Talk Sex with Annette

Talk Sex with Annette
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Talk Sex with Annette Where desire meets disruption—and pleasure becomes power. Hosted by sex and intimacy coach Annette Benedetti, Talk Sex with Annette is the go-to podcast for bold, unfiltered conversations at the intersection of sexuality, identity, and empowerment. From kink to connection, self-love to sexual healing, Annette dives into the topics most people are too afraid to touch—with expert guests, raw storytelling, and a feminist lens that challenges shame and reclaims pleasure. Think smart, sexy, and radically real: this is the cultural conversation around sex that’s long overdue. 

  1. Why the Epstein Files Can Shut Down Desire & How to Protect It

    5D AGO

    Why the Epstein Files Can Shut Down Desire & How to Protect It

    Send us a text With the Epstein files back in the headlines, many people are noticing a shift in desire and connection. This unscheduled drop explores how collective stories of abuse and betrayal impact the nervous system — and why libido is often the first thing to go quiet when safety feels uncertain. In this episode, we talk about: Why desire can shut down during moments of collective traumaHow the nervous system responds to perceived threatRecognizing triggers as they happen in the bodyHow to protect your relationship with pleasure without forcing itWhy intimacy doesn’t belong to abusers — it belongs to us👉 Join me for 365 Days of Orgasms Journey Here: https://talksexwithannette.com/365-days-of-orgasms/ 🎧 Listen to more episodes of Talk Sex with Annette: https://www.youtube.com/@talksexwithannette 🔞 Want demos, how-tos & guided self-pleasure meditations? Join me on OnlyFans →https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/ Subscribe to my e-newsletter: https://she-explores-life.kit.com/e9760c390c  The viral lemon-shaped toy everyone’s talking about — get 25% off with code ANNETTE25 at https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/hello-nancy-lem 🍋  15% Off Eyeoflove.com with Code LRT15 Support the show Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@annettebenedetti Connect with us We are on all the socials: TikTok: @TalkSexwithAnnette Annette's Insta: @Annette Benedetti My OF: @talksexwithannette FB: @TalksexwithAnnette Website: https://talksexwithannette.com Cheers!

    9 min
  2. The Truth About Sex With Smaller Penises – Part 2! 3 Women Weigh In

    FEB 2

    The Truth About Sex With Smaller Penises – Part 2! 3 Women Weigh In

    Send us a text  Two years ago, this topic became one of my most-listened-to episodes—so we’re bringing it back. In Part 2, I’m joined by two sex-positive women from different age groups to answer the questions men keep asking and go deeper than before. We cover: What women actually think about penis sizeWhy confidence matters more than lengthHow oral, grinding, toys, and anal play often matter more than penetrationCommon mistakes that quietly kill desireReal, practical tips for having great sex regardless of sizeWe also kick things off with a clear, medically accurate guide to measuring penis length and girth, because many men think they’re “small” when they’re not. Honest. Sex-positive. No shame—just real talk. Here is your link to episode part  1: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1692988/episodes/14322290 👉 Join me for 365 Days of Orgasms Journey Here: https://talksexwithannette.com/365-days-of-orgasms/ 🎧 Listen to more episodes of Talk Sex with Annette: https://www.youtube.com/@talksexwithannette 🔞 Want demos, how-tos & guided self-pleasure meditations? Join me on OnlyFans →https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/ Subscribe to my e-newsletter: https://she-explores-life.kit.com/e9760c390c  The viral lemon-shaped toy everyone’s talking about — get 25% off with code ANNETTE25 at https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/hello-nancy-lem 🍋  Use code EXPLORES15 for 15% off lovehoney.com Head to Only Fans or https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/ to join. 15% Off With my Code Annette15 at myfirmtech.com/annettebenedetti 15% Off Eyeoflove.com with Code LRT15 Support the show Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@annettebenedetti Connect with us We are on all the socials: TikTok: @TalkSexwithAnnette Annette's Insta: @Annette Benedetti My OF: @talksexwithannette FB: @TalksexwithAnnette Website: https://talksexwithannette.com Cheers!

