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The complete podcast of Sly Flourish, the Lazy Dungeon Master. Building the better D&D dungeon master.

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The complete podcast of Sly Flourish, the Lazy Dungeon Master. Building the better D&D dungeon master.

    Be on the Players' Side

    Be on the Players' Side

    Mike talks about the importance of being on the players' side when we run our D&D games.
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    Core principles
    - Working *with* the players, not against them.- You're not a competitor.- The DM is an antenna to another world. We're the vehicle for storytelling.- We're not the baddies. We're not our villains. We're not on the opposite side of the chess board.- We're *fans* of the characters (Thanks Dungeon World!)- The players understand about half of what's going on.- The characters understand far more than the players do.- The characters are smart and skilled in their roles. They have knowledge the characters do not.- Fun doesn't mean just upward beats, it means risk and reward, upward and downward beats. Hard situations and hard meaningful decisions.
    The DM's Job
    - Build the situation around the story, not around the characters.- Clarify that situation to the players. We're their eyes and ears.- Help them meet their intent.- Let the dice complicate things. They are the cold-hearted arbiter of the results of the situation.- Balance acting true to the situation with the fun of the game; leaning towards fun and away from things that are *not* fun.- The world and the story puts the characters in hard situations. The DM helps the characters make informed choices to navigate those situations.
    Examples
    - Warn them when they're walking into a potentially deadly situation.- Assume characters that aren't involved in investigating a trap aren't putting themselves at risk.- Let characters move that extra five feet if they can't quite get up to a monster.- Ask the characters to make a group stealth check even if they don't ask for it if it makes sense that they'd be sneaking.- Use characters passive scores to locate secret doors.- Ask "are you sure" when they're doing something that clearly won't work or is clearly dangerous.- Let players roll back spells cast if their character would know that it clearly wouldn't have worked. "A 1st level sleep spell won't be powerful enough to put them to sleep."- Ask for the players intent and help them reach it.- Offer deals: "You can make a DC 16 Intelligence (Arcana) check to channel energy from the unstable arcane node. On a success, enemies will have disadvantage on their saving throws against your spell. Fail and you'll take 2d10 force damage."- Remind the players about advantageous terrain.- Give players hints and clues about puzzles their characters would clearly understand.- Remind players of things their characters would likely remember.- Use skill checks and the characters' backgrounds go offer clues and tips.- In complicated situations, offer strategic recommendations the players may not recognize.- Remind players of impending dangers: "You have two rounds left before the orcish hoard falls upon you".- Remind the players about items their characters possess that they may have forgotten.- Offer suggestions for spell uses players might not remember or consider.- Give characters inspiration or advantage when they take risky moves that move the story forward.- Offer alternatives: "You can charge the first one and attack or you can ready your attack for the first one to charge up to you and stay close to your protecting paladin."- Clarify impossibilities: "Hard as you might try, this door is beyond your capability to break down.
    Work With Your Players
    - D&D is a cooperative game and we're part of that cooperative.- We have to know when to let bad things happen.- Build trust with the players. Don't violate it. Be on their side. Avoid "gotcha"s.- The world is cruel, you are not.

    • 18 min
    Frostmaiden Session 2: The Mead Must Flow - Lazy DM Prep

    Frostmaiden Session 2: The Mead Must Flow - Lazy DM Prep

    Mike prepares for his latest session of Icewind Dale, Rime of the Frostmaiden!
    Original Youtube Video
    Notion Frostmaiden Campaign Notebook
    Rime of the Frostmaiden One-Page Campaign Guide
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    • 51 min
    Running Great D&D Combat

    Running Great D&D Combat

    Mike discusses tips for running awesome D&D combat.
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    Podcast Contents
    00:00 Intro
    00:18 Run with four players.
    00:57 Run lower level games. Level 3 is the sweet spot.
    01:38 Use static monster damage.
    02:15 Run theater of the mind combat for small battles.
    03:02 Inject the story and fiction into large battles.
    04:49 Draw characters in off-turn with skill checks and info.
    05:36 Use abstract maps – break out of the grid.
    08:04 Ask for intent.
    09:13 Have alternative goals - Add a Combat Out.
    11:04 Don't say "Let's Call it Right Here".
    11:53 Adjusting the dials (HP, Damage, Number of Monsters, Number of Attacks).
    13:11 Offer Cinematic Advantage
    15:10 Randomly select targets
    16:06 Make boss fights interesting
    Relevant articles
    Guide to Theater of the Mind Combat
    The Abstract Battlemap
    Replacing Flanking with Cinematic Advantage
    Collected Experiences Running Boss Fights
     

    • 17 min
    DM Deep Dive: Fairness vs. Being Fans of the Characters with Ryan Servis

    DM Deep Dive: Fairness vs. Being Fans of the Characters with Ryan Servis

    Mike talks with Ryan Servis of 2C Gaming about the role of the DM and debating objectivity versus a bias towards the characters in our D&D games.
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    • 1 hr 7 min
    Frostmaiden Session 1: Foaming Mugs - Lazy DM Prep

    Frostmaiden Session 1: Foaming Mugs - Lazy DM Prep

    Mike prepares for his latest session of Icewind Dale, Rime of the Frostmaiden!
    Original Youtube Video
    Notion Frostmaiden Campaign Notebook
    Rime of the Frostmaiden One-Page Campaign Guide
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    • 57 min
    Rime of the Frostmaiden Session Zero - Lazy DM Prep

    Rime of the Frostmaiden Session Zero - Lazy DM Prep

    This week Mike prepares for his session zero of Icewind Dale, Rime of the Frostmaiden!
    Original Youtube Video
    Notion Frostmaiden Campaign Notebook
    Rime of the Frostmaiden One-Page Campaign Guide
    Support Sly Flourish on Patreon
     

    • 55 min

Customer Reviews

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99 Ratings

99 Ratings

the Shepster ,

My Favorite D

I’m a DM and find Mike’s prep and discussion to be entertaining and educational. Nice to hear how his campaign is going, and what he is doing to prepare for the upcoming one. Great tips and tricks. Always looking forward to when a new episode drops.

Krizzter ,

Awesome

A vital resource and a must listen.

Bill Byrne ,

So Good,You Will....

So good, that you will feel "guilty" about not joining his Pateron page, but then you realize, he has these great books. That are totally worth buying, and that helps with my guilt. Any podcast, that Mike Shea, is on is worth you time. I just like how he GMs and how he games and thinks.

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