235 episodes

Helping high achieving Christian men have more intimate marriages. Start with episodes 1-4 for an introduction. Traditional marriage counseling, couples therapy, couples counseling and even Christian marriage counseling will tell you that a good marriage is based on compromise. Validating feelings. Sacrifice. I tried that for years. Unfortunately, it doesn’t work. That’s why most couples who go through marriage counseling are the same or worse off after. BUT, in my studies in neuroscience at BYU, MD training at UCLA, psychiatry residency, marriage coach training, and most importantly in my own marriage, I finally found what DOES work. Building strength. Spiritual, mental, emotional and sexual strength, while anchored in following Christian marriage principles. Strength is attractive. And, it feels great. It builds trust. Add to this the skills of communication and intimacy, and you get a marriage full of phenomenal mental, emotional and physical intimacy. And, you set the example for generations to follow. I applied this to my own marriage, I felt better than ever and had more connection and passion than I thought possible. I started teaching this to other men and couples and they were able to create mental, emotional and sexual intimacy faster than they thought possible. This even works for affair recovery and emotional affairs. Now it’s your turn. Become a strong, attractive man. Create a strong, passionate marriage.

Strong Men Strong Marriages Mike Frazier, MD

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    • 4.6 • 114 Ratings

Helping high achieving Christian men have more intimate marriages. Start with episodes 1-4 for an introduction. Traditional marriage counseling, couples therapy, couples counseling and even Christian marriage counseling will tell you that a good marriage is based on compromise. Validating feelings. Sacrifice. I tried that for years. Unfortunately, it doesn’t work. That’s why most couples who go through marriage counseling are the same or worse off after. BUT, in my studies in neuroscience at BYU, MD training at UCLA, psychiatry residency, marriage coach training, and most importantly in my own marriage, I finally found what DOES work. Building strength. Spiritual, mental, emotional and sexual strength, while anchored in following Christian marriage principles. Strength is attractive. And, it feels great. It builds trust. Add to this the skills of communication and intimacy, and you get a marriage full of phenomenal mental, emotional and physical intimacy. And, you set the example for generations to follow. I applied this to my own marriage, I felt better than ever and had more connection and passion than I thought possible. I started teaching this to other men and couples and they were able to create mental, emotional and sexual intimacy faster than they thought possible. This even works for affair recovery and emotional affairs. Now it’s your turn. Become a strong, attractive man. Create a strong, passionate marriage.

    3 Tips To Rebuild Trust In Marriage

    3 Tips To Rebuild Trust In Marriage

    Tip 1 - List Your Commitments


    List out what you’ve promised to do for yourself, your wife, your kids, your community, your church, your work and any other commitments.


    Tip 2 - Drop Most Of Them


    Drop most of these commitments. Let people know you won’t be keeping them, and apologize to yourself and others for not keeping them.


    Tip 3 - Choose 1-3 And Follow Through. Say “No” To Everything Else.


    Choose the 1 to 3 most important commitments you will keep, and follow through on those.


    Then say no to everything else. Your “yes” then becomes more valuable and more trustworthy.


    This will build your self-confidence (self-trust)...


    Help you be trustworthy…


    And allow others to trust you (believe that you will do what you say you’ll do).


    Listen on the Strong Men Strong Marriages Podcast. 


    Watch on YouTube here.  


    Dr. Mike


    P.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional  intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…


    CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program.


    You’ll fill out an application, then we'll get back to you with your best next steps. We’d love to guide you to becoming the man your wife passionately desires, respects and loves… while living true to Christian principles.

    • 4 min
    When Your Wife Never Apologizes

    When Your Wife Never Apologizes

    I often hear from the men I work with that their wife never apologizes… while he apologizes all the time.


    Learn why this happens…


    And what to do about it…


    In today’s episode.


    Listen on the Strong Men Strong Marriages Podcast. 


    Watch on YouTube here.
     
    Dr. Mike


    P.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional  intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…


    CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program.


    You’ll fill out an application, then we'll get back to you with your best next steps. We’d love to guide you to becoming the man your wife passionately desires, respects and loves… while living true to Christian principles.

    • 16 min
    3 Empowerment Tips For Marriage

    3 Empowerment Tips For Marriage

    Tip 1 - Stop trying to control what you can’t control. 


    Like what your wife does or how she feels. The fastest way to feel disempowered is to try to control something that is impossible to control.


    Tip 2 - Ask for what you want


    You will feel more empowered when you start getting what you want. But you can’t get what you want if you don’t ask for it.


    Tip 3 - Start saying “no”


    If you are always saying “yes,” it’s easy to feel controlled by others. As soon as you start saying “no,” you WILL feel more empowered.

    Watch on YouTube here. 
     
    Happy Thanksgiving!


    Dr. Mike


    P.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional  intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…


    CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program.


    You’ll fill out an application, then we'll get back to you with your best next steps. We’d love to guide you to becoming the man your wife passionately desires, respects and loves… while living true to Christian principles.

    • 3 min
    The Emasculated Vs The Empowered Husband

    The Emasculated Vs The Empowered Husband

    Many men will tell me that they feel emasculated in their marriage.
    One literal definition of this is to have your testicles removed.


    While this (hopefully) is not the reality, these men FEEL one main thing…


    POWERLESS.


    Whether it’s with money, sex, in-laws, parenting, religion, housework or time…


    These men feel like they are constantly losing while their wife is winning.


    They say they try to lead… but their wife just won’t let them.


    And they can’t seem to do anything about it.


    Fortunately, there’s a way out of this.


    Learn how to step OUT of powerlessness…


    And into EMPOWERMENT…


    In today’s episode.


    Watch on YouTube here. 


    Dr. Mike


    P.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional  intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…


    CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program.


    You’ll fill out an application, then we'll get back to you with your best next steps. We’d love to guide you to becoming the man your wife passionately desires, respects and loves… while living true to Christian principles.

    • 16 min
    3 Ways To Get Your Wife’s Respect

    3 Ways To Get Your Wife’s Respect

    Men try to get their wife’s respect in 3 ways.
    Only 1 of them works.


    Learn what it is in today’s short episode.

    Dr. Mike


    P.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional  intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…


    CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program.


    You’ll fill out an application, then we'll get back to you with your best next steps. We’d love to guide you to becoming the man your wife passionately desires, respects and loves… while living true to Christian principles.

    • 3 min
    Real Strength Vs Fake Strength In Marriage

    Real Strength Vs Fake Strength In Marriage

    If you’ve looked at dating advice to try to help your marriage, you’ve probably found some advice about being a “tough guy.”


    This is what I call fake strength.


    It CAN work to create a girlfriend/wife who is dependent on you and your approval…


    But it CAN NOT work if you want a truly intimate marriage…


    The kind that lives true to Christian values and shows your daughters the type of husband they want one day.


    Learn the difference between fake and real strength… and how to develop real strength…


    In today’s episode.

    Watch on YouTube here. 


    Dr. Mike


    P.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional  intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…


    CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program.

    You’ll fill out an application, then we'll get back to you with your best next steps. We’d love to guide you to becoming the man your wife passionately desires, respects and loves… while living true to Christian principles.

    • 16 min

Customer Reviews

4.6 out of 5
114 Ratings

114 Ratings

Hudson1334 ,

Thank you for sharing. Real men lead.

5 stars

AaronB89 ,

Excellent Podcast

This podcast delivers. It uniquely provides helpful tips based on principles that just work. I highly recommend it to anyone who wants to build up their marraige and or family.

LHR20736 ,

Dr Frazier is Very Encouraging

Thank you

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