    1h 4m
  3. Why Women Stop Wanting Sex (& Why It’s Not Your Fault)

    JAN 28

    Why Women Stop Wanting Sex (& Why It’s Not Your Fault)

    Send us a text Why do so many women lose interest in sex—and why is the blame so often placed on them? In this episode of Talk Sex with Annette, Annette is joined by Dr. Trina Read to unpack what women are really saying when they say, “I just don’t want sex anymore.” We talk about: Why low desire is often a reasonable response, not a personal failureHow pressure, routine, and male-centric sex shut down arousalWhat’s happening in the body and mind during long-term relationshipsWhy orgasms alone don’t guarantee satisfying sexSmall, practical shifts that help women reconnect with desireThis episode is for: Women questioning their libidoPartners who want to understand what’s beneath the surfaceAnyone tired of being told to “fix hormones” instead of fixing the experienceBy the end of this conversation, you’ll have a clearer, shame-free framework for understanding women’s desire—and how to start changing it. 👉 Join me for 365 Days of Orgasms Journey Here: https://talksexwithannette.com/365-days-of-orgasms/ 🎧 Listen to more episodes of Talk Sex with Annette: https://www.youtube.com/@talksexwithannette 🔞 Want demos, how-tos & guided self-pleasure meditations? Join me on OnlyFans →https://talksexwithannette Subscribe to my e-newsletter: https://she-explores-life.kit.com/e9760c390c  The viral lemon-shaped toy everyone’s talking about — get 25% off with code ANNETTE25 at https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/hello-nancy-lem 🍋  Use code EXPLORES15 for 15% off lovehoney.com Head to Only Fans or https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/ to join. 15% Off Eyeoflove.com with Code LRT15 Support the show Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@annettebenedetti Connect with us We are on all the socials: TikTok: @TalkSexwithAnnette Annette's Insta: @Annette Benedetti My OF: @talksexwithannette FB: @TalksexwithAnnette Website: https://talksexwithannette.com Cheers!

    47 min
  4. 3 Positions That Actually Help Female Orgasms

    JAN 27

    3 Positions That Actually Help Female Orgasms

    Send us a text In this episode of Talk Sex with Annette, I’m breaking down three specific positions that are more orgasm-friendly by design—because they support anatomy, nervous system regulation, and clitoral engagement instead of rushing straight to penetration and hoping for the best. And I want to be clear right from the start:  This episode exists because my audience voted for it. Every week, I run a poll on my YouTube channel where you help decide which how-to I cover next.  If you want a say in future topics, make sure you’re subscribed on YouTube and signed up for my e-newsletter—that’s where the voting happens. In this episode, you’ll learn: How angle, pacing, and connection dramatically change orgasm likelihoodThree positions that support female orgasms without relying on speed or forceHow to use eye contact, sensual touch, and clitoral stimulation without breaking flowThis episode is for women, their partners, and anyone tired of feeling like orgasms are random, rare, or out of reach. Links to products in the podcast We-Vibe Melt 2 (Discount EXPLORES15 15% Off): https://wevibe-north-america.sjv.io/bOezRb The Peach Toy Review (Discount EXPLORES15 15% Off): https://youtu.be/tm6r87jv6Ps The Peach Toy: https://talksexwithannette.com/go/womanizer-peach 👉 Join me for 365 Days of Orgasms Journey Here: https://talksexwithannette.com/365-days-of-orgasms/ 🎧 Listen to more episodes of Talk Sex with Annette: https://www.youtube.com/@talksexwithannette 🔞 Want demos, how-tos & guided self-pleasure meditations? Join me on OnlyFans →https://talksexwithannette Subscribe to my e-newsletter: https://she-explores-life.kit.com/e9760c390c  The viral lemon-shaped toy everyone’s talking about — get 25% off with code ANNETTE25 at https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/hello-nancy-lem 🍋  15% Off Eyeoflove.com with Code LRT15 Support the show Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@annettebenedetti Connect with us We are on all the socials: TikTok: @TalkSexwithAnnette Annette's Insta: @Annette Benedetti My OF: @talksexwithannette FB: @TalksexwithAnnette Website: https://talksexwithannette.com Cheers!

    15 min
  5. Giving Head With Confidence: How to Blow His Mind! With Girls Gone Deep!

    JAN 21

    Giving Head With Confidence: How to Blow His Mind! With Girls Gone Deep!

