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Get strong. Get attractive. Get a strong, joyful and intimate marriage. Traditional marriage counseling, couples therapy or couples counseling will tell you that a good marriage is based on compromise. Validating feelings. Sacrifice. I tried that for years. Unfortunately, it doesn’t work. That’s why most couples who go through marriage counseling are the same or worse off after. BUT, in my studies in neuroscience at BYU, MD training at UCLA, psychiatry residency, marriage coach training, and most importantly in my own marriage, I finally found what DOES work. Building strength. Spiritual, mental, emotional and sexual strength. Strong is sexy. And, it feels great. As I applied this to my own marriage, I felt better than ever and had more connection and passion than I thought possible. I started teaching this to other men and couples and they were able to transform their marriages as well. This even works for affair recovery and emotional affairs. Now it’s your turn. Get strong. Get attractive. Get the marriage of your dreams.

Strong Men Strong Marriages Mike Frazier, MD

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Get strong. Get attractive. Get a strong, joyful and intimate marriage. Traditional marriage counseling, couples therapy or couples counseling will tell you that a good marriage is based on compromise. Validating feelings. Sacrifice. I tried that for years. Unfortunately, it doesn’t work. That’s why most couples who go through marriage counseling are the same or worse off after. BUT, in my studies in neuroscience at BYU, MD training at UCLA, psychiatry residency, marriage coach training, and most importantly in my own marriage, I finally found what DOES work. Building strength. Spiritual, mental, emotional and sexual strength. Strong is sexy. And, it feels great. As I applied this to my own marriage, I felt better than ever and had more connection and passion than I thought possible. I started teaching this to other men and couples and they were able to transform their marriages as well. This even works for affair recovery and emotional affairs. Now it’s your turn. Get strong. Get attractive. Get the marriage of your dreams.

    3 Steps To Become Permanently Irresistible To Your Wife

    3 Steps To Become Permanently Irresistible To Your Wife

    Most men ask me “What should I do?”


    What should I do so my wife has sex with me more?


    What should I do to win my wife’s trust back after infidelity?


    What should I do to end my separation and win my wife back?


    Unfortunately, this is the wrong question. 


    You see, it’s not really what you DO that matters.


    You can DO the right things, like buy your wife flowers.


    But, if you’re feeling anxious and needy…


    And have the intention of getting her to have sex with you when you give them to her…


    Your wife will NOT be attracted to you.


    It takes 3 steps to genuinely change into a man who is permanently irresistible to his wife:


    Step 1 - Identify and eliminate all negative, unattractive patterns of thinking, feeling and acting


    Step 2 - Replace them with positive, attractive patterns of thinking, feeling and acting


    Step 3 - Repeat those new patterns of thinking, feeling and acting until you can’t get them wrong


    This simple process rewires your brain on a permanent level, so you go from unattractive to your wife…


    To irresistible. Permanently.


    Learn more about these steps in today’s episode.


    Watch on YouTube here.


    Dr. Mike


    P.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create a marriage full of love, laughter and passion by rewiring his brain to become permanently attractive to his wife…


    CLICK HERE to apply to join my Love, Intimacy And Legacy program.


    You’ll schedule a call and fill out an application that we’ll review on the call.


    I look forward to speaking with you!

    • 28 min
    The Tender Defender - The Most Attractive Trait To Your Wife

    The Tender Defender - The Most Attractive Trait To Your Wife

    According to famous marriage researcher John Gottman, what’s the #1 thing that women want from a man?


    Trustworthiness.


    And what do women want to trust you to do?


    To protect them. Physically and emotionally.


    They want to know that you will keep them safe.


    The main complaints women have about men are:


    “He’s never there for me” and “there’s not enough intimacy and connection.”


    These complaints both speak to the idea that their man is not physically protecting them by being present and he’s not emotionally protecting them by genuinely listening and valuing her.


    Learn how to be the “tender defender” that keeps her body and her heart protected…


    So she can feel safe with you and be extremely attracted to you…


    In today’s episode.


    Listen on Strong Men Strong Marriages here. 


    Watch on YouTube here.


    Dr. Mike


    P.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create a marriage full of love, laughter an passion by building up his spiritual, mental, emotional, physical and sexual strength…


    CLICK HERE to apply to join my Love, Intimacy And Legacy program.


    You’ll schedule a call and fill out an application that we’ll review on the call.


    I look forward to speaking with you!

    • 25 min
    Emotional Affair - How To Recover If My Wife Had One

    Emotional Affair - How To Recover If My Wife Had One

    Last week we talked about how to recover if you had an emotional affair.


    This week we’re talking about what to do if your wife had an emotional affair.


    This is a very difficult time for you. You feel betrayed, angry, and depressed.


    You’re not sure if you should try to stay, try to win her back, or leave her.


    You don’t know what you should do about this other guy.


    You can feel frozen as far as what to do.


