a moment she lived in emotional numbness after a moment of disconnect in her marriage from both her husband and children.
    Kasey drops truth bombs on the “why” and the “what” we are needing to pray when we cannot feel.
    In We Said What?!, Kasey will want to make all of us grab a pen and paper to take notes on how to uncover the “fullness of life”.  No joke.  Like seriously.  You’re gonna wanna do some major note-taking.
    In He Said What?!, Kasey walks us through the difference between knowledge and understanding and discusses how to see the whole of what our stories truly are.
    We all are challenged to see how God allows us to feel all the things in order to grow in our wisdom and understanding.
    In Hey, Let’s Pray!, Jenny leads the time with a heartfelt plea for the listeners to know the truth over lies and begin to feel where they have been otherwise numb.

    Links Mentioned in the Show:


    To connect with Kasey, order her book, Nothing Wasted, or its’ companion curriculum, visit kaseyvannorman.com
    Buy Nothing Wasted on Amazon > https://amzn.to/2XofrFr
    Find Kasey on Instagram + Facebook > @KaseyVanNorman


    Don't forget to give us all the stars + subscribe on your fav. podcast platform.

    Interested in learning more about Candace Payne, her books and curriculum or have her SPEAK for your church or event? Visit https://candacepayne.me/

    Interested in learning more about Jenny Randle, her books or have her SPEAK for your church or event? Visit https://jennyrandle.com

    You SHOULD get social:

    Follow Shut the Should Up on Instagram
    Be sure to use #ShutTheShouldUp across social to share your should.
    Visit https://www.shuttheshouldup.com/ for full shownotes.


    Until next time, shut the should up everybody.

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    • 56 min
    S1E10: You Should Be Self-Aware

    S1E10: You Should Be Self-Aware

    The enneagram, personality tests, spiritual gift assessments, and what the Bible has to say about it all is just a typical hang on your fav. should- show. In this episode of Shut The Should Up with Candace Payne  + Jenny Randle, they discuss why you SHOULD be self-aware.

    What are we shutting up?
    Inauthenticity.

    IN TODAY'S EPISODE:


    Candace + Jenny play Confetti Like Praise in the most self-aware way possible.
    Candace gives us all homework that is super funwork.
    We Said What?! has Candace + Jenny revealing their test results and their favorite self-assessment tests in a sea of multiple options.
    Jenny discusses how a moment of encouragement helped her overcome fears while Candace discusses how a discouraging comment paralyzed her from walking in authenticity.
    Jenny + Candace challenge us to know how to identify triggers and how that affects the ways we cope.
    Candace discusses how to be self-aware in order to mature interpersonally and relationally.
    Jenny encourages listeners to google their way through tests that offer self-awareness.  Some that Candace + Jenny mention on the show are the DISC test and the ENNEAGRAM.
    In You Said What?!, Candace + Jenny get their first prank call.
    In He Said What?!, Candace looks at what it means to go from glory to glory as found in 2 Corinthians 3:18.
    Jenny “Randle Rants” about taking self-aware concepts to the pulpit in churches under the guise of consumerism.
    Jenny + Candace address the reason God would want us self aware and how it benefits us, others, and His ultimate purposes.
    Candace speaks to a listener that is fearful of being self-aware.
    Jenny celebrates the should out of you.
    In Hey, Let’s Pray!, Jenny prays for the listeners that they would walk with boldness in understanding who they are and whose they are.


    LINKS MENTIONED IN THE SHOW:


    The Enneagram Made Easy: Discover the 9 Types of People >> https://amzn.to/2PXy81g
    DISC Assessment https://www.discprofile.com/what-is-disc/overview/
    Spiritual Gifts Assessment https://giftstest.com/


    Don't forget to give us all the stars + subscribe.

    Interested in learning more about Candace Payne, her books and curriculum or have her SPEAK for your church or event? Visit https://candacepayne.me/

    Interested in learning more about Jenny Randle, her books or have her SPEAK for your church or event? Visit https://jennyrandle.com

    You SHOULD get social:


    Follow Shut the Should Up on Instagram


    Be sure to use #ShutTheShouldUp across social to share your should.


    For full show notes visit www.shuttheshouldup.com


    Until next time, shut the should up everybody.

    • 47 min
    S1E09: You Should Talk to Lisa Bevere

    S1E09: You Should Talk to Lisa Bevere

    You Should Talk to Lisa Bevere... WHY?

    Lisa Bevere has spent nearly three decades empowering women of all ages to find their identity and purpose. She is a New York Times bestselling author and internationally known speaker. Her books, which include Adamant, Lioness Arising, Girls with Swords, and Without Rival, are in the hands of millions worldwide. Lisa and her husband, John, are the founders of Messenger International, an organization committed to developing uncompromising followers of Christ who transform their world. Messenger International has given away nearly 20 million resources in 106 Languages.