    Send us a text We talk about blowjobs like they’re a performance — like there’s a “right way,” a secret move, or something you’re supposed to magically know. But most advice doesn’t actually make oral sex feel better.  It just makes people anxious. In this episode, I’m joined by Girls Gone Deep for a real, explicit, shame-free conversation about giving oral sex that actually feels incredible — without porn scripts, pressure, or performative nonsense. We talk about:  – Where confidence actually comes from – Why enthusiasm matters more than technique – Communication during oral (yes, during) – Givers vs receivers: etiquette, consent, and boundaries – Rhythm, variety, and why switching it up matters – Circumcised vs uncircumcised anatomy – Positions that make oral easier (and hotter) – What people get wrong about “being good at it” This episode is explicit, honest, and deeply sex-positive — meant to help you enjoy giving and receiving without anxiety or shame. Find Girls Gone Deep On Their Website: https://www.girlsgonedeep.com/ Find them on Instagram at: https://www.instagram.com/girlsgonedeeppod 👉 Join me for 365 Days of Orgasms Journey Here: https://talksexwithannette.com/365-days-of-orgasms/ 🎧 Listen to more episodes of Talk Sex with Annette: https://www.youtube.com/@talksexwithannette 🔞 Want demos, how-tos & guided self-pleasure meditations? Join me on OnlyFans →https://talksexwithannette.com/talksexwithme Subscribe to my e-newsletter: https://she-explores-life.ck.page/e976  The viral lemon-shaped toy everyone’s talking about — get 25% off with code ANNETTE25 at https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/hello-nancy-lem 🍋  Use code EXPLORES15 for 15% off lovehoney.com Head to Only Fans or https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/ to join. 15% Off With my Code Annette15 at myfirmtech.com/annettebenedetti 15% Off Eyeoflove.com with Code LRT15 Support the show Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@annettebenedetti Connect with us We are on all the socials: TikTok: @TalkSexwithAnnette Annette's Insta: @Annette Benedetti My OF: @talksexwithannette FB: @TalksexwithAnnette Website: https://talksexwithannette.com Cheers!

    1h 3m
  6. 9 Foreplay Moves Most Guys Skip (And Why Foreplay “Sometimes” Works)

    JAN 19

    9 Foreplay Moves Most Guys Skip (And Why Foreplay “Sometimes” Works)

    Send us a text Foreplay shouldn’t feel inconsistent. If you’ve ever taken your time and still felt like her body wasn’t fully responding — this episode is for you. And if you’ve ever wanted to be into it but felt tense or distracted instead, this one’s for you too. In this episode of Talk Sex with Annette, I break down 9 foreplay moves most guys skip — not because they don’t care, but because no one ever taught them how arousal actually works. We’ll talk about why foreplay “sometimes works,” what’s really happening in the nervous system when desire shuts down, and how to lead her body into arousal without rushing, pressure, or performance. This isn’t about tricks or trying harder.  It’s about pacing, presence, and learning how to keep desire open instead of overwhelming it. Here is the link to my Yoni Massage tutorial: https://talksexwithannette.com/how-to-give-a-yoni-massage/ Here's How to touch a clit: https://talksexwithannette.com/20-incredible-ways-to-touch-a-c**t/ 👉 Join me for 365 Days of Orgasms Journey Here: https://talksexwithannette.com/365-days-of-orgasms/ 🎧 Listen to more episodes of Talk Sex with Annette: https://www.youtube.com/@talksexwithannette 🔞 Want demos, how-tos & guided self-pleasure meditations? Join me on OnlyFans →https://talksexwithannette Subscribe to my e-newsletter: https://she-explores-life.ck.page/e976  The viral lemon-shaped toy everyone’s talking about — get 25% off with code ANNETTE25 at https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/hello-nancy-lem 🍋  15% Off Eyeoflove.com with Code LRT15 Support the show Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@annettebenedetti Connect with us We are on all the socials: TikTok: @TalkSexwithAnnette Annette's Insta: @Annette Benedetti My OF: @talksexwithannette FB: @TalksexwithAnnette Website: https://talksexwithannette.com Cheers!