    In this episode you’ll discover:


    -How to process the emotions that you’re feeling effectively
    -How to take a look at what you can improve in your marriage
    -How to talk to your wife about the affair
    -How to bring back trust, communication and intimacy
    -How to decide what to do about your wife’s affair (stay, leave, or in between)


    We'll cover emotional affair definition, emotional affair signs, emotional affair stages and emotional affair recovery.


    Listen on Strong Men Strong Marriages here. 


    Watch on YouTube here. 


    Dr. Mike


    P.S. If you’re a high achieving Christian man who is looking to rebuild his marriage after an emotional affair…


    CLICK HERE to apply to join my Love, Intimacy And Legacy program.


    https://mikefraziermd.com/love-connection-and-intimacy-program/


    You’ll schedule a call and fill out an application that we’ll review on the call to see if you’re a good fit for the program. 


    You can get through this. I look forward to speaking with you.

    • 27 min
    Emotional Affair - How To Recover If I Had One

    Emotional Affair - How To Recover If I Had One

    An emotional affair does major damage to a marriage. 


    Your wife feels angry, depressed and betrayed.


    You feel guilty, but are not sure what to do to fix it.


    You’ve broken off the relationship, but your wife still brings it up often.


    Fortunately, there are steps you can take to recover after an emotional affair.


    You need to:
    -Identify and change the reasons why you had the emotional affair
    -Rebuild trust
    -Improve communication
    -Restore intimacy


    Learn how to take positive steps forward after you had an emotional affair in today’s episode.


    We'll cover emotional affair definition, emotional affair signs, emotional affair stages and emotional affair recovery.


    In next week’s episode we’ll be talking about what to do if your wife had an emotional affair.


    You’ll want to listen to that one as well because it will help you understand her perspective much better.


    Listen on Strong Men Strong Marriages here. 


    Watch on YouTube here.


    Dr. Mike


    P.S. If you’re a high achieving Christian man who is looking to rebuild his marriage after an emotional affair…


    CLICK HERE to apply to join my Love, Intimacy And Legacy program.


    You’ll schedule a call and fill out an application that we’ll review on the call to see if you’re a good fit for the program. 

    • 21 min
    Justin And Nikki - Client Success Story

    Justin And Nikki - Client Success Story

    Justin felt like he needed to change or he was going to lose all connection with his wife and end up as roommates.


    Nikki felt like she “didn’t need Justin” and “couldn’t count on him to do anything.”


    Their relationship felt co-dependent and strained, and their physical connection was not where either one wanted it to be.


    Justin decided to join the program (without telling Nikki at first).


    Nikki was surprised by how fast and how extensive Justin’s changes were.


    Justin feels more confident, honest, and closer to God than ever.


    Nikki feels she can trust Justin and feels more loved, admired and valued by Justin than she ever has before.


    Their physical connection is “exponentially better” according to Nikki.


    Tune in to hear their story today. I recommend watching the video to see how loving their interaction is.


    Watch on YouTube here.


    Dr. Mike


    P.S. If you want yours to be the next success story… 


    CLICK HERE to apply to join my Love, Intimacy And Legacy program.


    You’ll schedule a call and fill out an application that we’ll review on the call to see if you’re a good fit for the program. 


    I look forward to speaking with you!

    • 42 min
    How To Rebuild Trust After Infidelity

    How To Rebuild Trust After Infidelity

    Infidelity breaks the main foundation of a great marriage: trust.


    So, how do you rebuild trust after infidelity?


    Some men think that it’s by apologizing, moving forward, and having her decide to trust you again.


    But it’s actually the opposite.


    You need to really dig into her pain for as long as it takes.


    You need to understand it completely before you can move forward.


    And you have to understand that she can’t trust you. It’s not something she can give. It’s something that you have to build.


    Learn more in today’s episode.


    You absolutely can rebuild trust after infidelity.


    But you have to avoid the common mistakes and take the right steps to do it.


    Watch on YouTube here.


    Dr. Mike


    P.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who wants more mental, emotional and sexual intimacy with his wife (even after infidelity)...


    CLICK HERE to apply to join my Love, Intimacy And Legacy program.


    You’ll schedule a call and fill out an application that we’ll review on the call to see if you’re a good fit for the program. 


    I look forward to speaking with you!

    • 27 min

Customer Reviews

4.6 out of 5
60 Ratings

60 Ratings

jonny759 ,

Great podcast

This is a great podcast. It helps you to become the greatest version of yourself. Dr. Mikes methods are very useful so sign up to get great results!

Koerper ,

Covid episode

Hope you get better Mike! I like your reference to the Joe Rogan podcast. Millions of false positives! Who knows what you have but I hope you feel better soon!

jlozoya ,

Strength! Fuerza! 力! Kraft! 力量

I can only say Strength in many ways but this podcast is the real deal.bit helped me to recognize the many ways of where I have had both bad behavior, bad actions, and overall a bad perspective. Check it out and learn to undo years of incorrectly acting, thinking, and behaving.

Thx Dr. Mike Frazier !! Keeping doing the good work.

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