    What are we shutting up?
    Unhealthy responses to anger

    Show Summary

    In Won’t He Do It, Candace + Jenny nail down the proper name for the two hands raised emoji.
    In You Said What, a listener challenges us to think about how to prioritize guarding our hearts when faced with disappointment, regret, and a personal offense against us. Candace also does the charismatic hustle.
    In We Said What, Lisa shares with us how to navigate our anger in a healthy way from her personal experiences that were not navigated in a healthy way.
    In He Said What, Lisa teaches from Ephesians 4:26-27 (ESV), “In your anger, do not sin.  Do not let the sun go down while you are still angry and do not give the devil a foothold.”
    Lisa defines anger as momentary displeasure + encourages us to separate the person from the problem.
    Lisa defines 3 distinct stages of anger: anger, rage, wrath.
    Galatians 5:16-17 (ESV) “...Walk by the Spirit, and you will not gratify the desires of the flesh.  For the flesh desires what is contrary to the Spirit, and the Spirit what is contrary to each other so that you are not to do whatever you want.”
    James 1:19 (ESV) “...let every person be quick to hear, slow to speak, slow to anger…”
    In Hey Let’s Pray, Lisa prays for us to submit, release blame, and be led into a place of hope, truth, and forgiveness.

    Links Mentioned in the Show:


    For all of Lisa Bevere’s resources visit: http://bit.ly/MessengerInternationalStore
    Be Angry But Don't Blow It: https://store.messengerinternational.org/collections/books-by-lisa/products/be-angry-book


    Follow Lisa Bevere on her social media platforms.
    Send her a message letting her know the impact her words made on you from this episode.


    Instagram: @lisabevere
    Twitter: @LisaBevere
    Facebook: @lisabevere

    Don't forget to give us all the stars + subscribe on apple podcasts.

    You SHOULD get social:

    Follow Shut the Should Up on Instagram
    Be sure to use #ShutTheShouldUp across social to share your should.
    Visit http://shuttheshouldup.com/ for full shownotes.

    Until next time, shut the should up everybody.

    • 39 min
    S1E08: You Should Listen

    S1E08: You Should Listen

    Pastor Scott Wilson joins us as a special guest on Shut the Should Up with Candace Payne + Jenny Randle. Scott Wilson has been in full-time pastoral ministry for more than 25 years. He is the Senior Pastor of Oaks Church located in Red Oak, Texas—now ministering to 4000 people each week. He is a frequent conference speaker, and provides mentorship for hundreds of pastors and church leaders. Scott and his wife, Jenni, have three sons: Dillon, Hunter, and Dakota. The Wilsons live in the Dallas area.

    In this episode of Shut The Should Up, Candace, Jenny and Pastor Scott discuss three areas of life that we should be listening and leaning in with intentionality.

    If you took action after listening to this episode and want to share, give us a call and you may be featured on an upcoming episode.
    Call (315) 308-0163 to become a part of the show!

    What are we shutting up?
    Ourselves.
    Show Summary


    We spitball some fun listening facts.
    Pastor Scott tells us to shut the should up and we love it.
    We learn how to deliver difficult news
    A Special Game is a new segment where we play.... a special game. Full disclosure: Jenny felt it wasn’t very special, Pastor Scott saves the day and brings home a sweet victory.
    We learn how to pay attention to how we speak.
    In You Said What, we feature a caller who asks for advice on making the most of every moment. We learn practical advice to help us be attentive in the moment.
    High-five it’s Storytime discusses how important reflective listening is within our relationships and how we can listen to others better.
    In He Said What?! Pastor Scott teaches us the five different ways we can hear from God and how to actively listen.
    Pastor Scott gifts all our listeners his newest book P3.  Transform your ability to hear from God! Dive into this and apply it to your own life today.


    Links Mentioned in the Show:


    Get the P3 book today: https://www.p3book.org
    More info about Pastor Scott and Oaks Church http://oaks.church/scott-wilson-resources/
    Scott Wilson's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/scottwilson7/
    Scott Wilson's Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/scottwilsonleadership

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    Don't forget to give us all the stars + subscribe.

    Interested in learning more about Candace Payne, her books or have her speak for your church or event? https://candacepayne.me/

    Interested in learning more about Jenny Randle, her books or have her speak for your church or event? https://jennyrandle.com

    You SHOULD get social:


    Follow Shut the Should Up on Instagram
    Be sure to use #ShutTheShouldUp across social to share your should.
    Visit www.shuttheshouldup.com for full show notes.


    Until next time, shut the should up everybody.

    • 55 min

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