    13 min
  7. Solo Sex Is Exploding—and It’s Making People Better Lovers

    JAN 14

    Solo Sex Is Exploding—and It’s Making People Better Lovers

    Send us a text In this episode of Talk Sex with Annette, we explore why solo pleasure is becoming a major cultural shift—and how it’s actually improving partnered sex, not replacing it. Joined by Sarah Tomchesson, Certified Intimacy Coach and Director of Marketing at Magic Wand, we break down insights from the 2026 Sexual Wellness Trends Report based on data from 1,000 participants. The findings reveal how solo sex supports desire, confidence, nervous system regulation, and deeper intimacy with partners. We cover: Why solo sex is increasing across generationsHow pleasure-focused practices improve partnered sexWhy orgasm isn’t the goal—and why that leads to better sexSimple ways to start a solo pleasure practice that supports real connectionThis conversation blends culture, science, and real-life experience to reframe pleasure as a powerful tool for better sex and stronger relationships. 👉 Join me for 365 Days of Orgasms Journey Here: https://talksexwithannette.com/365-days-of-orgasms/ 🎧 Listen to more episodes of Talk Sex with Annette: https://www.youtube.com/@talksexwithannette 🔞 Want demos, how-tos & guided self-pleasure meditations? Join me on OnlyFans →https://talksexwithannette Subscribe to my e-newsletter: https://she-explores-life.ck.page/e976 Use code EXPLORES15 for 15% off all Womanizer Products at Womanizer.com. Get your intimacy questions answered, enjoy erotic audio readings and more. https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/  The viral lemon-shaped toy everyone’s talking about — get 25% off with code ANNETTE25 at https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/hello-nancy-lem 🍋  Use code EXPLORES15 for 15% off lovehoney.com Head to Only Fans or https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/ to join. 15% Off With my Code Annette15 at myfirmtech.com/annettebenedetti 15% Off Eyeoflove.com with Code LRT15 Support the show Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@annettebenedetti Connect with us We are on all the socials: TikTok: @TalkSexwithAnnette Annette's Insta: @Annette Benedetti My OF: @talksexwithannette FB: @TalksexwithAnnette Website: https://talksexwithannette.com Cheers!

    58 min
  8. Can’t Stay Hard? Here’s How to Still Satisfy Her (Women Remember This)

    JAN 13

    Can’t Stay Hard? Here’s How to Still Satisfy Her (Women Remember This)

    Send us a text Losing an erection during intimacy is far more common than people admit — but what you do next is what actually defines great lovers. In this episode, I walk you through exactly what to do when an erection is lost, how to stay confident and connected in the moment, and how to continue sex in a way that still deeply satisfies her. Because sex isn’t penetration-based — it’s presence-based. This is a grounded, science-informed how-to that shows you how to: Respond calmly instead of panicking when arousal dropsStay erotically present instead of pulling awayShift the moment so intimacy doesn’t collapseRedefine sex beyond penetrationSatisfy her in ways that women actually rememberWe’ll also talk about why pressure shuts arousal down, how adaptability builds desire, and why confidence isn’t about performance — it’s about leadership in unexpected moments. 🔗 Full Yoni Massage How-To: https://youtu.be/r_GBSSvdvWw 🔗 FirmTech Ring (with discount Annette15): https://myfirmtech.com/annettebenedetti 🔗 FirmTech Ring Review: https://youtu.be/n9nCYX3VAZ4 This episode is for anyone who wants to feel more confident, connected, and unforgettable in bed — even when things don’t go exactly as planned. If this helped reframe something for you, consider sharing it with someone who needs to hear it. 👉 Join me for 365 Days of Orgasms Journey Here: https://talksexwithannette.com/365-days-of-orgasms/ 🎧 Listen to more episodes of Talk Sex with Annette: https://www.youtube.com/@talksexwithannette 🔞 Want demos, how-tos & guided self-pleasure meditations? Join me on OnlyFans →https://talksexwithannette Subscribe to my e-newsletter: https://she-explores-life.ck.page/e9760c390c 👉 Get even more on my Substack: https://talksexwithannette.substack.com/  The viral lemon-shaped toy everyone’s talking about — get 25% off with code ANNETTE25 at https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/hello-nancy-lem 🍋  15% Off Eyeoflove.com with Code LRT15 Support the show Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@annettebenedetti Connect with us We are on all the socials: TikTok: @TalkSexwithAnnette Annette's Insta: @Annette Benedetti My OF: @talksexwithannette FB: @TalksexwithAnnette Website: https://talksexwithannette.com Cheers!

    16 min
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Talk Sex with Annette Where desire meets disruption—and pleasure becomes power. Hosted by sex and intimacy coach Annette Benedetti, Talk Sex with Annette is the go-to podcast for bold, unfiltered conversations at the intersection of sexuality, identity, and empowerment. From kink to connection, self-love to sexual healing, Annette dives into the topics most people are too afraid to touch—with expert guests, raw storytelling, and a feminist lens that challenges shame and reclaims pleasure. Think smart, sexy, and radically real: this is the cultural conversation around sex that’s long overdue. 

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  • Creator
    Talk Sex with Annette
  • Years Active
    2021 - 2026
  • Episodes
    356
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © 2026 Talk Sex with Annette
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    Talk Sex with Annette

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